The 3 INFJ Subtypes. 2) The Solipsist

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[Coneman]

Be social and authentic by telling people they are wrong and clueless with bad motivations 😂

[takitakirumba]

I think I went through all three subtypes so to speak as I grew up.. I was quite a people-pleaser and sometimes still fall into that trap, often neglecting myself.. Then I went in recluse rejecting the world and all the ways of the world, my mind was so entrenched in concepts of negativity and darkness it colored all of my interactions with the world

It took a long painful period to actually put in trust little by little in people goodwill love and genuinity, but the rewards were worth the efforts, it shifted ny temperature or nature over time.. with consistent habits and decisions from a new mindset influencing my interactions in life

Temperance or nature of a person changes with different mindsets, outlook or worldviews as a person goes through life, and as it can alter and shift over time and definitely changes the way an INFJ come across to others outwardly

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[rexraptor]

Great video, Reanud! Have you considered creating a video of how we, as INFJs, hide our true feelings from others?

[jaytm]

Solipsistic...I was a misanthropic loner type in my teens and early twenties, but pushed beyond that.

[mb]

Glad to have found myself in this category in my edgy teen years in order to have now balanced out as a still-idiosyncratic but finally decidedly more gracious and chill middle aged adult :p

There is a lot that I look back on in embarrassment but negating your perspective is a form of self abandonment which should make growth in said perspective quite difficult! I think a benefit of the ‘turning away’ is that you’re then completely accountable to yourself and thus have to find in yourself the source of your own dissatisfaction. But I suppose it might be a choice that takes a long time and much agony before before bearing fruit! My life being some instance of that, like I'm now 36 and I think I've only really become relaxed and gracious towards more diverse expressions of humanity in really the past few years lol.

[MFrancis]

It is possible to be conspiratorially minded and also trusting of the Universe. The fact is many conspiracies that are mocked and jeered at by the majority of people are indeed true. Does that mean that we are not engaged with a loving Universe? I think not, we can choose to see conspiracies but not be overwhelmed by the negative ideas they represent.

[lpjah]

I was adaptive submissive most my life, now I’m definitely solipsistic. But I want to be more than this.

[Coneman]

I used to be more the first type but now I’m more this type.

[CrystallynRose]

So I'm curious, where is the video on the third subtype?

[munen-muso]

Man, you generally have very good insights, but are you saying that we should be TRUSTING OF THE WORLD!?!? (I sincerely hope that I've misunderstood something)

I was especially concerned when you said that the highest most-liberated INFJ is NOT suspicious of the world. (If so, talk about not recognizing reality -- which is a very un-INFJ thing to do BTW)

*Fact:* People are their own mobile moral hazards. This makes them, largely, selectively relativistic, meaning that they care nothing for reality unless it happens to benefit them; otherwise, their primary concern is satiating subjective preferences and pleasures.