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Is Your Breakup Actually A Blessing In Disguise?
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YouTube! What's up, this is Brad Browning… I'm kind of a big deal. Well, I'm only a big deal if you need breakup advice, marriage help, or if you're desperate to win back your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend. If that describes your current situation, then you have hit the YouTube jackpot… this video, I'll be explaining how your breakup might actually be a GOOD thing.
Stick with my all the way to #4, because that's the one that I think you'll find most helpful. But first, let's begin with question #1….
#1 - Are the issues that led to your recent breakup CHRONIC, or something that can be fixed?
But sometimes, these issues are fundamental and wont' ever change. Hey, dude out there watching this video -- yeah, you -- your girl has cheated on you 6 times in the past 2 years, do you really think there won't be a seventh time? Do you want to take that chance?
What about if you partner is certain that they NEVER want kids, and won't ever live anywhere outside of their hometown. If those aren't compromises you can live with forever, if you are 100% committed to having children, or don't like the idea of living out the rest of your days in Gary, Indiana…. Be honest and decide if you'll ever be able to fix the problems that plagued your relationship.
#2 - Can you picture yourself with your ex in the future? A year from now? Ten years?
Picture yourself, and what your life will look like, down the road… 6 months, a year, a decade… is your ex in that picture?
Obviously there's no simple or "correct" answer to those questions, and quite frankly sost of you watching won't have this kind of concern with your situation. But sometimes, the issues are just too overwhelming to realistically have a future together. Make sure you're being realistic about your future and who you want to be with months or years down the road.
#3 - How often did you and your ex argue?
Think back to before the breakup, when you were still together… how often did you have arguments? What were they about? How intense were they? Did you sometimes argue for no reason, or over small things?
Studies have shown that while a certain amount of arguing is normal and expected, some couples have personality clashes or are both particularly stubborn and prone to explosive arguments all the time.
#4 - Do you miss your ex specifically, or do you miss having a partner or being in a relationship?
Maybe you've confused the source of the heartache and sadness you've felt since the breakup…. Maybe you don't really miss your ex as much as you miss being in a relationship. This is a very common mistake that quite a few of my clients make, and it's especially common for younger people with less experience dating or being in relationships. It's also often rooted in an fear of loneliness that almost everyone has deep down, whether they realize it or not…. Nobody wants to be alone, feel unwanted, or not have a partner to share their life with. But that doesn't mean you should stay in a relationship that's not working, or isn't ever going to work.
And here's a bonus question for you… #5 - Have you taken my free quiz yet?
THANK YOU for watching, THANK YOU for subscribing to my channel, as I'm sure you already have…. If not, what are you waiting for? Click subscribe and click that little bell icon to get notified when I release future videos.
YouTube! What's up, this is Brad Browning… I'm kind of a big deal. Well, I'm only a big deal if you need breakup advice, marriage help, or if you're desperate to win back your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend. If that describes your current situation, then you have hit the YouTube jackpot… this video, I'll be explaining how your breakup might actually be a GOOD thing.
Stick with my all the way to #4, because that's the one that I think you'll find most helpful. But first, let's begin with question #1….
#1 - Are the issues that led to your recent breakup CHRONIC, or something that can be fixed?
But sometimes, these issues are fundamental and wont' ever change. Hey, dude out there watching this video -- yeah, you -- your girl has cheated on you 6 times in the past 2 years, do you really think there won't be a seventh time? Do you want to take that chance?
What about if you partner is certain that they NEVER want kids, and won't ever live anywhere outside of their hometown. If those aren't compromises you can live with forever, if you are 100% committed to having children, or don't like the idea of living out the rest of your days in Gary, Indiana…. Be honest and decide if you'll ever be able to fix the problems that plagued your relationship.
#2 - Can you picture yourself with your ex in the future? A year from now? Ten years?
Picture yourself, and what your life will look like, down the road… 6 months, a year, a decade… is your ex in that picture?
Obviously there's no simple or "correct" answer to those questions, and quite frankly sost of you watching won't have this kind of concern with your situation. But sometimes, the issues are just too overwhelming to realistically have a future together. Make sure you're being realistic about your future and who you want to be with months or years down the road.
#3 - How often did you and your ex argue?
Think back to before the breakup, when you were still together… how often did you have arguments? What were they about? How intense were they? Did you sometimes argue for no reason, or over small things?
Studies have shown that while a certain amount of arguing is normal and expected, some couples have personality clashes or are both particularly stubborn and prone to explosive arguments all the time.
#4 - Do you miss your ex specifically, or do you miss having a partner or being in a relationship?
Maybe you've confused the source of the heartache and sadness you've felt since the breakup…. Maybe you don't really miss your ex as much as you miss being in a relationship. This is a very common mistake that quite a few of my clients make, and it's especially common for younger people with less experience dating or being in relationships. It's also often rooted in an fear of loneliness that almost everyone has deep down, whether they realize it or not…. Nobody wants to be alone, feel unwanted, or not have a partner to share their life with. But that doesn't mean you should stay in a relationship that's not working, or isn't ever going to work.
And here's a bonus question for you… #5 - Have you taken my free quiz yet?
THANK YOU for watching, THANK YOU for subscribing to my channel, as I'm sure you already have…. If not, what are you waiting for? Click subscribe and click that little bell icon to get notified when I release future videos.
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