The Types Of Women Most Likely To Cheat (According To Psychology)

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[ProtestantengLoko-Loko]

1. Low self esteem or dependent
2. Lack of impulse control
3. Narcissistic tendencies
4. Emotionally Unavailable
5. Easily bored
6. She's cheated in the past

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[josephstevens]

Cheating is such a horrible, hurtful betrayal, regardless who does it.

[shadowfyre]

Always remember, it’s not the first time they cheated, it’s the first time you caught them.

[NormanInAustralia]

Hi, Courtney. I'm an anaesthetist (anesthesiologist in American) in Australia and I can confirm that a lot of affairs happen in the hospital system. The reasons are un-surprising when you think about them. The pattern I often see is a male surgeon or anaesthetist having an affair with a female nurse. Surgeons and anesthetists work long hours and often spend more time with their co-workers than with their families. They don't have much time to meet people outside of their workplace. People with narcissist traits are more likely to pursue well-paid, highly regarded professions such as medicine and are likely to be susceptible to flattery and attention. Due to studying and working hard during their teens and early adulthood, they've often missed out on opportunities to date and might feel that they could actually attract a more desirable partner. If they married before they were fully qualified (highly paid) specialists, then this might be true. At the same time, there are plenty of young, attractive nurses who, due to the limits of their profession, have limited opportunities for career advancement / income growth. They're often in relationships with low to middle-income men who they met before they were working closely with doctors. Some see high-income doctors as an opportunity to improve their lifestyle. Sometimes these workplace romances endure but often one of the participants tires of the other person and moves on to a new affair with a different co-worker. I expect that you would find a similar dynamic in other professions where highly-paid, hard-working men spend time with attractive lower-income younger women.

[epa]

I went on a first date with a woman who threw out so many red flags it was mind boggling. "How much do you make? Is that net or gross? Are you a manager? How many square feet is your house?" These were all on the first date, mind you. Sure as hell she would have cheated. There was no second date with her.

[pjalex]

My ex cheated for the same reason you mentioned early in your video, she said she “wasn’t getting the attention she needed from me”.

Funny thing is, I had expressed for years that I was not getting the effort and attention I needed in the relationship from her, but I never cheated.

It was only an issue when it affected her. Selfish people will do inherently selfish things. It is their nature.

[Fenrir]

I remember an ex and a woman I dated who had concerning thoughts on my views on cheating. Basically they didn't like my ideas... It's simple. If you cheat, you're cut out of my life. Point, blank, period. There's no discussion. I don't care for the reason. I don't date cheaters. Take your second chance with someone else. My ex had a little of that online validation need. The girl I was dating had very poor impulse control. So what you're saying Courtney certainly checks out for me.

[TSierra]

If he/she cheats, he/she belongs to the streets!

[ChrisW]

I personally consider cheating in the same category as physical violence. It is never the answer to your problems. It always makes matters worse. People who resort to these responses do so because they're not smart enough to find a better solution. There is always, always, always better solutions than cheating and violence.

[posidon]

My ex-wife cheated on me with about half a dozen different guys after she found out she was pregnant with our second kid and cheated the entire pregnancy. I found out after she left me and about a couple months before the kid was born. She fit the description of a narcissist perfectly.

[Handle]

If she has a dating app, even if it's to meet "friends", let her go. That shiz is like poison to the soul.

[farawayranger]

Courtney, I wish you made this video sooner. I proposed to my now ex when she displayed a HANDFUL of these warning signs. She also works in medicine. This video is so crazy accurate it’s scary, prophetic almost. At least we broke up before we got married and had any kids. Thank you for creating these videos - you have a lot of good and accurate information and approach topics with zero bias.

[INoIFearIGaming]

I'm honestly very surprised that a father wasn't brought up. Women that grew up without a father are very high risk.

[mateuszmazurek]

You're so right Courtney! That explains why I was cheated on, the girl I was with was lonely insecure and later I found out she has BPD, she cheated very quickly because of perceived rejection or something.

[TRC]

Just end the relationship if you are unhappy with the guy or yourself.

[idkwhattonamethis]

I had a girl I was casually seeing and I found out she cheated on her bf with me and a few others(at least 3 men). Then she thought it was a me problem that I said "no" when she asked if I wanted to date her seriously. I had told her that if she wanted to keep seeing me she needed to break up with her bf and she did but I also told her it was never going to be a thing between us. I mean, she was (as far as I know) dating me exclusivity, but I wasn't about to commit to her. I did feel kind of bad about it but it was the best choice.

[photomanmitchtvr]

My ex an RN, yup she cheated. And being in the medical field you get to see the hypergamy, the people that know, know what I’m talking about. Thank you!

[scotter]

"Easily bored" is a red flag for me for another reason: I tend to wonder if an easily bored person does not have a rich inner environment or is lower in self-awareness or ability to self-entertain than I might prefer to be close to.

[Harikejn]

Important things as well: 0:40 (First thing - Low self-esteem or dependent), 1:53 (Second thing - Lack of impulse control), 2:55 (Third thing - Narcissistic tendencies), 3:46 (Fourth thing - Emotionally unavailable), 4:37 (Fifth thing - Easily bored), 5:52 (totally agree with that as well), 6:10 (Sixth thing - She's cheated in the past), 7:10 (I'm not so sure about that, but who am I to judge), and 7:58 (to summarize all the mentioned things).
Generally, the deeds are crucial in all relations as well, and not the words. Why? Because the person can say one thing, think on second thing, and at the end he or she does some other third thing as well. The deeds are the things that can decide that we can either stay or we can either leave from our partner, or partners as well. And that can be used in any life situations as well.
I have reed somewhere one thing, and it goes like this (you can correct me if I'm wrong): The loved one's who loves us will find a million reasons to leave us, but there will be always one reason why will they stay with us.
I have to ask two questions as well. Before I even start, I would like to apologizes if someone would understand as an insult, or maybe as a stupid question. And I ask cause of curiosity.
But how would men behave if they feel lonely?
Will they also cheat if they feel lonely?


Thank you very much for any reply, and also thank you talking about this problem, and topic as well.

[AndyJMacLeod]

Female infidelity has been rising quickly for the past 30 years. Now it is at the same level as male infidelity for the first time in history. BUT, the worrying thing is: there’s no sign yet of a “limiting factor” so it is likely to keep rising for the foreseeable future.

Women have every opportunity to cheat. They are constantly hit on, and they spend more time with flirty coworkers than with their spouses. (Hence the term “work husband” - such a disrespectful term to their life partner)… They get thousands of “matches” on dating apps, and guys hitting them up on social media.

Meanwhile, their boyfriends/partners are forgotten, neglected, manipulated or even abused. They are made to raise other men’s children without ever realising it.

The world’s a mess. But you cannot fully blame promiscuous women. Thirsty men, and simps, have given all their power to women and robbed men of quality relationships.

For society to move forward, men need to stop chasing everything in a skirt and look at a woman’s character more critically. Watch-out for “red flags” and don’t be a chump (like I was).