Setting Boundaries With Narcissists: Everything You Need To Know

The first thing to recognize with a narcissist is that boundaries don't work. Narcissists are abusers, and all abusers, by definition, don't respect boundaries.
Because especially in the case of a narcissist, it's all about them. Who cares about your boundaries? Unless they're an advantage to me. I don't even notice them.

Watch more of this video by searching "5 Strategies to Deal With a Narcissistic Child" on YouTube.

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[mojo]

Telling them your boundaries just lets them know what to do to push your buttons. Never let them know your soft spots.

[Cris-zzfd]

Because when you tell them "boundaries", they see "weapons"

[mtkellali]

OMG so true! And the anger and full blown RAGE when you try to make your boundaries clear to them.

[Doggygreats]

I listened to this at least 10 times. I never thought of my spouse as an abusive person. Now I realize he is .

[Ccamero]

I’m a victim of sibling abuse from a narcissistic elder sister. It was a nightmare and trampled any self esteem I had. I finally cut her out of my life after my last parent passed away. Therapy has helped me heal that little girl.

[sonyadunbar]

Boundaries are for you not them. Don’t tell them your boundaries, show them.

[anniel]

That's a big problem when you have kids with a narcissist... not only they don't respect boundaries but they encourage your kids to do same. So it double screw you...crazy and damaging.

[angelamag]

If you set a clear boundary they will do the opposite just because they want to upset you.

[LesleyGarvs-voeq]

Well, that s why we run away and give 0 contact

[yellowbird]

Boundaries are best defined through silence and ignoring the baited hooks. Pretend you don't notice. If you don't live with the person you can say, "Gotta go!" when things start sliding. Everything to them is potential armament. And they will not forget you said it, even if it's distorted by the time he/she feeds it back to you. The less you say, the less you share, the better. Accepting that they do not care and will not change is very freeing.

[pandoraspocks]

Don’t tell Narcissist anything! They will destroy everything you speak of

[maryw]

Thank you Kenny abusive people know no boundaries ❤

[lesliecurlis]

My boundaries were disrespected until I threatened to call the police. That's how far they push you.

[Astrologcomedy]

Set a boundary as soon as you start dating and see if they find sneaky ways to get around it - red flag

[tacovdveenG]

My father is a narc. I, age 45, told him STOP. He got a narcissistic anger attack and punched me knock out. Afterwards he told the whole family, that I am aggressive. I told him "I never talk to you again, unless you beg for forgiveness, acknowledge you are the only one to blame". Era of Peace started that moment, I stick to my promise.

[MsBettyRubble]

DO NOT tell anyone what your boundaries are. They are for YOU not the other person. I have several boundaries. I set how I will behave when someone yells at me, threatens me, insults me, etc. Why tell a potentially violent person that you're standing up for yourself? Thats obviously dangerous. Decide what you will do and follow that. FOR EXAMPLE, there is a physically aggressive person in my family. Everyone loves this person. But if Im alone with that individual, I'm physically attacked. MY BOUNDARY is to NEVER be alone with this person during family events. NEVER. Guess what? It works. I am either with a friend or at least one other relative. I have not been attacked since I made that boundary. And any attempt on that person's part to get me alone does not work. I just don't know why all these "coaches" advocate stating boundaries. Utterly stupid and dangerous. Im happy to say I no longer see that person any more. And good riddance. BOUNDARIES DO WORK when they're used properly.

[miss_thwonder]

I will be forever grateful for this video, 🤝🏻👌🏻❤️ you validated all of my trauma and experience as I overcame today a few steps mile so that I could not fall back and understand what has happened to me is a heinous crime to humanity! From such a selfish mom who is living life after pushing me into hell and CPTSD, ex-family or generational curse and
Also outside guys after breaking free from childhood trauma

[coutureleotards]

This popped up as I was just about to settle in and pretend I didn't just have my boundaries squashed. I see what I have to do now, I keep learning more and more. Knowledge is power !

[dwd]

It actually becomes a challenge for them. They will go out of their way to get you to break them

[sandrazawada]

You give a perspective nobody else gives. So thank you