How To Be More Attractive: Female VS Male Gaze

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[FashionFramez]

It’s insane, I just got into fragrances and read “don’t buy dior savage everyone has it” yet i get compliments everyday when I wear it

[thomass]

Can I honestly just thank you?

Because it is thanks to you I got back at my ex girlfriend who cheated on me. I was out of shape and insecure i felt down because I knew it was gonna be hard for me to just get a new girlfriend. Then I followed your advise on aesthetics, within a year I put on some decent amount of muscle mass, got down to 8% body fat, my confidence went thru the roof! And I was not ready for the onslaught of female attention i started getting.. I was posting crazy photos on IG and my ex saw and the best part is she tried to text me and said she misses me, I left her ass on read lol.

[mattbog]

This applies to personality/lifestyle as well. I see both sexes doing the mistake thinking that what they find attractive in opposite sex is what the opposite sex finds attractive as well. So if we dont count looks most guys prefer girls who are nice and sweet personality wise and thats what they do themselves by being the sweet nice guys who end up friendzoned. Women on the other hand prefer men who are successful, driven, have high social status etc. and they think that if theyre career oriented/"successful" themselves that they will be more attractive to guys when in reality most guys dont give a F about that.

[POPJack]

What I noticed is dark colored shirts with a chain and earrings make me look better; this is based off who i attract out at the clubs and bars. I attract more women when im wearing dark colored shirts vs colored shirts. I look more aggressive and manly in black/dark shirts. Also noticed I get more eyes when I have a fresh fade vs growing my hair out or a Caesar cut.

[dmonk]

I forget the term but there is something to the effect of being highly attractive to a small subset of people, versus being mildly attractive to most people. An example is bodybuilders... repulsive to most women, but highly, HIGHLY attractive to maybe 10% of women. Its like shooting fish in a barrel for them once surrounded with those females. So its about finding your own niche. A funny thing I've noticed...certain male hobbies have a significant enough female following. Almost like groupies: soccer clubs, karaoke, drag racing hell even drone racing. You don't have to be the very best at any these SOCIAL/GROUP hobbies, just better than gen pop and certain women will notice or at least find interesting

[wandarimmer]

As a female, I like beards. When I was in my teens & early 20's, not so much; however, when my husband decided to grow a beard when I was in my mid 20's, I was very much thrilled. Thought it elevated his attractiveness even more; however, perhaps it was b/c I was becoming older too? I LOVE HIS BEARD. We've been married nearly 19 years & I even love the salt & pepper of it now. He keeps it nicely trimmed.
I like the look of nicely trimmed beards in general. Definitely not the Duck Dynasty beards. However, perhaps by the time I reach Ms.K's age (the patriarchal head's wife of Duck Dynasty), I may find the Duck Dynasty beard attractive?😊

[gameon]

Choosing the right frag is actually very EASY!

A frag rule #1 is to contrast / compliment your type: If you're dark type (italian, latino arab, black) you wear a light (citrusy, fruity, aquatic) frag say ARMANI AQUA DI GIO and as a nordic type you choose a more dark (woody, spicy) frag i.e. ARMANI CODE

If you go the classic complementary route - you do them frags the other way around: blond nordic type = AQUA DI GiO (aquatic citrusy) and as a darker type you go for the ARMANI CODE (spice, , woody) That's all!

[ScorpionSuerte]

What a very well researched and useful video. Combining the besr aspects of red and black pill. I love it!

[Backthebasics]

Austin is not a funny dude but when he said not the homosexual gays I bust out laughing 😂😂😂😂🤣🤣

[PrettyboiYT]

W video bro. I know some of these probably don’t make sense to average guys. But ever since i started wearing more jewellery, i’ve been getting much more female attention, also im getting tattoos as well this month😌so excited

[POPJack]

This is actually a very good video that literally no other YouTuber has talked about. And the part about the cars is spot on. Women can't tell the difference between a Hellcat vs a SXT. That was a dam good point. So fellas when looking to get a car to impress women, like he said, get something that merely resembles a super car vs a Charger, Mustang, etc. Even a Toyota Supra would attract more women than a Charger.

[AzumaRikimaru]

about the fragrance, I had a nice cologne that all my homies liked too...and of course, it recommended by a man. When i asked some girls if they liked it, they said "no - it smells like my dad" or something along those lines. So from there on out, I just stopped wearing any scents that arent "neutral"

[solodolo_mma]

That Dior Sauvage is by far my favorite. Works like a charm 😎

[The_Guitar_Guy_]

I agree with the tattoo thing. Like Brad Pitts tattoos in snatch look more edgy than a sleeve of complex art work

[bornabudic]

Hey Austin what about behavioral changes in the male vs female gaze? Do you think female gaze supports more gentle caring or other feminine traits? Could you do a video on that aswell?

[laithellabban]

very interesting video; and great points made. some things can perceived by men to be slightly feminine, but they appreciated by women. dudes often think being as masculine as possible is gonna make her go crazy

[datoolz]

Frankly female gaze standard is a lot easier to hit, looking like Cbum is impossible, but a K pop star physique is easily attainable. I guess wearing jewellery appeals, I still say hard no to tattoos. With how prevalent tattoos are, you stand out more by not having them. I still maintain being clean shaven is best, to be honest these minor stylistic choices matter a lot less than having a good slim physique and dressing well and dancing, If you have money to clinch the deal even better.

[edwinvickersAK]

Curly fragrance on YouTube is my go to for a good female POV on cologne

[red]

Fragrance is key. Looking good and feeling good