Say No To The Narcissist

SAY NO TO THE NARCISSIST//Do you want to know how to say no to the narcissist in your life? Saying no is one of the single things that people think they should never say to a narcissist because of what happens when a narcissist can’t control you. Although it’s important to keep your safety a priority, saying no and refusing a narcissist is one of the phrases that will disarm the narcissist in your life. Watch this video to learn all about how to say no to a narcissist and what happens when you do tell a narcissist no.
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[peterknyk]

NO!!!! I’m learning!!! Little by little I’m taking my power back and she absolutely hates it! She gets so pissed off and then throws things back at me....And, she’s getting darker and darker and darker! NO!!!!

[AppliedMathematician]

I can not agree more, saying no is absolute essential for maintaining autonomy when you are a target of a narcissists.

[breakthroughmoment]

Just say N.O. That dishwasher example drove it home. A little pushback will send a strong message!

[mikehess]

Thank you...once you begin to set your functional boundaries it wont be long till the narc leaves and blames you for them leaving...

[dougarnold]

👋😁.
Just say no.
I feel like it's the 1980's again...
...just say no to drugs.
...just say no to narcissists.

[monabarakat]

Big NO -exactly what you said is 100 %true

[isisclarke]

Just say no Isis! Stick to your boundaries and gut!

[Dukefly]

I do not owe them anything...I do not let them Leach on my soul....I said NO!

[lauraheller]

Just say no! Thank you for your honesty and knowledge ❤️. You’ve helped me so much.

[maritawhite]

NO... my whole life I have struggled with this. NEX was the worst like I felt sick not saying yes. Told him not recently it was a nightmare!

[pinkposey]

Aw the boyfriend from the past like 30yrs ago, showed up. I just said no! Talk about hovering, discarded and now pops up on SM for attention Thanks! They don't know boundaries hold them yourself! and of course he is married LOL

[boaboy]

Narcis"sith"istic...
Cheers team healthy

[gqfilipino]

Been saying no to the narcissistic MIL and the family.

[OwnersofaBrokenHeart]

I caught that Tort attached to I would like to hear more for this .... thank you!

[fayceedat]

Thank you Rebecca. Love your videos ❤❤❤

[ajtru]

Just say no

I've recently had to do that with my narc son. He asked the other night what I'd do if he shows up on my doorstep. I said, "you can't come here!" He said, "wanna bet?" Again I said he can't come here. He asked me why so I told him because he tried to burn the house down with me and his siblings inside. He said the cops didn't tell him he couldn't come back here. I said he can't come here, he made his decisions. He said, "well, if you look at the father I had-" and I cut him off right there. I said, "you are not a victim of circumstance, you are a victim of your own choices and no one but you is responsible for the choices you make but you." He hung up on me.

The truth is, most people have unhappy times in their life, but it isn't someone else's fault. We can always make the choice to rise above our circumstances and not use them as an excuse to behave badly, or to be unsuccessful and unproductive. I myself have had to rise above my circumstances, abused as a child by my step mom, a dad that allowed it to happen, a mom who didn't want me, a broken family, a survivor of divorce as a child, and 2 divorces of my own that ended for domestic violence and infidelity. I had to say no, enough. I had to go through homelessness to not go back on my no. But I'm married to a wonderful man who is a great husband and father, we own our home, raise our kids, and he had to rise above his circumstances too, losing his mom to breast cancer at age 14, 2 divorces of his own, and a survivor of child molestation and domestic violence by his second wife.

We are not a victim of circumstance.

And no means NO!

[DJ-vzxe]

I broke up with my narc bf two weeks ago and yesterday he called and asked me to help him study for a test. I said no because I was setting boundaries and trying to get him to understand he can’t just call and ask me for mundane things he can do himself. He said he had no respect for me and that God wasn’t going to be pleased with me not helping a man in need and that he hopes God will help me with my bitterness because the devil is controlling me and the turmoil in my life and that’s why I’m treating him so poorly. Then he told me to fuck off and hung up on me. I mean, just the most ridiculous tantrum, gaslighting, bull crap. I said I’m not looking for your respect anymore and your free to ask someone else for help because I’m not available.

[stephanieward]

You. Are. Very. Good. You've. Helped. Alot.🙂