The Stages a Narcissist Goes Through When You Leave Him

What happens when you leave a narcissist?

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Tune in to hear the perspective of a self aware narcissist. That’s me - Ben Taylor a narcissist in recovery trying to promote awareness, healing, growth and change. I do that by these videos on here, TikTok, Instagram and Facebook.

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[RawMotivations]

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[parrymylogicthen]

And soon as you go back. The abuse get worst! Don't go back!!!

[cierrabennett]

DON'T YOU NEVER, EVER, EVER GO YOU GET OUT, YOU STAY

[terridillon]

The audacity that THEY feel betrayed. What a f-ing joke.
😂

[mandyrobbins]

"Hoover does not mean care but its about control"👌

[PatricaKing]

Week 3 of the silent treatment. It hurt at first but now I'm just mad, who does he think he is to treat me this way! So he drops a bomb that he hasn't wanted to be together for 17 of the 22 years. 22years! HE has sacrificed his happiness. OMG. He spent all the money I had when we met, sold all the properties I bought, ran me into bancruptcy. My 2 older kids were shunned and my son actually took his own life 11 yrs ago. He is slowly turning our 2 boys against me. Then he goes silent. So I went silent too. He thinks I'm going to apologize to him for what HE said. Not gonna happen. I'm done. Good luck loser. I rather live under a bridge in a box than one more day with this evil, hollow, man child.😢 just pray for me! God will make a way❤

[NathanSegal]

9+ months of no contact. Blocked her everywhere. No hovering; nothing. Just space and silence.

[OXSweetnspicyXO]

Omg that’s so crazy.. even the first thing you’ve mentioned. He said I betrayed him by abandoning him ( breaking up with him) and that’s why he hates me. But I was like dude.. you literally openly treated my like crap, you “hated” me before I left you.

[libertybell]

I'm in the "act like nothing happened hoovers." He will never change. Moving on and enjoying my life. Don't let toxic people steal your energy. ❤️🙏🏻

[cherylg.]

It's mind-blowing to discover that someone can think like this!! They are so dangerous to innocent people !!

[mortischahicks]

I JUST LEFT MY EX. NARC DAY 4 NO CONTACT!! And I feel good about my decision..

[libbybarrett]

"Why are you leaving, you'll never find anyone better." LOL!!!! Narcissists set the bar so low with how they treat their wives/girlfriends, that literally anyone their (now) ex dates would have no choice but to be an improvement. And probably, a huge improvement too.

[karenhayes]

Left mine 30 days ago with just the clothes on my back, after 18 yrs, stress of abuse got down to 94 lbs.had to walk out while I could still walk

[KleeKaiBreeders]

Narcs are so mean and they enjoy seeing you suffer.

I went no contact over a year ago now and it was very hard. I divorced him.

The narc did exactly what this video outlines to a T.
It’s been six months now with no attempts from him or his flying monkeys.
I blocked them all and for awhile I’d get mean messages from other unknown numbers calling me a whore, a gold digger, a piece of sheet… And he’s the one who cheated on me several times. I loved him and was devastated.
Narcs will never stop needing an insane amount of attention. Narcs are so hungry and thirsty that it’s actually scary.
Bye bye narcie.

[delawxoxo]

You are 100% correct he accused me of cheating which I never did and discovered he was the one cheating the whole time. I'm glad and sad its all over for good. He use to drain me emotionally dealing with him. all the cycles were to much.

[Mnprmn]

"They don't get it". Pretty much sums up their whole personality.

[hibbertsh]

Stay silent, keep away, you loved them... they don't even like you, this is what IT told me!

[debbier]

Love your statement; 'Hover does not mean 'care'.'.
'Hover is Control'
Very important to realize these truths.😮

[Cellia]

I'm up to 137 days of no contact Ben. I'm sure he doesn't even notice that I'm gone or even cares at all. Mine is heartless and cold as hell. I have never felt better since I left him and his main supply long behind. The last time we spoke he said through a nasty email... stay out of my life... like a spoiled little brat. So I know he hates me to much, to want to come back to me. He knows I'm not a fun toy to play with anymore. I guess turning the tables, standing up for yourself, speaking the truth to someone will make them hate you for it. My therapist says I'm like a big mirror, reflecting back the truth to him is why he hates me so much..

[L.RaeHoldt]

When we say "don't go back" we mean it.