5 Ways to Be More Interesting Immediately (Matthew Hussey)

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Well hello there from isolation.

Guess what? I made a new video for you. And I’m really proud of it. And I think you’re going to love it.

It’s about how to be a more interesting and engaging person in any interaction with someone through 5 quick principles you can instantly apply.

And since most of us are having long-distance conversations with everyone right now, the ability to talk effectively has become utterly essential.

These techniques will show you how to take your talking to another level.

And I know they work because I live by them.

They are relevant whether you’re in the same room with someone, sending voice notes to a new guy, or connecting with a love interest over the phone as we all social distance. (They also apply to business, so you get two for one in today’s video.)

Can’t wait to see what you think.

P.S. If you stay to the end of the video (you better) you’ll get exclusive access to free training that breaks down exactly how I create a connection in the first 5 minutes of interacting with someone. If there’s only one thing you do this week to improve yourself, make sure it’s watching this training.

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[ryushizu]

1:11 1) Voice your thoughts on a subject because it comes from YOUR perspective
2:21 2) Don't let your ego get in the way of being real
3:58 3) Share your passions, people will appreciate it
5:26 4) Your weaknesses are an asset: connect through vulnerability
6:41 5) Show interest/curiosity in things you don't know about

[IevaKambarovaite]

What an absolutely brilliant video. My interpretation of the big 5 💕
1. It's not about the message, but the messenger
2. Be vulnerable instead of being amazing
3. Own your inner geek
4. Share your weaknesses to connect with others
5. Be curious about what you don't know
Read more and be kind x
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[Savan]

1:11 1. Never be afraid to write about a place that you think has been had every last word written about it.
It's not your place until you write about it.

2:22 2. There is nothing more interesting than the truth. 3:20 What I'm always looking for as an editor is the sentence that says something like, "I'll never forget the day when.."

4:00 3. Go with your interest.
No area of life is stupid to someone who takes it seriously.
No subject is too specialized or too quirky if you make an honest connection with it when you write about it.

5:27 4. Your weakness is your strengths.

6:42 5. Approach situations where you feed out of your depth with sincere curiosity.

[HappyHarryX]

I decided to write a book during a long narcissistic marriage because I wanted to be remembered for something. There are so many books on machine quilting so I wanted to put my own spin on it. I wrote about how to create quilting designs and came up with my own unique process and ended up doing three books at once, two being hundreds of designs. I didn’t think I could write and didn’t have a plan until 3/4 way through the first book. I had so much fun and learnt a lot about myself particularly trusting my instincts. My husband couldn’t name my books, what they’re about or how many I wrote but it became about giving me confidence in myself and not trying to prove to him that I wasn’t useless (his daily phrase to me).

[giadapasqualetto]

Now I’ll have the sound “aha! A person!” everytime someone says something interesting lol

[stayslickwithkit]

There is nothing more interesting than someone who isn't afraid to say what they think, but articulate in a way that's constructive instead of criticism:)



Thanks Matthew for always being an inspiration for me and my channel :)

[AniWey]

"There is nothing more interesting than the truth" I completely agree that people try to find witty things to say but the truth itself is interesting. When you are brave and own your authenticity and vulnerability you are magnetic and people will be naturally drawn to you. When you are trying too hard, people can sense it!

[alyssapallen]

As a writer and a person trying to improve themselves I needed this.

[katarinabalazova]

Everytime I watch your video, I see world more clear and positive. Thanks to God for your existence.

[KMMHealy]

Moral of the story: Don’t be an extra in your own life.

I’m loving this writer advice translating over to life advice. Another book you might enjoy along the lines of this video is “Redshirts” by John Scalzi. It’s about a Star Trek-esque style world where the lead characters are the “redshirts” on their star ship, and they’re trying to survive. It’s brilliant fun.

[hamzakhiar]

1- say your say cuz it's your own
2- say your truth cuz it's your reality
3- say what you find interesting cuz that what shaped you
4- feel and accept that you're vulnerable cuz that makes you human
5- feel the unknown, go and explore cuz that what makes life joyful

[PossumLover]

A man who allows himself to show authentic vulnerability (and not in a fake way to gain attention) is sexy indeed. It's such a human trait. Matthew's message was right on the mark.

[PalomitasFilms]

I think this video should have been titled "How to have a greater impact and be present in your life" ❤️❤️❤️ Thanks Mathew! I definitely have to read that book!

[OliPop]

Thanks Mathew !! So good ! After your Ice adventure, which I believe totally prepared you for this Covid -19 catastrophe, you have just been on a whole new level!!! You should be so proud of how far you have come .... Thank you for helping me navigate through newly single life... and teaching me to make a proper cup of tea .... Lots of love from Sydney, Australia 🇦🇺 xx

[kellylody]

What a lovely thing to say that weaknesses are in fact our strengths - I agree - i fall in love with people (platonically) who feel able to be vulnerable with me - it’s a proud honour - and my husbands passion within conversations is super sexy. Thank you Matthew for putting across a video during this difficult time. Sending u all the healthy wishes I can from cornwall England xxxx

[rsn]

This is really the most genuine and natural way of being more interesting. A stark contrast against all the other videos which only give you tips and tricks which can make you superficially interesting. This video in my opinion, or how I see it. Is NOT about how to be more interesting to other people but rather how to have a more interesting life for yourself. This video is less about how to "show" and more of how to behave and self reflect and enjoy new experiences and conversations. Bravo!!

[ES-aussie]

This guy would be my wish if I had one for a dinner guest, he's interesting, engaging, funny and very easy on the eye.

[injujuan]

My hair is a mess: no chance to see my hairdresser due to lockdown. Now you come along with perfect hair. I couldn't focus on writing, sorry 😁😁😁

[kanariya]

Haven't checked this channel for a while. It's amazing how the topics and have expanded for new and elevated levels. Bravo and respect!!!

[jarechar]

I’m always impressed with Matthew’s energy, it’s consistent and positive. I realize as a human being he has down periods too. I’d love to know his process of dealing with a low period and rebounding to his attractive personality