How To Be More Interesting | Courtney Ryan

In this video, I go over some ways you can be more interesting. Implementing these things into your life will not only make you come across as more interesting, charismatic and authentic to the people around you, it will also make you a well rounded individual on the path to living a happier and more fulfilling life.

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[siowmingfeng]

1) insatiable curiousity
2) learn a new skill
3) travel/ cultural immersion
4) finding interest/ passions
5) be a good story teller
6) don't be lazy
7) become well read

[GEORGIOARCADE]

My thing is to guys who hear this; don't do things just to impress girls or people in general. Do things to make you feel fulfilled and happy that you are curious about. Sometimes some girls may not be into that; but if she likes your character; she will wanna know what interests you.

This is why i like smart, talkative women and people like that in general. I appreciate you trying to help broaden our horizons Courtney. My new skill i learned recently was cooking salmon on the grill and new ways to edit my YouTube videos. Not as challenging but fun 😄

[Razear]

I really like Jordan Peterson's 9th rule in 12 Rules for Life: "assume the person you're talking to knows something you don't." This is such a useful outlook to have when engaging in a conversation with someone. Instead of trying to score points by making the interaction contentious, go into it with an open mind and be willing to have your pre-existing positions challenged.

[anthonystike]

Being well read also will go a long way toward learning how to be a story teller. The best writers are some of the best story tellers out there.

[webst]

Simple answer: Get out of your comfort zone for trying new things and develop communication skills..which is also putting your self out 😂..nice points tho

[ashd]

You're a breath of fresh air in the often toxic world of dating and personal development. Just subscribed, and I'm looking forward to learning more about your points of view. Thanks Courtney!

[watchmanonthewall]

I have found that in general, people LOVE talking about themselves With a passion. Can't tell you how many conversations I've have where I am curious and ask lots of questions, which gives the other person lots of opportunities to talk further about themselves. At the end of those conversations, they are excited about me and about the conversation, not even realizing what just happened. How can they be excited about me, when they did not learn a thing about me during the entire conversation? They are just ecstatic that they got to tell me all about themselves. I do not mind doing this for one or two conversations, because I do want to learn about people, but as the relationship develops, it becomes a turn off, because self centered-ness is revealed in their personalities. And I cannot be around that, long term.

[davec]

Can I just throw some appreciation out for how perfectly clear your speaking is? Every word is spoken with clear cadence and pronunciation, great tone etc. It's not very often you come across that even in "professional" spoken entertainment settings. Bravo 👏

[MegaStarrman]

I’ve always said, “To be interesting, get interested.” I’m an introvert (INFJ), but I’ve hiked up the back of Half-Dome, piloted a 60ft ship under the Golden Gate Bridge three times, been in a flying helicopter and hot air balloon twice each. I’m an English major, with a focus on 19th century romanticism and ancient world literature, and also love going to the theatre, taking acting classes, and constantly study anything artistic. I enjoy martial arts and playing games of all kinds. One of my favorite moments was rowing a boat out in a bay during a thunderstorm, also the first time I held my niece is still at the top of the life affirming moments. I have never run out of topics at a conversation, and people keep asking me for more stories. So my advice is do things that make you interested and people will take an interest in what you do.

[BrianBledsoe]

I'm guilty of always responding with "nothing" when asked about "what's going on.." and would only respond differently if I'm doing something immediate or extraordinary. Now I recognize how that can come across.

[prod.kashkari]

I read math and stats and computer science books because I’m a nerd and it interests me, I know it won’t be a topic of conversation with all women but I enjoy it so I keep doing it

[datingformensimplified]

The best thing you can ever do is just practice and don't give up until you loose all your fears and get comfortable. Every thing is about not giving up. After all that you can surely achieve what you want, it might be in life or relationship, just don't give up.

[niticold]

Listening sincerely is one of the best ways to become more interesting

[jbRoma]

Courtney doesn't only impress with her advice she also impresses with her fashion keeps me more interested in what she has to say big thumbs up Courtney

[PadyEos]

Took me a while to understand that listening to audiobooks or podcasts while I drive makes me a more calm and understanding driver without even taking into account the content that can make me a better person.

[moolis]

Storytelling is difficult for me because I get straight to the point. When I speak or address something, I don’t BS. Unfortunately this leaks over to story telling. It’s something I’m constantly working on.

[Crimlex.]

11:56 You are totally right. The worst enemy and obstacle of anyone is yourself. That's what I especially learned through my depression.

[madestro]

On your point about passions, it doesn't have to be the coolest thing ever. For example I love customizing and building keyboards, is that the most exciting thing for a woman? Probably not, but the passion that I put into it is enough to impress them

[Snarge]

Travel:
One thing I learned was that you can pick what appears to be a rather boring uninteresting area, but then do some research and then go visit that place. Everywhere has a story and history.
Smelterville Idaho? Why of course! Mining processing history. (I love that name for a town.) ;-)
People are open to hearing about unusual areas you've visited and what you've learned.

[teddychalgren]

Monday morning 25 October 2021.
Seven rules to becoming more interesting:
1. Insatiable curiosity.
2. Learn a new skill.
3. Travel/cultural immersion.
4. Finding your interests/passions. Try new things.
5. Be a good storyteller. Men who are good storytellers are more attractive to women.
6. Don't be lazy.
7. Become well-read (not just books). Cut out all the negativity.