Stop giving advice all the time 💩 #shorts

Stop giving advice all the time 💩

Stop giving advice all the time.

We, smart people want to give advice and solve problems.

This is natural, but at the same time mostly unnecessary.

People more often know what to do and are looking for something else in the conversation.

You can offer things like:— Support
— Place to rant
— Shoulder to cry on

It’s not about the advice, it’s about understanding.

More often than not, smart people jump to the advice part.

Because it’s easier.

But it makes it harder to connect.

So, keep it to yourself, util you’re 100% sure it’s needed.

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It's also easier to listen to the same person cry when they invariably make the same mistake again when you haven't given them advice that they, of course, ignored.