5 Undeniable Signs That You Are A Victim Of Narcissistic Abuse

Going through narcissistic abuse is a unique and isolating experience that most people do not understand.

Why? Because most people do not know
what is it like to survive a narcissist So they ask questions like, Why did you stay for so long How could you tolerate that kind of behaviour?

Why didn't you see it coming? Why didn't you confront them? And so on. These questions are extremely invalidating and isolating because they make you question your aftermath experience.

You ask questions like, Am I exaggerating this? Am I making it bigger than it is? Am I the crazy one? No, you are not. And let me tell you why In this episode.

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Chapter
00:00 introduction
1:00 You are confused about their real nature
02:49 You know you should move on but you feel emotionally stuck with them
03:53 You feel overwhelming sadness and pain
05:00 You are shocked to your core
06:16 You are experiencing typical symptoms of Complex PTSD and atypical symptoms of Narcissistic Abuse Trauma

[narcabusecoach]

What signs did you relate with the most?

[latikabenz]

Insomnia, lack of concentration, deep sadness, anxiety, ruminating thinking.

[shahadah]

1. You are confused about their real nature. They stop being loving and become controlling. They blow hot and cold. You get cognitive dissonance. They have no consistency. There is ongoing confusion. 2. You are grieving the loss of everything you spent on this person, including the time. 3. You are devastatingly sad. 4. You are shocked to your core. They promised dreams, but delivered a nightmare. They are nothing but a mirage. 5. You are experiencing post-traumatic stress disorder, dissociation, etc., including many other physical disorders.

[pjmrees]

I have been very ill for 6 years. Been to all kinds of doctors and specialists. The answer was right beside me, literally.

[katkollies]

Definitely Jekyll and Hyde. I thought I had found the love of my life, my soulmate! It is so hard to try to explain these relationships to people who haven’t experienced them, and yes, the fact that it took decades to finally realize what was happening!

[carolineprenoveau]

I was a patient of a narcissistic psychiatrist and I can guarantee you that you're not prepared to meet this kind of monster. I was experiencing all of the symptoms you describe. It was the most intense pain, confusion and distress I've ever felt in my life; it was consuming me day and night, making me unable to function. The worst part is the confusion and the fear. Nothing makes sense so your brain works overtime trying desperately to figure it out and save your life. My entire world had to be destroyed and rebuilt from scratch. Strangely enough, it sort of was therapeutic because it made me stronger. I wouldn't recommend it though. That's a gamble that can result in death.

[deedoyle]

Thank you, Danish. At 84 yrs. I'm JUST NOW getting out of an abusive narc relationship. Incredibly difficult! My mother; my first husband; my current of them! No wonder I feel so puzzled and beaten! All five of the points you made amaze me because they are accurate. I keep wondering how I've endured this for most of my whole life! It's as though YOU were watching MY life, almost word for word. Now. How do I know if I'll ever experience a Normal relationship? Your advice is helping me understand.

[orianablack]

Shocked to the core. That I let this happen for so long

[tam]

I have experienced insomnia for so long that I have adapted to it. I don’t remember what a good nights sleep feels like.

[natann]

Your content is so on point. Wish I had found your channel earlier. Thank you for helping us victims to understand the confusion

[JChristo]

I suffer from all 5, especially the insomnia and feelings of anxiety. I would go days without eating. Lost 30 lbs. in 2 mos. I have got my appetite back now, but even if I am exhausted, I can't fall asleep until 5-6 a.m. every single night. I am on day 87 of N/C & am finally starting to get some relief from the trauma bond. I'm starting to get the feeling back that I just don't care about her anymore. She completely f'd me over with no closure. Monkey branched with complete ghost job. Hit me like a freight train. Every day gets better, of which I I am thankful. Thanks for your great & informative videos.

[jeanneparadise]

Signs:
Grief
Financial instability because his career always came first
Huge responsibility for our daughter when he moved out of state
Betrayal
Lost my trust in others
Developed breast cancer years later and had to let go of my bitterness and sadness to save my life.
Thank you, Danish for this enlightenment. I am finally putting the pieces of the puzzle back together and realizing I was used, devalued and discarded by a narcissist and I survived, with God's protection and raised my daughter. Let 2023 be a year of awakening and healing for those of us who were caught in the trap.

[Dawgg]

My psoriatic arthritis has returned after being in remission 30 years. My hair is falling out. I can’t remember anything. PTSD… and flashbacks… yes it’s very real! I have divorced him and moved across the USA but it takes time.

