Narcissists like to set boundaries to protect themselves but wont follow anyone else's boundaries

[KariMotley]

Love that! “Narcissists don’t want cooperation, they want obedience”. 👏👏👏

[addy]

Another example of their double standards. Infuriating.

[hebalatte]

Wanna piss off a narc MIL…slap a firm boundary down and NEVER BUDGE!

[brittneyparker]

Boundary setting is the elite form of self care for a DA survivor ❤️

[EJ-mbdu]

You should have seen my narc sisters face when I called her a control freak, followed by "no". The shock was palpable!!! Lol!

[chrysallis]

Oh yes! 💯truth. Biggest hypocrites there could ever be. AND they get pissy and/or enraged when you try to set boundaries with them. (Depending on the day and mood of course!)

[dovewhite]

Amen!!!! You are so correct. Before I met him, I'd never heard of narcissism. We only met 3 years ago. But looking back, my first husband was one as well.

[barbarajordan]

Oh yeah. Tell them "no" or, "no thanks, I do not want to go., etc. "

[AngelPyra]

Yup. I used to think that I had to be always saying yes to people to be liked or respected. Every time I said no, people made me feel like a bad person. It took me years to get passed that and stop being a magnet for narcissists. I don't consider those who leave over my boundaries as a loss anymore.

[jesussaves]

Narcissists understand that other people have boundaries - they just don’t care. ‘Do what thou wilt’ is the axiom of the narcissist. They don’t care about the wants, needs, feelings or desires of other people (especially if they get in the way of theirs). They know what they are doing is selfish and evil, but they view other people as competition, and morality as a system trying to control them.

[MonsterPrincessLala]

I wish I had this channel years ago. Omg. You are really helping me work out why a lot of my trauma happened. I almost lost my life to DV and there are so many little things I didn't realize I was STILL blaming myself for until I watched this channel.

[thisguy]

Yeah she was always extreme aggressive and defensive…..said her ex husband was horrible and she’d never let herself be taken advantage of by a man again so she was always ready to pounce…which is weird because she would always tell me she knew she was taking me for granted and needed to be a better partner. So backwards and confusing

[sarahchannahholliday]

True so True! Be ready to feel the punishment!!! The tage and the forever grudge!! It takes courage but we can do it yall🙏💪❤

[loveispatientloveiskind]

But other coaches totally encourage boundaries!!

[threeheavenshealing]

They can’t handle half the shit they expect you to…

[barbmack]

So true....that was pretty much when his true colors came shining through, when he didn't get his way....I knew of that side of him, but never thought it would come in my direction....I have been pretty much a yes/agreeable person, go along instead of speaking up....NO MORE....I just celebrated my one year since I saw him...and I was okay....no ruminating etc

[WarmestComputer]

This is fantastic advice even if you aren't dealing with someone with NPD.

[starshine]

He wants to know everything about him, but he needs his privacy when I asked.

[TheMeganKendall]

Wow thank you I needed to hear this. I tell my mom no and it’s like I’ve betrayed her then I feel guilty for not being a good daughter.

[freddiejuniorministries]

That is so true man when I say No it’s a big problem