When A Guy Pulls Away, Here Is How Long Until He Comes Back And What It Means (Good Explanation)

[michelles]

Every time I question a guy’s intentions and actions, I repeat Elliot’s phrase, “If he really likes you, he wouldn’t put himself in a position to lose you.”

[Jazz_Funk_Kitten]

If you love them, set them free. If they come back to you - set them free again because no one else wanted them either 🤷‍♀️

[klddere]

He comes back because nobody else wanted him.

[Ty_Brenneman]

Keep him guessing by marrying someone else, ladies!

[TheRainIL]

A month without any communication from him? No questions- you are a high value woman (who isn’t codependent and doesn’t have family to consider) he’s history. He wanted to play- Honey, HE IS REPLACEABLE! 7 billion people in this world- you will find another who treats you as he should.

[beatrizfonseca]

Girls. It's normal not talking for 2 days. But, when it's about months, that means he doesnt care!! I dont accept guys coming back after months!

[cathyandresiak]

I think many men need to grow up and realize that women are not always happy, smiley and strong. Women are human beings and emotional, needy and weak sometimes. Some of them have had traumatic past, bad childhoods, this does not mean they are a bad person maybe they just need a loving understanding man. These men now days want perfection and it isn't there in any human being. Find someone who can love and respect you when you are strong and weak.

[julifunnygirl]

If a man disappears for a month, he can stay gone.

[itsisa]

This guy I've been seeing for the last four months pulled away and asked for space. I didn't reach out once, but he kept in contact with me and was texting me literally within a couple hours. Six days later he asked me to be his girlfriend. I said not until he got into therapy lol so now he's going to therapy.

[freshclean]

If someone leave me for a month without any form of communication, he's history.

[SuperAshcom]

I went on some dates with a really nice guy and things seemed great but as soon as I set some boundaries, he ghosted. If someone can't accept your boundaries, that's a red flag. It hurts to get rejected but it hurts more to have someone not respect you and take advantage. Not sure if he'll reappear in the future but I'm moving on.

[farrahslim]

If a guy is pulling away & ignoring/avoiding u, why won’t he just block u & end it like that? I think it’s rude as hell to ignore someone when they’re trying to express their feelings.

[LM-]

He couldn't find something. Doesn't mean he's going to stop looking. That is a great point!

[annharrison]

If he "disappears" he is a "Ghost". He's gone, he doesn't get back.!!!!

[sherryj]

If a guy pulls away, I trust my intuition and I don't ever want him coming back into my life!

[BangNoShock]

I did just that. When I realized he was pulling away and becoming distant. I learned that he found himself a new toy so I pulled the plug. Blocking him was a tough decision to make but his apathy and taking me for granted gave me the strength to go through with it. It sucks but that shit gets exhausting.

[hyperbolicfitness]

You are so right this guy I was seeing ghosted me for a week. When he finally reached out I told him told him he was emotionally unavailable either because he’s not over his ex or interested because he’s inconsistent and its unacceptable.. He tried to turn it around on me & manipulate the whole situation I almost fell for it listen to Elliot ladies this seemingly nice guy turned into a jerk just like that 🙃

[Surfsup]

It’s all about the guy’s and what they want?? Girls need to change this mentality and take charge. Any sign they are not long term. Get the out of your mind and vision.

[marydietterich]

Women need to hear this… we are so nieve! Actions are the key, not BS!!!

[tinisharealtalktime]

If it's not official keep it moving keep ur options open than he or she will realize that is their loss