How To Stop Being Boring In Conversation

How To Never Be Boring

Nobody wants to be boring. But unfortunately no one teaches us how not to. Which is why in this video we are going to cover 5 things that you can do to avoid boring everyone around you and instead attract people to you you like a magnet while enjoying your life much more.

0:14 Improve your energy which will always help personal development and relationships
0:59 Make backup list of topics as second tip on how to never be boring
1:57 Learning to tell a good story as a self help in social will aid in self improvement too
3:35 Spend part of your every day pursuing a dream on the philosophy side

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[pariscloud]

I feel like a robot trying to learn basic human interaction.

[katenka_ana]

Boring people are bored. So if you want to be interesting, be interested.
That's how simple it is

[cup_check_official]

Just be yourself. I am pretty sure no one is genuinely boring. It's the pressure of being entertaining that leads to confusion and, therefore, boring or awkward interaction.

[PracticalPsychologyTips]

How not to be boring: do hard things most people don't

[BrettMaverick]

I had to laugh at the "England is my city" clip. Great video brother!

[sebastiansmith]

0:17 1. High energy in the morning
1:00 2. Create an "Emergency list"
1:55 3. Learn to tell a good story
2:31 4. Expand your circle of influence.
3:36 5. Spend part of every day pursuing a dream.

[loopyfoodable]

I really appreciate that this is different from the standard, "it's your fault for being boring, just go out and do stuff!" approach. I liked how this was more about enriching your life in a positive way - quality over quantity - instead of assuming that we are by default lacking in something. This was really uplifting to watch. Thank you.

[juliab._.]

YouTube: recommends this to me

*what are you tryna say YOUTUBE?!*

[BeOutstanding]

High energy (exercise in the morning, music/motivation video), create a list of funny/impt topics, learn to tell a good story(emotions/mystersious/sharing), expand your circle of influence (know other people, do other things), spend part of everyday pursuing your dream.

[ChronicleLiving]

Awesome video! Ever since I was a little kid, I was always shy and never was good at keeping up with conversations. But I had a desire to expand my boundaries and tried, even through embarrassments, managed to get better with making a conversation with others. One tip I have is having a genuine desire of letting the other person talk the most. Eventually they'll have an enough interest to talk with you. Works almost every time for me. :)

[ishbanyadav]

I would just like to leave a small note of thanks to the whole team of Charisma on Command. The confidence you have instilled in me in the past 6 months has given me confidence as an YouTuber tremendously. I can feel that my style of presentation is improving continuously.
Thank you again🙌

[jessicagomez]

I enjoy doing nothing in my free time and just be alone or even with a friend and/or partner too, doing nothing together is very calming for me. Anything can be interesting if you shift your perspective and view of the world.

[partapvirk]

The first point hit me.
Be energetic...i think being an introvert, i have become too dull and not even enjoy when there are best moments in my life.
Even sometimes i feel that whenever i go pass someone and i always look like sad guy but even though i am not but it is what it is.
Being energetic solves all the problem and that cures every problem of being shy, boring, etc

[MykolaSadovyak]

If you are a weightlifter who is constantly trying to add more bulk, try leg day, it might help with those stick legs.

[IQrius_sci]

Indeed simple actions and behaviors can shape our emotions and how we feel. As Kahneman says - "being amused tends to make you smile and smiling tends to make you feel amused".

[BigLesbian]

I would love to have podcasts done by this Channel

[AtlasNovack]

Usually those people who are super high energy first thing in the morning are the punchable ones.

[CaylieandTim]

LOVE the concept of this channel, and specifically of this video. So interesting, informative, and inspiring!

[anewloveofficial]

I always think that no one is a boring person, maybe someone is just shy and being a shy person is reversible because all you have to do is build a self-confident and learn to interact with other people. Make it a challenge for yourself to always contribute in a discussion because your voice needs to be heard and your idea matters.

[danielzhou]

The last thing is so true. About a month after starting my YouTube channel, I became much more open and started to connect with basically everyone at school from boys to girls. Definitely recommend starting a side project particularly ones that really show who you are and what you can do. Good luck everyone