10 questions to ask before marrying someone | Therapist's Advice | 9

I’m Shridhar, a Counselling Psychologist. I share with you 10 non-obvious questions to ask your partner before marrying them.

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0:00 Intro
0:46 Question #1 Involvement of parents in marriage
1:27 Question #2 Mistakes made in the past
2:27 Question #3 What makes you angry
3:44 Question #4 Gender roles in marriage
4:37 Question #5 How much transparency will be there
5:15 Question #6 How much time to spend together
6:14 Question #7 Behaviours allowed with others
7:26 Question #8 Individual freedom
9:02 Question #9 Non-negotiable areas
9:36 Question #10 Ready for marriage counseling?
10:29 We now specialize in relationship counseling

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[EagleButterfly]

Some people are clever, they answers cleverly according to us and change after marriage

[satvikkhare]

absolute 24k carat gold content, this is much needed in any marriage talks. Major issues come in marriage when people simply assume answers to these questions from the other person.

[aiswaryababuraj]

I found these 10 questions are worth for a person to ask and get cleared before marriage who is wishing to find a suitable life partner .Thank you so much for helping me while providing informative and useful vedios like this .Please pray for me so that I get a wonderful life partner🙏I would also wish to all those who watches this vedio be blessed with a wonderful life partner .May God bless you and each and very one who reads this abundantly 🥰❤💕

[srishtijha]

Wow, loved it, Do recommend a part 2 or a series on marriage advices

[ManpreetSingh-cjhj]

Most underrated channel, u deserve to one the most subscribed indian YouTube channel.. honestly.. I'm literally loving ur content

[prokritiroy]

It’s so comforting and clarifying to watch you! Thank you for the videos

[deepakamat]

Before Marriage all big and good talks.
Finally As After Marriage commitment fails. Trust, respect, love, interference, ego, attitude from family, friends, relatives etc. At times toxic relationships and dealing with Narcasist. Some people never change even after 40's. That may get Married twice, thrice or may be more without any fear
of disolution of Marriage.

[swetalika]

Transparency is the best policy. 👍
No secrets in relationship.

[barnaliadhikary]

Well...I am really afraid if marriage or relationship with any guy because I have simply noticed that heteronormativity is eventually about patriarchal gender role and related values and norms .. men are mostly reluctant to share equal homemaking responsibilities and child nurturing... Ego clash is a problem... family interference specially from the boy's side is nasty.... Marriage is still a patriarchal societal institution... Where many women feel suffocated but society makes us feel that as if marriage & having children is the sole way of leading a fulfilling life... But I really doubt...

But may these 10 questions are significant for those who are seriously looking for a life partner and have made their minds for getting married.

[avanthikaduraiswamy]

Excellent, no-nonsensical content. Just the kind of adviser I was searching for, but had to sift through 10 layers of shallow clickbait videos before I got here 👍

[archanakj]

All these questions are good but no one will answer the truth. Its best to understand a person than asking him these questions

[anchalbansal]

One of the best videos...very informative and deep...❤️❤️

[sonnaligaur]

I feel more like a HR interview 😂😂 I asked a boy why you want to get married there was 30 seconds silence and the end 😂😂😂😂

[PulinPegu]

Good points…however money management should have been a separate point

[dd-tnur]

I must say i needed this, thanks a lot

[nandhithanandhu]

Are you married??? 😅😅 Im going through this phase where Im shit scared if I'll end up not observing the red flags and settle with someone whos regressive aggressive 😅

[juhichaudhary]

I guess these questions are good to know even before starting relationship, if a serious relationship in your mind

[sangeetamenon]

This is a great subject....however more refinement needed.If u ask them about their sexual orientation..will they be open about it? Many wont... because they hv the family pressure to bear kids...then substance abuse, undiagnosed mental health issues....there is a plethora of issues when it comes to marriage. Pre Marriage counseling should be mandatory in India.

[dharanisairaj]

To a question about cooking and cleaning ❓
we must decide what we do in life based on who we are, our personalities, individual strength and weaknesses interest and finally compromising, negotiating, team concluding there is no set template there...a person should believe in his individuality, differences and variability 😂😂

[SantoshAM]

You know when you ask first two questions and goes to third she will be like “are you taking my interview?” And walks out. That creates bad impression straight up.