Why The Narcissist Discard IS Permanent!

In this short I discuss when the narcissist discard IS permanent!

Why the narcissist comes back after a discard may be a question you have asked yourself before. You might also wonder what to do when the narcissist comes back. If you have been in a relationship with a narcissist or someone with narcissistic personality disorder, you may have noticed the narcissist came back even after the devaluation and discard stage. So that might have you ask “is the narcissist discard permanent?”. Narcissistic relationships are marked by emotional abuse and they are toxic relationships. There is manipulation and control. The narcissistic will use various control tactics that include gaslighting, idealization, and love bombing to keep you in the relationship. However, during the devaluation stage, or devaluation phase, the narcissist will start to act very differently and can go into the narcissistic rage due to narcissistic injury. The narcissist will blame-shift and project to make it about you and not about them. People with narcissism are not capable of experiencing blame because it brings up shame so they deflect onto their partners. The narcissist discard or the narcissist final discard is meant by the narcissist to completely rid you out of their life. You no longer serve as narcissistic supply for them so they find someone else who does.

As the narcissist is preparing for the narcissist discard, they may give you the silent treatment in preparation for the discard. After the discard, you may have wondered will the narcissist come back after discard. Or, the narcissist came back and you wonder how they could come back after being so mean. In this video I will discuss how you can ensure the discard is permanent through preventing hoovering and using the grey rock technique or grey rock method as a way to ensure the narcissist discard is final. They might engage in a smear campaign against you but you don’t have to give in!

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[angelacorrao]

Actually it's a blessing to be separated from Satan.

[titanniki]

I'm not Trash she didn't Discard me SHE SET ME FREE!!

[christineanderson]

The way they behave at the end of the relationship shows you who they really are.

[christopherleubner]

They will do anything they can to destroy you during the true discard.😢

[margaretjohnston]

DONT BE USED BY ANYONE, THEY MADE THERE CHOICE LET THEM LIVE WITH IT.

[desertangelfish]

You have won if you've achieved permanent discard from one of these demons! 😂🤣

[jessa]

It's permanent when YOU make that decision. They made their choice, you make your decision.

[andnowyouknow]

*Another reason why they never return is by returning, they admit 'defeat'.* At least in their minds this is. So for them, it's best to stay away than to show you that they haven't surpassed you in life. Especially when you truly see you succeed in life.

[deidrelivingston]

So true! When they are done with you, they are done with you. You are so much better off after you heal from the hurt.

[janebraun]

This helps. I exposed him, not even intending to. He flipped and passively aggressively discarded me, just like that. I just had merely deleted my post, after his confusing message. I never intended to discard him! Their minds are in some sort of dark place.

[almohvn]

YOU WANT THEM to do this.. otherwise, you have to deal with stalking, hoovering, etc.. Let them "win".. you already won a long long time ago!

[dclarke]

Thank you for the powerful message! A discard from a narcissist is a gift!

[natashadickson]

"Now is the time to not allow them back in." ❤

[samia]

You won cause you are not them! You actually have the ability to be in a loving, supportive, real relationship with real people who will love you back and you can reciprocate it back genuinely.

[doranvee]

This explains alot! I don't allow her to make me her punching bag anymore. Her new supply is her puppy, and she can play games with him.

[danielwatkins]

One red flag is they have been married several times and dumped..

[CL-doeq]

Amen ! 🙏🏽 You built those boundaries up baby ! And it’s a blessing. I tell people all the time a narcissist will teach you how to love yourself better and heal and all areas. I know when we meet them they are like hell, but if we look at it, the reason why they came is because we needed to build better boundaries so we won’t ever allow this happen again, not just in romantic, but also professional and personal relationships as well Again, I’m not happy that this happened. I wish I could’ve learned to stand up for myself and have a voice without going through this, but I am glad that I finally got it down now pact

[Ocrilat]

I did the discarding. I know she expected me to come crawling back, and beg to become her slave again. It's never happening. There is one way to make it permanent...and that's to walk away and never look back.

[clydesmith]

The discard only becomes permanent when you make it permanent. They will continue to come back.

[wolfhernedez]

Yep this is a definite permanent discard… 2nd narcissist ex. And if the devil keeps bringing em. Ima keep knocking em out! 🤕💥 🥊 🏆
The swords from my tongue of truth is unstoppable!