Confronting The Narcissist? They Will Do These 6 Things

🔴 New Course: Narcissistic Cults Decoded

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Timestamps:
00:00 | Intro
00:04 | 1. Deny
00:38 | 2. Attack
02:12 | 3. Switching Reality
04:01 | 4. Switched off detachment
04:53 | 5. Smear Campgin
06:16 | 6. DARVO
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Confronting The Narcissist? Calling them out on what they did? Look out, here are 6 things they are highly likely to do
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[fifilafleur]

My half sister... exactly what she did. My blood pressure soared for weeks after having contact by text. I ended up in the ER with a hypertensive crisis. Narcs are terrible for your health.

[RPJacob]

_"Once you are out of a narcissistic environment, you discover that you were only in that relationship because you had enabled shitty behaviour by a horrible person."_

[dixieflatline]

For the long term victim, it’s like being hypnotised or conditioned. You don’t see the contempt & rage. You don’t realise the casual cruel comments or their timing - designed to keep you confused & in constant “fight v flight” - it all drains your soul of any positives.

Once you start to wake up, it takes time and strong heart / mind. It’s like the cold shower no one ever expects or wants. But once you detach emotionally & can process in real time - you see and hear everything. That’s when you start to plan like nothing has changed - until you decide it changes - then you lead your best life.

to everyone on their own journey - self kindness / care / love will get you through 🎉🎉🎉

[alecstuart]

In hindsight they used this technique " D A R V O " Many times. Hence they work covertly & evade transparency.

[melissaxenawarriorprincess]

I literally just went through when I confronted my "father" about the abuse I endured as a child. He called me names, deflected and then gaslit me about it all. This video is spot on. OMG the reverse victim, offended, that's classic. Completely cut off my narc "father."

[juliajuhasz]

This is what I did: I have ended my 10 years suffer with my husband. Turned out, he was tracking my phone and was reading my emails for years. Abusing me physicly and emotionly, made me feel, I am crazy. So I went to the police and I reported him. I have to stand up for my self, bc no one will.

[Dee-mjpu]

Once you're out of the crazy, you'll see how easy/simple things become!!

[dmkfun]

I'm in the middle of divorcing my malignant narcissistic husband. He did everything listed and more. He is a textbook example. I found this quote on line a while ago. As there is so much victim blaming towards us survivors. " People don't "allow" themselves to be abused.
People are lied to and coerced into abusive situations. And before they know any better, their finances, their living situations, and all of their systems of support are tied into their abuser. People don't choose to be abused. They are manipulated by their abusers. And by the time they realize that they need to get away, it's too late to do so without tearing their entire world apart." Kalen Dion. And that's exactly what I had to do.

[sheilajac]

dismiss, deflect, distract, flip the script, use rage/outrage, hide/run/avoid, call the police and lie....been there, before i even realized they were a narc....it all helped me figure it out.

[private]

The silent treatment part of the cycle was the only time I could catch my breath and work on my escape. It came to a point where I looked forward to the cold shoulder as that’s the only time they would just let me be! But of course I would never tell them that; they had to think they were successfully hurting me and keeping me under their thumb. What a nasty environment I feel so much better these days.

[LDTY]

I'm so glad I kept a journal while it was all happening. I'm not someone that has any interest in journalling normally, but for some reason I started writing down everything he and his flying monkeys were saying as I was so confused about what was going on. They created this charicature and treated me as if I was that person, then responded with confusion when I didn't act that way. To the point where I started to believe I was that person too. Other people outside of work still treated me as if I was me, so it was like a weird schitzophrenia effect where I wasn't sure who I was any more. I didn't know what to think and just blamed myself for everything, apologised for his and other people's mistakes without question, let people gaslight me and actually thanked and praised him when he replaced me and kicked me out. I was 100% convinced I was this worthless, ugly, piece of sh*t and must have deserved that treatment. Reading everything back now makes me so angry. I want to go back in time and shake some sense into myself. I now run my own start up and employ people and there is no way in hell I would treat someone like that. It's sick. I'm so glad I'm away from that.

I'm just sad that I lost years of my life, had my reputation and career destroyed, lost 100k in salary, the home I was buying, the friends I'd made there, and have permanant heart damage. I had to rebuild myself from scratch and it's set me back a good decade. There are some things that I won't ever be able to get back. But that's life. Hopefully I can help other people avoid going through the same thing. Or at least recover from it more quickly.

Thank you for the brilliant videos you share online. I don't watch them as much these days, as I don't need them. But still come back for a reminder, so I don't fall back into my old ways of thinking.

