5 Adult Attachment Styles that are Self Destructive

If you are securely attachment, you are neither low not high in #attachment avoidance and attachment #anxiety, falling somewhere right in the middle.
As a person with moderate attachment anxiety, you are quite confident in the fact that the people around you that are close to you care about you and that they will be there for you if necessary. You don’t worry too much about if those close to you care about you, but you do worry if you find out that people you feel close to don’t share your feelings.
As your attachment avoidance is moderate, you don’t have a problem depending on or trusting the people you are close to and are comfortable getting close to others. You whole life however certainly does not revolve around others. You happiness doesn’t depend on your social relationships, and you are quite happy to be alone from time to time