Get Him To Chase You (Matthew Hussey, Get The Guy)

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For many years I've talked about women "making the first move".

However, until now, there's something I've failed to clarify…

It's a key piece that will allow you to avoid the #1 biggest mistake women make when talking to guys, it'll show you how to get him doing the chasing, as well as create a "push-pull" effect to skyrocket his attraction.

You'll have fun with this one!

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[MaybeLily]

Why can't I just bump into the love of my life and not have to play these games

[jerilynmorris]

Between two people, the reality is, you're either running, or chasing. The roles can change daily.. it's exhausting ..and when you're over 40 and still dating, it's like .."are we gonna do this or not, I've got shit to do" haha

[TheLovely]

I give up. I'm getting a dog, and calling it a day. Lol.
Update: I got the guy, but keeping the dog.🤣

[chelles]

I can honestly say I’m so confused now.

Talk to him, don’t talk to him, stay near him, don’t stay near him, chase him, nope let him chase, be a shark no be a dolphin ...

I’m very confused and exhausted and the date hasn’t even happened! 😂

[vamanosninja]

"If you don't leave you won't know if he's truly attracted to you." That's the summary of the video. Also he has good hair here.

[Teyakarina]

people have been saying "i hate these dating games, just be yourself". these actually aren't dating "games". he simply breaks down human behaviour and the way we interact/perceive things for those who are unable to be aware of these things on their own. human interaction in a sense is entirely a huge game in itself anyways though lol

[Communitychoud]

He chases you but once you like him back he doesn’t want you no more lol

[Jane-vwom]

He talks and talks and talks when the point he’s trying to say is: don’t come across as desperate. End of story.

[ShellieTBoss]

This is why relationships are so hard because of all the steps to remember. Don't be clingy . Walk away when necessary. I miss those days when we were kids met someone and said. Hey let's go play and decided you were friends for life. Now it's you have got to earn me to be my friend. Geeze.

[Fernwehish]

Tips to get a guy to chase you: Steal his goddamn iPhone.

[atme]

Imagine being these girls and then seeing this video the next day

[eleanorbulgorash]

Why can't I just meet the person and we just fall in love and its happily ever after.

[DorieBee-BARElynecessary]

So, let me get this straight: I'm at a bar, I muster up the courage to go talk to a guy who's there with his friends and I (little recap of your previous videos): let my voice fluctuate, have an open body language but don't turn towards him entirely,  I'm playful and cheeky but not overly sexy or obvious, I don't give standard answers to standard questions, while apparently making sure I don't take up too much of this guy's time or I'll seem desperate and too eager plus I'll deprive him of 'the chase', which most guys don't go on unless you explicitly show them you're interested. If he then decides you're worth some effort you need to let him call you or decide when he wants to see you again but you can't go for dinner, to the cinema or drinks because it's cliché and it puts too much focus on the both of you. I just can't ... And then people wonder why I f*ing hate dates!  I'll be on my sofa if you need me ...

[Lily-xjuf]

The point of this video is "Be a dolphin, because dolphins are fun"
that's why I subscribed haha

[sonali]

I am a naturally social person, and I approach whomever, whenever I want to. But I don't like these games. I think the more simple and natural thing to reach the bliss point in such a situation is:
1. To gather courage, talk to the person. See how he responds.
2. Based on his response from the conversation that follows, you can know whether he is as into the conversation as you are. If he is giving short, uninterested answers, leave dude. I can get someone better.

And if he wants more of your attention and time, he will approach you the second time. As simple as that. This covers the chase as well as not being too clingy.

[Cutechoclate]

I'm so proud of myself haha. I am only 20 and in the past went I went to parties, I would approach guys and start a conversation, then go talk to other people. I knew that if someone truly found me attractive, they would come find me at a later point and start another conversation. This is exactly how it works

[janesilverstar]

I'm a shy, slightly prudish, Jane Austen believer of romance, awkward caterpillar. I want to be a social butterfly!

[lovelove-jxqt]

"Don't be a leach. Be a shark... In fact don't even be a shark... Don't be drab. Be a soft shell crab." - Matthew Hussey

[onetuxedocat]

Instructions unclear now I’m hanging upside down in a McDonald’s bathroom

[prove_it]

Absolutely love how you clarified the clear line between luring and chasing. It is no necessary to know this basic principle of attraction that without the fear of losing, there can be no attraction. Even the ones who chase all the time feel degraded and fruxtrated and the ones being chased feel robbed and annoyed. 'Push-pull', I like that. It's amazing, so simple and yet so true. Thank you so much!