10 QUESTIONS TO ASK IN THE EARLY STAGES OF DATING IN A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP!

The questions that need to be asked so you know exactly what you're signing up for. 😊

10 Questions to ask in the early stages of dating
- [ ] What does he want out of this relationship serious or casual
- [ ] What happened in his last relationship and why did they break up.
- [ ] Does he want children or looking to have more and how many
- [ ] What is his financial situation
- [ ] And what are the expectations on finances as a couple, talk about your contribution too.
- [ ] What is his relationship with his family, parents and siblings
- [ ] Are his family going to be an issue m, u need to be prepared and know what you’re waking into. That includes baby mamas
- [ ] Where does he see himself in the next 5/10 years his ambitions and dreams?
- [ ] Is he open to relocating to another country if need be
- [ ] Who are his friends and request to meet them
- [ ] What are the things he will not compromise on, everyone has deal breakers! Believe him when he says it and do not try to convince home otherwise after the fact when you guys are married
- [ ] How important is sex to him and will he be prepared to wait while you take your time to access the situation

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10 Questions to ask in the early stages of dating
- [ ] What does he want out of this relationship serious or casual?
- [ ] What happened in his last relationship and why did they break up?
- [ ] Does he want children or looking to have more and how many?
- [ ] What is his financial situation?
- [ ] And what are the expectations on finances as a couple? talk about your contribution too.
- [ ] What is his relationship with his family, parents and siblings?
- [ ] Are his family going to be an issue? You need to be prepared and know what you’re walking into. That includes baby mamas.
- [ ] Where does he see himself in the next 5/10 years? What are his ambitions and dreams?
- [ ] Is he open to relocating to another country if need be?
- [ ] Who are his friends? and request to meet them.
- [ ] What are the things he will not compromise on, everyone has deal breakers! Believe him when he says it and do not try to convince him otherwise after the fact when you guys are married.
- [ ] How important is sex to him and will he be prepared to wait while you take your time to access the relationship. Hold on to the cookies 🍪 for now! 😃

[mleys]

Just today I let two men down gently on the online dating site, because they were not answering the question on what happened in their last relationship and what their good and lesser charactertraits were. So ... bye bye. I saved this episode and will revisit it a lot. Love from Belgium.

[fejiroossuetta]

No one ever sat me down to tell me how important it is to ask these questions & it’s resulted in me getting into relationships blindly and for the wrong reasons, even at this age.🤦🏾‍♀️
I got out of one some weeks back & I can already see lots of reasons why the relationship failed & areas where I went wrong.
I have to be able to answer these questions myself too. It’s not just for him.
I have a lot of work to do on myself. I also have to prepare to become a high value & virtuous women just like I’d like my future husband to be.
Thank you so much, mummy Fumi. This video has helped me much more than you can imagine.❤️

[francescathegreat]

My husband and I have 5 kids and i can agree with everything you've said. On the topic of sex, quickies are there for a reason! You have en suites, pantries, and closets for a reason. Y'all better put on paw patrol and make it happen for 15 min.

[nkeletsengseeko]

OMG talking about relocate I remember when one guy I dated told me that as soon as we get married I should be ready to move to the rural with his mother. I did the best ran as fast as I could and never looked back.

[nurselora]

Fumi, could we possibly have a set of questions for us older folks who are dating and looking for that life partner? I just turned 60 and looking towards planning my retirement so many of these questions aren’t relevant for me. Dating is so difficult for all ages. I love watching you with all of your wisdom and knowledge. Thank you!

[m.l.]

Aunty Fumi is really helping us out here. And her lipstick matches her dress so it's a win-win!

[faithyqueency]

Am dressing up for a date and just got the notification of this video oh my gosh just at the right time thank you Fumi ❤❤

[JoB]

Fumi I love you, but this is far away from what a relationship wants to be nice and lovely… I’ m really huge fan of you! I m married with my husband from 2009 and I did all of these questions! He gave me answers and I thought that he was the perfect one! He wanted two kids (he build a house with three bedrooms) and when the economic crises came, he barely wanted one. He was successful businessman with passion, and his job destroyed. He never gave up and he’s doing another job but it was a mess for a while. He had beautiful relationship with his family and his parents were so sweet until they moved near us when I gave birth my child. But I love him and all these stuff gave me the begging of finding my strength (I was very quiet person). So all of these questions are a little easy and easy to change. When you met someone the only question that should ask is by yourself. When the situation changes, will you care enough for him/her to carry on?

[nancykerrigan]

First time I noticed you didn't put the lady waking gif in these Sister2Sister talks. I agree with Ole about keeping Adrian out of the spotlight. Protect his privacy.

[tjsproles]

I absolutely love, Love, LOVE your confidence! 💃 And, you are VERY insightful about the issues of life in terms of relationships.
I am 55 and never married. I've made ALL of the mistakes in relationships, and I've ignored ALL of the red flags (even the FLAMING flags that were burning bright red, yellow and orange)! 😥 🔥🚩 🔥
I know that I am wiser, stronger and better because of my past experiences, but sometimes I briefly reflect on the fact that, as a result of my own choices, I had to learn so many life lessons the hard way! The good news is that I acknowledged then separated myself from the toxicity I allowed in my life, and now my heart is open to begin a life with the man for which God has prepared me!
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Thank you for sharing your wisdom. I'll be watching! 🤗

[elougaveroniquefrancine]

I'm living for your laugh miss Fumi. It's so contagious, so refreshing

[lelianankunda]

I’m learning so much & leveling up in my dating life, thanks to you Fumi. Love from Uganda🇺🇬

[yh]

I wish you, your husband, and child much love, health, & wealth. You bring light and value into this world. Hugs

[cherylreeves]

I agree...about Adrienne being on social media...too many children on social media.
I also requested the same don't put my children (our) children on social media.

[simplydemii]

Knowing his family and some hidden baby mama is very important 👌👌❤️❤️❤️

[haleyclarke]

The way I listened and hang on to every word, you would think I'm in a classroom prepping for an exam. Well said aunty fumi. Thank you!

[waleskagracia]

Spectacular as always! ❤️ 💋Excellent questions. When I was single I went on a couple of dates with a gentleman from the Middle East. On the 2nd date we somehow got on the topic of children. Although it wasn’t my situation, I was curious so I asked him if he would consider marriage to a woman with children. He very quickly, and firmly answered that if he wanted to marry her she would have to give up the children because he could never accept another man’s children. Needless to say, it was our last date.

[themortgagechic_ca]

I had to rewind! "The marriage will TEST the both of you. WORD! Babes !!! Please listen to her ! The marriage will test you both. Make sure you are doing marriage with someone that can stand by you!!!!

[Ashley]

Ms. Fumi! So happy to find this chat! It was a godsend and very authentic take, from a woman's experience, in comparison to the frequent male relationship coach advise. Very good, I appreciate this. 🙏🏽 looking for more of your chats!