[timmartin]

Some years ago, I almost took my own life. I was abused when I was a kid, broken, depressed, anorexic, bulimic, self-harming. suicidal. My narcissistic biological father choked me and chased me with the lawnmower as if her was gonna run me over, I went in & out of psychiatric units like it was a game of Chess. He would victimize himself and gaslight others. And don’t forget the LoveBombing!! He would assault his kids and them buy them cookies and gifts to keep them. Suicide watch. I was on enough Antidepressants to kill a horse since i was 12. I hated myself. I wanted out. I wanted the pain to stop. The abuse to end
I wanted power. I got into witchcraft. I thought it would give me the identity i wanted, to be set apart from people who hurt me. It only made me sicker. Sicker. Thats what it did to me.
The doctors said i’d never get well. That i would suffer severe Chronic Manic depression, and never be well, that id be stuck on antidepressants all of my life.
I would plot suicide on a daily basis, binging and purging my food as often as opening and closing a door. The pain was too real. People choked me. Assaulted me. Told me i was ugly, told me to apologize to him for every year i was alive. i felt worthless. Nothing ever got better. Then my mother died. The (1) & only soul who ever loved /emotionally supported me was removed from the earth. I was stuck living with people who broke me, ruined my identity, thus causing me to hate God. I thought God hated me, that he was just like the ones who tortured me, a family of abusers, who cover up all their actions with the mask of religion. I didnt know that God is on my side. I didnt know that Jesus would Love and Defend me, and fight for me and that He later would heal me, rescue me from Family. The ones who caused me pain. The ones who choked me for wearing a pagan necklace.
I moved out after family threatened to throw all my belongings on the front yard, and have me permanently institutionalized in an insane asylum, when they were the ones who caused my mental illness via abuse.

They blamed me for the abuse they did to me.
To take my life in a psychiatric unit aka insane asylum when they were the ones who made me suicidal.

Next morning i moved in with my dead mom’s parents.

I stayed on the antidepressants, prescribed. But they only made me sicker. I got deeper and deeper into witchcraft, thinking it was a solution. But it made me even more suicidal. Self hatred was inescapable. All my cards have fallen down. I have nothing left. But out. I wanted out.

I decided i was going to kill myself. I was going to take all my pills.

But then Jesus stepped in. I didnt die. I surrendered my life to Jesus to make me well and heal me.

The deity i blamed for me being abused wanted to heal me. He Was fighting for me and Loved me all along.

He wanted to love me. He wanted to give me a new heart. His Heart.


Jesus miraculously healed me — i am off all the drugs and dont need them and i dont have any mental illnesses. I am totally healed, full of joy.

I’m now a born again Christian.

I want ALL y’all to know that JESUS IS ON YOUR SIDE

HE’s FIGHTING FOR you.
Don’t believe me?

Just WATCH WHAT HE WILL DO FOR YOU NEXT

Fyi-the purpose of this is that want for you to be healed by Jesus, i do not want pity for my past . I want you all to see the miracle Jesus did in my life to fix me. He’s the one i am proclaiming. #Godcan

[aprillewis]

Numbers 2 & 3: I KNEW the relationship wasn’t good for me and no matter how much I tried, I just couldn’t walk away. I just knew there had to be something wrong with me for not being able to walk away. I would never have put up with such disrespect and abuse before but I did.

[timefoolery]

Hypervigilance. My narc died last December and I STILL can’t relax. I have to force myself to relax every muscle because I’ve been paranoid and on watch for the next attack since I was 6 years old, when I first learned that my narc’s love was completely conditional. It’s hard to relax when you’ve been scared for 50 years.

[misspapillon]

What!?? Wait....my chronic fatigue, gut issues, memory problem and more all stem from this? I want to cry Danish. All the years of wondering. All the years of doctors not believing me and here you are giving me peace of mind. bless you! My abuser took my youth from me. I was 25 when I met him (he was 37) and I left him at 28. I didn't understand how much my body and mind took the hit to protect me. I'm saddened but relieved. I can finally heal. Thank you so much!

[sweetdreams]

It was like walking into a beautiful cloud of pain where you never saw clearly and never could. Shocked by the demonic nature of someone who was so loveable just a minute ago, you feel like the stupidest person in the world once you get to look back...it takes a great deal of time to get over the layered levels of deceit.

[nicolegill]

I experienced every single one of these almost word for word how you described. Especially the physical ailments (crohns, insomnia, neuro problems etc)

[meemeecraig]

Every word you said is exactly right and true. I had every single one of these. It was a horrific nightmare. What made it worse is that I couldn't even explain it to anyone. No one would have understood. Thank you