[DianeHasHopeInChrist]

I was diagnosed with C-PTSD, Compounded 2 years ago.
I was raised to 26 yrs old by an extremely abusive narcissist. She told me every day, that she hated proved it. I left home at 16. My mother would tell me that I didn't deserve to be loved. I would beg for forgiveness for whatever I had done wrong. Years later, after I put myself through College working 2-3 jobs, I graduated with a Bachelor's Degree in Nursing; I was talking with my beloved grandmother about whh my mother hated me. She told me a truth that I had wondered about.
When my sister's father & she were separated, my mom had a fling with the Irishman next door.
I am the product of that.
I was diagnosed in 2006, after extreme testing by NYC University Parapsychologist, as an extreme Empath/Sensitive.
Which explains a lot, as now, all the puzzle pieces fit.
Sadly, I lost my beloved husband June 2008, to Cancer & met a wonderful man in 2010, then married in 2012.
2 months go by, everything seemed great. But he stopped touching me, talking to me, shunned me, belittled me, and he would sit in the darkness, all day, in his bathrobe.
I tried do hard, too hard....wanting to male things right again. It didn't matter. I suggested counseling..."NO" He moved out 3 months before our 1st Anniversary
This guy did this to me 5 times crying to me to give him another after listening to this upload, I am walking away. Forever. I know myself. I am secure in who I am. But over11 years of marriage this last bunch of Narcissistic Abuse has made me exhausted and emotionally empty. I'm not telling him anything about anything. Although he keeps looking at me, wondering why I haven't begged.😅 I have made plans, so while he is out of town, on business, I have pretty much everything ready to go
I've been slowly storing my things in a unit & some I have shipped to my older sister.
And already made an appointment with an attorney. I want nothing except for him to leave me in peace. Yeah!!😊❤

[twilighttime]

I've lived through all of this. No more contact. F em.

[privatez]

Victims of abuse rarely speak out while perpetrators create narratives of being the victim. They know it induces even more trauma and isolation in the victim. Perpetrators rarely look like perpetrators within social circles, while victims don't look like victims.

[clairexxx]

Scary how much we can all relate to these things that feel so uncomfortably familiar and that urge to apologise at every turn is still very much there... Thank you so much for this video Richard, I'm sure I'm not the only one thats been made to believe I'm losing my mind by the convincing way in which the narcissist can tell you the sky is purple and you end up believing this.

[allaboutdetox]

As a child/teens I thought this happened only with me, possible to experience only in my "strange/forever a war/zone" family, and the rest of the people / families are relatively "normal". I lived with it, learning on my way.

Then, with the information I found out that there are a lot of people like myself are going through the same experiences, it was a very big discovery,

And now I see that the whole world, globally, is going through this psychopathic/narcissistic exact script, their one page text-book abuse terror.

Blatant lie, shameless denial, theft even murder, insidious gaslighting, imprudent projections of who the are onto innocent, scapegoating those who see them through

[JackHammerLord]

If it wasn't for Richard's work, I'd still be unaware of the shared matrix pod that
I'm currently unplugging from. Thank you Richard. 👍

[artbonita]

Gosh, you described my father perfectly! It has been a tough six months saying goodbye to him. Though, his recent emergency hospital visit this past weekend had me and my brother, plus his best friends, scrambling for solutions to get him to proper out-patient care. Of course, he resisted the whole time. I did everything I could to avoid being one of the cooks in the kitchen, so to speak. I stuck up for myself and stayed behind the scenes and explained to everyone “watch out! He has a wicked temper when he feels caged”. No one believed me… until, the 5th day of home care at his friend’s house- his contemptuous personality finally burst and he completely lost his mind and became volatile towards them! Honestly, as sad as the situation was, I felt such a relief that other people finally witnessed what I had been going through for 40+ years. It set me free, really. That others in my family see that I am the sane and rational one.
What I found REALLY interesting is that everyone helping him has compassionate empathic personalities. A brunch buffet of people for him to feed on. Now, that was eye opening!
RG, your hard work and videos have saved my life. I am forever grateful, kind sir, and I absolutely love all the coursework you provide to help us overcome these situations and heal. Thank you 💙

[GillianAlice]

I love how both people involved with the narcissist are "narcissists" lol. The actual narcissist and the narcissist claiming the other person is 😂 Thanks for sharing your knowledge! You and Dr Ramani have helped me heal from a lifetime of this and I am forever grateful 🙏

[elainesmith]

have described EXACTUALLY how my "X" Mother In Law
Reacted to she did All of this to me, 45 yrs of her Covert Abuse of me unleashed itself from Me!!!
I was so out raged that I had what my Grand Mother use to refer to as a Good Old Fashion Running Fit. He'll hath no fury like a Svorned Woman. Oh my God.. Did it feel So Good to Let Go. I did not lay a hand on her but I scared the---- out of her. ABSOLUTELY "NO" CONTACT SINCE. HER PROJECTION ON ME is what finally tripped my Trigger. And yes she followed the Victim Role afterwards .Lots of slander, The Flying Monkeys Game ECT. It was worth it ALL!! THANK YOU FOR THE INFO!!