6 Signs That He's Into You | Use These Secrets to Decode His Body Language

You're far from alone if you have trouble reading a man, but the truth is:

The body language of men is really not that complicated.

But if you're like most women, you completely overthink the signs a man is attracted to you sexually and don't even know how to read that he's even interested in you at all. Ladies, men are not trying to be cryptic with their body language! It's all a matter of knowing what to look for and how to interpret it.

I'm going to be walking through a few different signals a man might throw on a date, and explain the body language of men so you can read them.

You're welcome (in advance).

Your Coach,

Body Language of Men #1: He Tilts His Head

To understand the body language of men, start listening!

If a man tilts his head when he meets you, it is very likely that he is attracted to you. There's warmth in a head tilt.

What to Do Back: If he's tilting his head at you, make sure your own body language indicates interest. Lean in when he talks, and make lots of eye contact.

Body Language of Men #2: He Fidgets

If he fidgets, he's totally into you.

You've probably noticed that a lot of times when you were on a first date: the man kept fidgeting. And it might have been a turn-off to you because you thought it showed a lack of confidence.

But here's something I'd like you to acknowledge: having the courage to step up and talk to you or ask you out takes a lot of courage.

What to Do Back: Try this and see if his fidgeting diminishes: compliment him. It'll boost his confidence a bit and he might feel more relaxed. Then the nice thing is: once a guy feels confident around you, you're going to get to know the real him even faster, not that Nervous Nellie who is crazily tapping his foot against the table.

Body Language of Men #3: He Touches You

Where he touches you communicates different things.

If he's touching your shoulder or your lower back, he's giving you signs that he's attracted to you sexually, that he's seeing where this could potentially go.

What to Do Back: If he touches your back, lean into it to communicate that you are receptive to his touch. Reciprocate the touch sometime during the date. Put your flat palms on his upper chest or touch his neck.

Body Language of Men #4: He Holds a Hug a Long Time

The longer the hug, the more he's into you.

If he's really holding on, he's taking that time for your bodies and your energy to connect with one another.

So let that guy hug you long and hard!

What to Do Back: Hug back! But realize a hug is not a hug is not a hug. Don't hug like a limp fish. Embrace his back firmly and warmly. Maybe snuggle into that space between his shoulder and neck. Let him break away first.

Body Language of Men #5: He Touches His Face

He wants to make sure he looks good for you!

What to Do Back: Try flashing your wrists! Sounds crazy, but holding your wrists toward him indicates your own sexual interest. Why? Perhaps because way back before Daisy Dukes shorts women were covered head to toe in clothing...except their wrists (and ankles), so it was the only skin they could expose.

Body Language of Men #6: He's Constantly Smiling

He's smiling because he likes you!

The easiest body language of men to interpret is a smile.

Humans smile when they're interested, when they're happy when they're engaged.

So if he's constantly smiling when he's with you, that's a big SCORE.

What to Do Back: One of the best things that you can do to attract an amazing man is to smile at him. I call it smocking, smiling while talking. You may need to check in to make sure you're smiling at him, especially if his blue eyes are dazzling you and making you forget to smile.

There you have it: 6 ways to read people and interpret the body language of men. These subtle nonverbal communication signs give you an indication of when you should keep talking to a guy (because he's interested) or when you should move on (he's not feeling it).

What signs has a man given that you didn't know how to interpret? Leave a comment below and I'll decipher it for you!

[alyssaargyle]

Sexy confidence: hey there you sexy single ladies.
Mom: wtf are you watching??

[moongirl]

Head dilt
Fidget
Touches you
Timing of the hug
Constant face touch
Constant smile


You’re welcome

[MichelleBaxoPowerLove]

Women overthink? Never? Haha. Great video

[xfaroutzx]

My experience has been that if he’s not nervous it’s because he places no importance on the outcome. He’s most likely a player and it’s just a numbers game for him.

[XPrincess]

I always tilt my head 😂😂 I hope people don’t take that the wrong way

[johntelljackson]

THIS DUDE GIVING OUT ALL THE TIPSSSS😂😂😂😂😂

[nidzapage]

Well crap I thought #3 is creepy and I'm not into it at all. Lmbo

[sultrylak]

Guys can do all of that and still be in a relationship or married ! 😑

[esther]

He stares without blinking..!!& smile

[atskhan]

Third intro was so like Joey of friends😂😂

[nellm]

That moment he says ‘Nervous Nelly’ and you’re name is Nelly 😂

[aureliestampfli]

That camera focus tho... or i could be drunk not gonna lie

[mugundan]

You missed one important thing #eye contact....

[lexiemaep]

I’m divorcing my husband because does NONE of these

[Princesszuko]

I literally always consciously tilt my head when I meet /greet people I know regardless off whether I like them or not 😂

[yuktiarora]

MOST IMPORTANT -
YOU WILL FEEL IT THROUGH HIS EYES
EYES ARE THE MIRROR TO SOUL, NO OTHER BODY PART COULD GIVE SUCH SIGNS AS THAT GLARE DOES

[darlingjaels]

I think not being able to say the person/your crushs name is a sign he/she likes you. For example if he/she is never saying or calling out to you by your name only like once in a blue moon or calls you something else it could be a sign. I cant say my crushs name because there is just so much emotion and nervousness the butterflies just take over and I cant do it. So dont be offendes if a guy/girl never calls you by your name or calls you something else or another nickname he gives you. It could be a possible sign he/she likes you.

[tammybagwell]

This is where guys send mixed signals. I've gotten these signals from certain guys but they still weren't interested.😕 I'm sure i may have done something wrong but nothing colossal that would be obvious🙍

[ayesharulzz]

I m so fucking nervous mostly I don't think I pay tht much attention cuz I m too busy trying not to freak 😅😅😅

[mangoesnbreadfruit]

And, on the touching subject: What if your boss out of nowhere, finds an excuse to hold your hand while working together at work!??! Lol, seriously. Suppose you've also caught him staring at you at work?