This is why you should stop giving advice to others

[shabababtahee]

You are a bliss, for some reason it feels like you already know the solutions of every problem like a mage ❤️

[odaysuliman]

A women would like to hear this
But when a man is talking about a hard time he will talk because he need an advice not to share emotions

[plznznh]

As a therapist, I appreciate this post

[empress_enchantress]

I always offer them my all ears, my supports and my words of advices (solutions) when I have time, energy and capacity to do that.

[medicocrush]

But the sad thing in my life is,
Iam a neet aspirant, I was preparing for neet and already attempted neet for 2times, but can't able to get govt college, I am exhausted nobody is here for support me, they all are just saying that it's all your fault, they didn't know how I feel inside, even my parents didn't support me, now I am be like a failure person in my dream to become a doctor, waiting for next attempt for neet😞

[AB-vcox]

It's heartbreaking to watch someone you love or care about crash and burn, but more often than not, the hard way and making painful mistakes is the only way they learn, maybe.

[diarythatyouforgot]

I always say this to my friend: i'll search a way with you, or i'll just listen if you want to.

[Tumbleweedy]

You’re contest is great, except this one point. Many people with chronic issues just want to dump their drama on someone until the relationship is spent and then move on to the next person that will listen. They key to not ruin the relationship is to get that person a therapist and tell them to compartmentalize their drama until they visit the therapist, at which time they can dump all over the couch….

The cost of a 1-2x/week therapist is a pittance compared to having to listen to constant whining and self-victimization

[LeviAckerman-duch]

100% true, everyone knows what is best for them, but they kinda want permission to do it

[geo_neo]

Most people are not aware on what to do. If they are they need inspiration.

[homermilkshake]

This is what I kept telling my friends but they didn't listen and continued to give advice. They complained I don't use their advice and now I feel like they are more distant from me because of this

[Danny-Stylish]

Well, just as some people don't know giving advice is not always the point, some people don't know how to express when they need support.
In summery the lack of understanding comes from the lack of good communication.

[jaysterling]

Everyone travelling on a London bus needs such support at one time or another- unless it's 'that' passenger.

[tonykeane]

People need to have their own experience in life not take advice and listen to others opinions, it steals the individual's life experience

[marymaystrali]

I sometimes realy need advise and there is noone to offer me!

[PostingWhatILove]

Oh my Gosh she's really beautiful 😳💖👑

[saikatdip]

maam' you save my life thank you very much

[unknown-ipic]

The Song name is *Solas-Gibran Alcocer* you're welcome

[ronlecoq]

That's a good advise ....stop advising others ..

[steevemachine]

Sorry, but a lot of people actually do not know what they should be doing. That's why people make mistakes! Trial, and error. That's how we learn. It's the ONLY way. No matter what you learn from your parents or in school, the only real knowledge comes from experience.

You need to make mistakes so you know what you should have done different. "Real life is what you never thought of".

When they will need help, or counselling, they will ask for it. If they don't, don't bother giving it. They won't listen anyway!

Here are the only situations in which you should give advice to somebody.
-They asked you for your advice
-They will die if you don't