How do narcissist feel when you dont give them attention

how do #narcissist feel when you dont give them attention or when you ignore them.

Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything.

The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The victims and survivors get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.

Thank you so much

[crzellmer]

Funny I actually said that once to the narc "I'm not your punching bag for your unresolved emotional traumas" and I've also said to them "I don't need you to validate my existence".

[kaymiller]

They feel angry and Will sometimes try to destroy you but will hide away while they send their flying monkeys to do the job. It gives them a sense of power and control which they are trying to regain. They are all weak and insecure underneath but dangerous nevertheless.

[anneyoung]

What if you are truly not ignoring, but, rather, you are completely uninterested? No ghosting, going no contact, ignoring, nor anything: the pinnacle of indifference, which the narc. will never understand.

[lashayparker]

They sure do hate being ignored! I would be perfectly fine with him ignoring me!

[sophiajohnston]

If you ignore them they'll just go find someone else

[eugeniajones]

Stop feeding the fire 🔥 when you feed the fire 🔥 you will get burned 🔥. I was tired and I wanted to heal from the damage etc. I 'm healing. Your telling the truth.

[rare_breed]

Whew 🙌🏽THANK GOD I can wake up from a nap in peace now 😌 I use to jump up out of my sleep so fast cause I had gotten so use to waking up to the nasty txt messages and false accusations “hope you’re happy with whoever you’re over there laid up with” “you finally got what you wanted” “hope YALL having fun” 🙄 when I was literally just sleeping, exhausted from a 12 hour shift! While their bum a** had been home doing God knows what all day then expect you to get off from a long day of work n entertain and validate their insecure a** all the rest of the damn night. And ohhh it’s ok for them to take 50 hours to txt back, then dare you to even confront them about it!witch of course they “train” you not to 😒😒😒 the double standards.. so glad I’m free from that hell hole.

[eugeniajones]

I had an ex's brother say that he hated the both of us. And I said why didn't you tell me this before. My ex had to be around his brother but I didn't have to take that from him. And I totally told him I don't want anything from him. Don't talk to me.

You don't talk to people that hate you. So when I went over to spend Christmas last year I didn't say a much of anything to him. I keep my mouth shut and I was recovering from being sick. He kept trying to get me to talk and I wouldn't say anything to him but, yes or no that was it.

I noticed that he felt uncomfortable and was trying to figure me out. That was the last time I saw him. I made up my mind that I was done and I wasn't going to be disrespected anyone by my ex boyfriend or his mother or brother.

The last time I saw my ex boyfriend was for his birthday. We went out to celebrate together. That was our last outing anywhere.

After I got the business part out of the way I stop talking to them altogether I blocked his phone number and his mother 's. I haven't talked to them since April of this year.

I sent him back some things that he left at my apartment I mailed them and haved moved on forward.

[Saraflowerk]

Yes!!! I have been punished pretty badly in a few cases for "ignoring" a narcissist. They befriended me after just to get me back. I'll be back later to watch it :)

[Ali_delightful]

This is the EXACT reason my friendship with an NPD ended/why she discarded me. She was jealous when she introduced me to new friends and I didn't ask her the same questions. It was really exhausting...we ask newer ppl to learn more about them because they're new...but the narcissist stated I was ignoring them during those interactions bc I didn't ask them...the same...things. So, anytime I reached out to her to check in on her she ignored me and her bf told me she's ignoring me because I ignored her (but I didn't...). Beyond crazy. There was more subtle punishment that I experienced and I had no idea they were even mad at me. I can't read minds.

[creativeconciousness]

Lee is 100% correct. Last year I was going through a situation and me and my son's phones were turned off for a while. One day I was coming home and I saw my sons mother coming out to the parking lot. I had a headache and was having a rough day so I knew she would only make it worse, so I ducked down in my truck so she wouldn't see me. Sure enough when I went to the front door she had left a nasty note demanding that I call her.

[lovefaith]

I stopped talking to my oldest sister 3 years ago and if we're both at family functions I still ignore her and she ABSOLUTELY HATES it. Her boyfriend of 18yrs left 5 months ago and I've been sending videos to him and giving him advice on how to deal with her and she's losing her mind because he's been ignoring her calls/texts and advances in trying to get him back. Her son and daughter-in-law have opened their eyes to her behavior and now know how to better handle her. Thank you Lee for all you are doing.✌💜

[dvxbvev]

Some have no pride or ego. They keep reaching out and won't go away. Even when you're clear they are unwanted by you.

[taylorkozak]

THANK YOU LEE!! You are literally saving lives! This video couldn't have come at a better time.. I really needed this information, I'm going to put this on repeat so that I don't lose focus of getting out of this awful toxic "relationship" that I've been in for far longer than I want to admit.. you are a godsend!

[emmajackson]

They dont just want to be part of your world they want and need to be your whole world.

[TdM]

My husband deleted me out of his phone because I ignored a text, even though I still did what he was telling me to do in the text 🤦🏻‍♀️ I was just tired of his attitude, so I didn’t answer him, and he deleted me, so that he couldn’t “bother” me anymore 🙄

[kelley]

Lee.... I have to be honest, when I first started watching your videos, I didn't like them. Now I look forward to watching them daily. I learn a lot and I love your sense of humor. Thank you for all you do. I wish you continued success.

[IcClearlyNow]

There is also the narcissist that ignores you because he knows you are triggered by rejection and then I have said to the narcissist that "He is horrible " and that I hate him because he abandoned the marriage without any help with making decisions for separating and preparation for the divorce. So at times, I feel as if I am a Narcissist!

[aprilmorgan]

Omg Lee! Are you talking about, The Little Shop of Horrors?! "Feed me, Seymour, feeeed me!" 😂😂💀💀

[Haitianwife]

When you say wither and die I thought of psalm 37 (like the grass they will soon wither and die ) 😊 this is absolutely true !