Forgiving a Cheating Wife is Risky for men #love #dating #cheating #divorce #lovemarriage

[yodo]

She is 100% correct, the gay guy is way wrong

[villaespesa]

Sadia is right on this one.
The problem is that men's territorial nature goes hand in hand with their protective nature.
So, when a woman cheats, it invalidates everything he is about at the soul level.
A woman doesn't lose value or respect when she is cheated on.
There's only shame and even accusations against men when their wives cheat on them.

[meathead]

When a woman cheats, it hurts on a whole different level. My ex cheated it was a wrap. I know I knew I would never look at her the same.

[InfiniteOutlaw]

Ain't no arguing with a simp. He probably raising someone else's kids right now

[emeraldchat]

It’s tough out there for guys dealing with trust issues and the aftermath of cheating. It feels like they’re often left holding the bag, and the emotional toll can be really heavy

[sofiadossantos]

Cheating on both sides is just terrible.being told that you are the father when you are not is even worse, but it’s also very important to talk about the millions of single mothers in the world that man abandon … all pretty terrible 😞

[EricBCalhoun]

These are obviously betas and they’re fine with the cheating 😂

[BonnieSetliff]

Excellent-videos! My five-year relationship came to an end a month ago. The love of my life chose to leave, and I can't stop thinking about him; I love him so deeply. I've done everything I can to win him back, but nothing seems to work. I'm feeling frustrated and can't imagine my life with anyone else. Despite my efforts to move on, I just can't shake the thoughts of him. I don’t know why I’m sharing this, but I really miss him).

[tchatchatcha]

EDITOR. We got it that you liked this depressing song and you'll put it on all the videos but it is way too loud.

[melissarussell]

I agree, I’m all for paternity testing at birth. No man should EVER be tricked into thinking a baby is his when it isn’t smh ❤🙏🏼!

[hypefalnid]

lol the music went perfectly with this topic!😂

[salmo]

Wow thanks for deleting my comments :) and every other comment that talks about: women will never forget or forgive they will just turn cold. If she is financially dependet on the husband she stays and use him but she will never be the same she will be cold af. But if shes financially independet she just leaves.

[F.N_NOORZAI_]

A cheater is a cheater, regardless of gender. The betrayal and sin are the same, and it's up to the individual whether they choose to justify and repeat their actions or accept responsibility and seek repentance.

I appreciate a lot of your content, but at times, it feels judgmental towards women, despite you being a woman yourself—and a Muslim woman, at that. With the audience and knowledge you possess, it’s important to be fair and base your perspectives on facts, rather than relying on the experiences of some clients who may have a flawed approach to life.

Please make sure to use your knowledge responsibly. You already have a significant audience, and the Muslim community, especially in Western countries, is in need of more Muslim psychologists and therapists.

[caribbeangtr]

She it totally right. When a man gets some outside, he is not giving up on his wife or his kids, and it just good sex most of the time. When a woman does it, her heart and soul is in it. At that point, you've lost her anyway, so don't forgive her, and let her go.

[shellh]

It's not this simple. When my ex cheated with a gutter trash ho I lost my 100k salary in the family business in the divorce. Child support is only 12k and even that is a lot more than what some women get. You can't live off child support and in the UK there are huge problems enforcing it for self employed people. They rarely end up in jail, they can dodge it for years.

[Revetwelve]

As a Christian man I forgave my ex until she eventually left with another man I've learned my lesson

[soydansogukcesme]

Mathew always pleases his audiance instat of try to be neutral

[wn]

By forgiving cheating you are only psychologically telling that person that their actions are completely justified. It’s no wonder they cheat again. If they got away with it once what makes you think that they won’t do it again? It’s because you are allowing it: I’ve been in situations before with women who were disrespectful to me and my boundaries hoping my forgiveness would make them learn and reflect and get better but it never does it just gets worse. Because the truth is at the end of the day we got to stop looking for the good in people and simply believe their actions, we’re all human and we all make mistakes but cheating is not a mistake it is a premeditated decision. No amount of forgiveness or kindness is going to change this person’s feelings. Think of it like this, you don’t reward a spoilt child with a cookie when he throws a tantrum, no, you punish that behaviour to show that it is unacceptable to react in such a way. Same with cheaters, you don’t take them back and continue to reward them with your time, attention, love and affection. People’s actions need to be delt with consequences so they can grasp that their behaviour is unacceptable.

[jjducci]

A real high value woman vs simp with terrible dating advice… kind of interested in seeing this debate.

[juriaanoussoren]

I found out the children werent level
Sorry but first its the cheating right? Then multiple kids that dont look like you? And then the woman how she experience this?