Do Not Normalize Bad Behavior

Dr. Phil’s series, Toxic Personalities in the Real World, continues delving into borderline personality disorder, which Dr. Phil says is “the most stigmatized disorder of all.”

“One day, they’ll be full of vim and vigor, and confidence, and the next day, they’re wondering why they’re even in this world,” Dr. Phil says of the 18 million people affected by borderline personality disorder. “If you’re living with one of these people, there are a lot of dos and don’ts.” Find out what they are.

This series addresses mental health disorders; how to recognize them, establish boundaries, and how to coexist with those in your life who may have it with tools and guidelines that can help minimize damage to oneself and loved ones.

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[elriaahossivo]

It's true, they disrespect themselves with their own behaviour of disrespecting others. They even blame others for their own evil thoughts and doings.

[monslay]

This man has taught me ALOT on how to deal with my abusive father and abusive sister.

[wanderingfree]

Don't jump into other people's drama, especially when they create it

[heatherdawnpoetry]

I also apply this video to having boundaries against Narcissists and users. I have had a friend for 10 years who has been using me and taking advantage of my friendship... lying to me also. Have had to cut off the friendship.Protecting ourselves is so important. It hurts to let go...but it hurts way worse to hang on and be disrespected and used.🥺

[estherpennington]

This is great advice. I have BPD and was on meds and in therapy, but until my partner stopped enabling me, I couldn't improve. As much as I hate to say it, what he's saying is the TRUTH

[philipmillard]

Very difficult to set boundaries with BPD sufferers. They don't really do bounderies. They will flip with rage if you try or at best just become very childlike.

[tracytritle]

Walk away & get peace. Save yourself🙏🙏

[cymbolichuman]

Standing up for yourself is hard. Don't take crap off of people
just because they suck.

[dlm]

Thank you Dr Phil for doing these videos on personality disorders. I've lived the nightmare. The amount of these troubled people have skyrocketed.

[irishrose]

NEVER do couples therapy with them!! The abuser needs their own sessions without the target. The target needs their own counseling. Couples therapy will NEVER work out.

[dee]

Yes don’t play the game, practice self care, set boundaries. I love the three c’s you gave us you didn’t cause it, you can’t change it, you can’t cure it. I was wiped out and was a prisoner for a life time by being controlled by this personality type and narcissistic personality type in reference to family members and others because I always was the nice, caring type. I am so glad God is using you in my life Dr. Phil I needed to hear all of this big time in order to get inner peace and regain my life back by setting boundaries with others who exhibit these behaviors towards me and not to fall into playing the game any longer. Like it says in the Bible “we have to guard our heart (by setting boundaries) for it is the well spring of our life.” God bless you Dr. Phil you Robin and your family abundantly! 🙌🏻☀️

[maleafriedley]

Thank you for helping me understand that I can demonstrate love and at the same time not tolerate or participate in the behavior. I’m not being mean. I’m protecting my own mental health.

[eagleeye]

Once one of my neighbors realized she wasn't getting any further services or goods from me, she 86'd me. I did give her a good excuse however. I told her what I thought of her boyfriend, (because she stays with him but wanted to complain to me about him, ) so there is that. At first it hurt, but then I realized that she did me a big favor. Don't settle for people who are users. They'll betray you every time, once you quit giving.

[haliec]

This brought up so much emotion for me. I did normalise his addictions and also paranoia. I thought he was accusing me of all sorts because he never had a girlfriend he could trust and I made excuses for him and his awful, mean behaviour. It brought me down so badly. Nothing I did or said ever convinced him of my love and loyalty. I had to leave and I did. I couldn’t be with someone who convinced themselves that I was all of those nasty things. I know who I am and now I know I deserve so much more than he could ever give.

[kathleenr.]

I appreciate you so much Dr. Phil. You have done more for the human spirit than any other person. You have helped so many over the years. I cant imagine having you as a father, friend etc. Your just so good! Say hi to Robin for from Orange Ca.

[kozubart]

If you ever find yourself around others who act in ways you do not agree with, that is an opportunity for you to sit down with yourself and ask yourself what YOU will accept from others' behavior ( and WHY you will not accept whatever is wrong ). You'll learn more about yourself and what you stand for. Don't be afraid of standing up for yourself and what is right.

[gloriacoleman]

Thank you, Dr. Phil, for educating informing people about toxic behavior and to defend your life
and way of life.

[pretty_troll]

🤣 0:26 .. i will pay serious cash to watch Dr. Phil get drunk on his podcast & talk shit about everything
🙏

[AspergersSyndromeDaily]

A serious problem is that others believe their lies

[wordswordswords]

I think saying that it's not good to normalize bad behavior and listening to your gut is spot on. It's hard when you grow up in families with these dysfunctional people because as a kid you have to go along to survive and it's a hard habit to break, it gets so hard wired into you. Even though I understand a lot of this intellectually, I have a hard time changing my inner emotional world and reactions.