Jordan Peterson: Do this when Friends ignore you.

Jordan Peterson: Do this when Friends ignore you.

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[JimmyJaxJellyStax]

Absolutely! STOP talking to them if they have made a GREAT effort to avoid you.

[jessebradford]

You ignore me when I’m supposed to be a friend to you? Ok, BYE!!!

[missadda]

Everyone is nice until you get to know them, people are overrated.

[MRR]

This is my favorite verse in the Bible, Don’t cast your pearls before swine. Keep what’s important to yourself. Only share what’s important to the ones who appreciate you.

[pissed_off_krab]

I did this to my group of neglecting friends and I figured out that they suck

[Lost_Cohort.]

Everyone I know is ignoring me and it hurts because all I do is be nice to them. I feel like an alien in my own body or I'm broken or something🥺

[wendypoet]

I figured that when people notice that you're complete by yourself and that you're your own person, most often they see no need of including you. This is because most people thrive on having a part in making someone else complete or needing someone to make them complete. You being complete by yourself may even irritate them. It's about insecurity, jealousy, and many other negative feelings. When you don't understand you'll start doubting yourself for no reason. A tip: Love yourself and become your own best friend without being obnoxious. They will start admiring you even if they won't admit it. And eventually your opinions will matter. But don't expect them to tell or show you that.

[simmy]

I started watching and I felt and saw them acting strange so I pulled back am sure they were talking about me behind my back

[lilyjade]

One word is enough for the wise. Dont waste your time on people who disregard you and your words because even if you dont see it like that, it starts to turn into disrespect.

[kaleidojess]

I speak with a calm voice and don't feel the need to yell often so I'm ignored. I stop talking at that point. I think pulling back as Jordan Peterson said is the best way in most cases.

[eclatshwartzbaumcybertune]

I feel like i have to prove my worth to them, i do have confidence- but them ignoring me kills my confidence.

[christianmattia]

People come and go....so hit the road....

[EmunahFL]

He's not lying. Stop talking to them. If anyone asks me why I'm so quiet, I'll tell them flat out, "I don't cast my pearls before swine." If they look shocked, I'll explain further, "I find that people don't usually listen to me, so why bother?"

[Youtubeuser]

If people ignore you for no reason, pretend like they don’t even exist. Trust me I’ve been there and it works… the fact that they care enough to even avoid or ignore you is already a weak trait of theirs 😂 so u already won

[zackv]

I learned overtime the reason people, even friends will talk over you or ignore what you're saying is because of two main reasons which both have different/opposite solutions and sources. 1. You are not enunciating or speaking up enough and they've learned to not take what you say seriously. Look them right in their eyes and continue to speak. Don't stop even if others continue speaking. Continue to do this in your circle and you'll actually teach them to listen to you over a short period. The sadder reason is 2. They do not value you as much as you value them. Which is where you stop talking and walk away. Speak, but if you are interrupted. Stop. Walk away. Do this until they ask what's wrong. When they do, tell them transparently the reason. Say, whenever I speak, no one listens, so I'm done talking.

[BillyTheKidOfficialYT]

needed to hear this, some of my friends have been acting more distant with me lately ... annoying as hell but i dont wanna be that person you know

[johnblue]

He is so right lol I been doing that for years. I learned that myself with a group of shitty friends I used to have

[hevnervals]

I cleaned house based on this. Cut 70% of my decade old friends

[abd]

Start watching them instead and pull back. Best advice ever! Sod them if they don't have enough respect to listen to you. Don't waste your time trying to please them either. Please yourself instead. So simple!

[alienman]

People are INTENSE CREATURES OF HABIT. Instead of burning the bridge with that connection- just sit at your side and wait. Watch. Observe. ❤ then you can avoid the emotional BS and make a healthy choice.