'My Wife's Family Is Ruining Our Marriage' | Paul Friedman

I'm going to tell you straight out. No, they're not. They don't have the power to do that. What is ruining your marriage and you got to step back and you got to take responsibility for this is you guys are ruining your marriage. There's only two of you at the controls that's it. There's other people who want to influence you, some people actually do want to undermine other people's marriages for whatever reason. Screw them. It's your marriage. What are You doing so that it is ruined proof? You're not doing anything, you're not. People get married with the idea that, "Okay, now that I'm married, now that we're married everything's going to be great." Is that the only thing in the entire World that basically runs on its own? Because virtually everything else Requires at a minimum maintenance but you're talking about a vehicle for love and happiness, how could it possibly be just maintenance? You need to do what you need to do but you don't know what to do. It's not your fault. I'm not yelling at you. I get excited you know. I used to be a divorce mediator and I saw all of these divorces help facilitate them regrettably now because I look back and none of them should have been a divorce. But in our society, we don't know how to be married. The people who should be teaching us don't know so that's why I shifted my practice. I really studied it, begins with two questions to begin with.

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