“The male gaze” as an SA survivor

[thebeardedpagan]

Your music and your healing journey have been absolutely a blessing in dealing with my own traumas as a sirviver of SA. I wish you nothing but prosperity and growth!

[BigGayIncorporated]

EXACTLY. They're just trying to claw back some of their power and it's bullshit.

[PARAHSTE]

it's hard not to let things like that get to you when they're connected to trauma but people will form their own views about everything they see. The people who make comments like the ones you're talking about in the video are saying more about themselves and the way they view things than they are about you and your choice of style. <333 ily

[badwitch]

Dear Banshee, I wanted to say thank you for openly talking about SA and singing about it. Your songs have genuinely healed me and helped me a lot 🖤

[truthyoucanterase]

This isn't a hard concept and I'm so happy to hear it voiced thank u

[stephe.]

They’re just mad because you’re breathtaking 🤗

[b.e.a.n.s_]

I'm so happy that you have started posting more about your story. It really helps me and other people who went through this. Thank you.

[ninavanwaalwijk]

Thank you for speaking up!! You’re an amazing and strong women im such a fan of not only your music but also the way you think and the way word your feelings✨✨✨

[dongofhealing]

Your energy is so magical and the divine feminine energy you carry is so real, don’t let anybody tell you you shouldn’t shine the way you want to, ESPECIALLY gross men

[innerdeamongetbob]

Exactly! We should be able to wear whatever the fuck we want without being blamed for other people's shitty behaviors

[deadeye-girlgaming]

I fully agree I'm a survivor of sa as well it has been a very rough road but I'm starting to find me again

[leviathan]

It’s just another way of controlling femininity, power to you for being your authentic self

[emeraldmonalisa]

The best what You can do for yourself is healing through beauty ❤

[StacyFrancis]

You're so intelligent and an inspiration to my music as far empowerment and femininity.

[The_pelican_god]

So i want to ask something. As a 14yr old male how do i help with this? Other then the obvious stuff. A friend of mine told me about her story the other day and i am trying to figure out what to do.

[cadyxx]

Literally tho. I was seven and now I’m fifteen and if I’m alone outside waiting for my mom I freak out anytime a car drives by. What if something bad happens. Nowadays people thinks it’s cool to touch up on people and I don’t like it.

[nightlight-__-]

You are really beautiful and no one else's opinion matters but yours!! I think what you wear is beautiful!

[awhparis]

Tip:

If ur ever a victim of SA [ S3xual Abus3!]

Get the medusa tattoo (OPTIONAL)

[chaneykane]

Exactly! Like it never crosses their minds that I get dressed in front of a mirror for myself.

[momsspaghetti-sdsn]

I'm so sorry you went through this 😢😢 but I'm glad you are healing and that you wre being yourself and express yourself!!