The 3 INFJ Subtypes

Three different types of INFJ based on their extroversion and energy.

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[Thebrighteststarintheuniverse]

Being an INFJ feels like being all 16 personalities and none of them at the same time. It's really hard cuz you totally see how others are, but no one can see how you are.

[Reveri]

I'm an INFJ that can 'turn on' extroversion around people I care to interact with. I don't really speak unless spoken to but when I do I try to talk, smile and laugh boldly to make people feel comfortable around me

[neilschlichting]

When Frank mentioned "INFJ doesn't talk much, but when they do they'll hammer you in the head with what they know"
Definitely accurate.
Sometimes I think I overload people with knowledge so I remain silent more often than not.

[iremkucuk]

As an INFJ, I feel like I'm very introverted unless there is someone I feel is more introverted than me. In this case I try to open up this person and help them blend in. And if I really am the most introverted in a group setting, I just wait until someone notices me.

[theholywater]

No one:

Me: *trying to learn how to human as an INFJ*

[miak]

You know youre a true infj when you can relate with every single subcategory and end up having another identity crisis over your level of extroversion

[dollydolldaze]

This totally resonates.
I’m an INFJ who is always busting out random excessive bursts of extroversion that are over the top and then experience paralysing self consciousness and regret later and overthink others perceptions of me as a loon.
I recently broke into the Tom Hanks song he performs in the movie Big at work including a small dance. Thought this would be entertaining but nobody got the reference and the tumbleweed rumbled through my soul.
Frank. I adore your content, wry humour and analysis. You are the cherry in my pie

[danika]

ENFP here listening to all INFJ videos and realizing I treated my INFJ best friend wrong 😭😭😭 I want to run to her and hug her so much!

[candykiss]

When I’m around other introverts who are also feelers, it seems like I become more extroverted around them because they somehow make me open up and feel related?

[aash]

i think we as infjs go through these subtypes at different phases in our life according to the situations presented to us

[stephenbrennan]

as a infj I feel like I see things that others will never pick up on..

[melindamorrison]

I'm an INFJ. I like my alone time but I also get so much out of engaging conversations with people that I love and trust. It allows me to unload and I often have a need to feel understood and validated when it comes to dealing with problems big or small.
It comes back to that communication thing I guess.
I can go a week without seeing people but I also generally like to socialize at least once a week. Preferably in one on one or small groups with close friends.

[arwuh]

The three subtypes of ESTJs:
1. Hates Timmy.
2. Loathes Timmy.
3. Despises Timmy.

[tonyzheng]

Me as an INFJ working in the service industry:
Work hour: [extrovert mode on]
Off hour: [normal mode on]

[rorokai-iczd]

As an INFJ I usually tend to act differently with everyone Like I can get sooo social and active when I'm excited or when talking to someone I feel at ease with ( especially kids lol) but then can turn extremely socially anxious when I don't know them it's a struggle

[arielletucker]

I’m an INFJ and I feel like I’ve cycled through each of these types throughout my life kind of based on how much self confidence I felt at that point in time. Love your channel

[Sweeps]

I am an INFJ. I feel drained after social events, and whenever I have an event coming up I dread going to it and socializing. But when I do go, I either enjoy it, or I dislike it. Sometimes I feel more alone when I’m in a group compared to when I am truly by myself. Despite all of this anxiety, if I’m by myself too much I *need* socialization.

In new environments, I don’t talk to people. I talk to them when they talk to me, or talk when there is a shared interest, but starting a conversation is hard for me. And yet, I complain about not having friends.

I complain that I can relate to most people I meet, but none of them can fully relate to me. I complain that I don’t hang out with friends, even though I don’t make any effort to try and hang out with them. It’s like my personality contradicts itself.

I’ve started to watch your channel, and love all of your content, especially the INFJ content. Great video!

[bjorn]

"Once they begin communicating, they will hammer you over the head with what they know." -FJ

I feel this deeply.

[DeborahJoshua]

I’m an INFJ, and my daughter is an INFJ, and we are so opposite! It bothers her a lot that I have taken the MBTest 3 times and always come up INFJ. I just sent this video to her, because this explains a LOT! She’s the totally introverted one, and I’m the ambivert one.

[profetadeoz]

I used to be an extroverted INFJ as a teenager. A lot of energy put on the others, less on myself. That leaded me to personal and internal problems.

Then I focused all my energy on myself, and my self discovering. Therefore became an introverted INFJ. But helped me a lot to learn about myself. But always had in mind as a bigger goal to help others. But always thinking the following: "If I can't controll my life, neither I could help with other's". That was a lot of introspecting and self learning.

After all the process, now I am a healthier INFJ, an "ambibert" INFJ. I think of myself when it's necessary, but still put my energy on who DESERVE it. This path leaded me to have better relationships, less but closer friends at the end.