7 Signs He's Secretly Attracted to You (#3 Makes NO Sense)

In this video and article, I’m going to give you some definite signs that he’s attracted to you, even if he’s trying to keep it a secret.

Let’s dive into some signs he’s secretly attracted to you so that you can plan your next move.

1:31 Signs He's Secretly Attracted to You #1. He Gets Nervous In Your Company

I don’t think women ever realize how completely intimidating it is for a man to approach them. He worries you’ll reject him or laugh at him. Now, I know you wouldn’t, but he has that in his head. So cut him some slack.

If this guy is fidgety around you (and no one else), that’s a pretty good sign he’s secretly attracted to you. Reassure him that you’re interested too with a nice flirty smile or a hand on his arm.

2:17 Signs He's Secretly Attracted to You #2. He Smiles and Opens His Body Language

His body language will also communicate his interest. Rather than crossing his arms or turning away from you (which communicates the very opposite), he will face toward you and even lean in when you talk (it’s especially cute if you’re short and he’s tall and does this!).

3:15 Signs He's Secretly Attracted to You #3. He’s Mean to You or Teases You

If he teases you, tease him back!

Instead of you running and crying in the bathroom, knowing that this actually means he likes you should help you be a little confident, and maybe get you to tease him back.

3:57 Signs He's Secretly Attracted to You #4. You Get the Feeling He’s Into You

I’m always telling you Sexy Confident women to trust your gut. If you get the feeling that he’s attracted to you, don’t let your brain overthink it and convince your gut otherwise.

There’s a reason scientists call the gut The Second Brain: it has an eerie ability to “know” things that sometimes your brain gets wrong. So give it a try. The next time you think a guy is showing signs he’s secretly attracted to you, find out and see if your gut was right.

4:06 Signs He's Secretly Attracted to You #5. He Works On Appearing Well-Groomed

If this man is someone you’ve spent time with platonically, pay attention to whether he seems to be putting in extra effort these days into his appearance.

Any change in his appearance for the better may indicate that he’s trying to subtly get your attention. Make sure you praise his efforts…and put in your own. Shopping time!

4:14 Signs He's Secretly Attracted to You #6. He Has A Helpful Attitude Towards You

Is he going out of his way to be helpful? He’s definitely interested!

Men are natural providers. When we are attracted to a woman, we want to help her however we can.

He might offer you a ride when your car’s in the shop…

He might help with that TPS report you’ve been stressing about at work…

He might bring you chicken noodle soup when you’re sick.

Realize that the average dude is not going to put this effort into helping a female friend. If he’s going above and beyond, he wants to provide value to you, the same way cavemen wanted to get the approval of their caveladies when they brought home a nice juicy dinosaur steak!

4:44 Signs He's Secretly Attracted to You #7. He’s Constantly Grooming Himself

Men don’t even realize that they’re doing this. They may run their fingers through their hair (wishing they were running them through your hair). Or comb their beards with their fingers (hoping there are no crumbs lingering!). However he’s grooming himself, he’s trying to make sure that he’s looking his best in front of a lady he is absolutely smitten with.

[rozanna]

I over ignore the man when I like him😂😂😂

[selfoclock]

Simple Answer: Watch his actions, not his words.

[xniteshade]

The eye contact.... omg! If I find a man very handsome, I absolutely cannot look him in the eyes initially! The anxiety I feel is intense! It’s embarrassing!!! Makes me feel like I’m still a teenager! 🤦🏻‍♀️😂

[wandei]

When I have a crush on a guy I start avoiding him. Strange but true !

[iamSketchH]

Sign #3: "He's mean to you."
How to make a girl feel worthless and encourage her to hate you for the rest of her life. Good luck fellas, lol.

[crosamond]

He wasn’t being mean/teasing me, but he would like tap me on the shoulder and walk away and pretend he 27

[poppythatsme]

Why am i binge watching these videos if my anxiety wont let me make a move

[moya]

It’s crazy but when I’m attracted to someone I’m so standoffish and when im not attracted to a man I’m so friendly why I don’t know

[MejgJanssenTV]

7 signs he is attracted to you:

1. He is nervous around you
2. He smiles and opens his body language when he talked to you
3. He is unnecessarily mean to you or teases you
4. You just get the feeling that he is into you
5. He goes out of his way to appear well groomed when he is around you
6. He has a helpful attitude towards you
7. He is constantly fixing himself and almost grooming himself when he is around you

[Angelbreeze]

... when you try not to look at him when he's speaking to you or a group because you think he'll figure it out XD

[ashleythompson]

So this dude is a professional wing man

[iyzjnut]

Still, attraction doesn't matter if it does not lead to genuine interest. I get a lot of attention from men but it doesn't mean they would walk right up to me and ask me out. I still believe in men making the "first" move. It's flattering tho'.

[alyssaargyle]

Sign 3# he's mean to you.
Me:oh so that's why he tried to drown me

[xoxgirls]

Sometimes I feel like he likes me, but then again, I don’t want to get disappointed so I don’t believe the thought and ignore it.

[misst]

I think I might secretly be a guy. I absolutely can’t make eye contact, stop fidgeting, and all of these when I see a certain guy. I have a gut feeling he likes me but I think it’s just wishful thinking.

[schaekneeland]

I always stroke my beard when I’m attracted to a man 😋

[Yeodoongiiie]

There was this guy 2 years ago... for a long time he was charming, shy and nice to me. He was always looking at me from across the room. Like a was some kind of candy he wanted. When I talked to him he blushed. We both did. He looked deep into my eyes. He laughed at my jokes. Easily. When we walked in the street he’d sometimes sing cute songs to me. He found ways to touch me in small cute ways. I did that test with him when you sit next to him and get your legs to touch and see if they move away from you. He stayed there forever.
He looked like he could kiss me a couple of times.
And I made clear moves - but never more than what he gave me. But it was pretty clear we were both crushing. Then it suddenly changed before he ever asked me out. And then he went on a trip. Got back with a girlfriend and now he is married to her.
my heart broke in half.

[emmaanne]

Don’t teach women that if a man who is mean to them it means he likes her!!
I’m a narcissistic domestic abuse survivor!

[talktoghazaleh]

I got a guy stealing my bag and running with it so I would chase him

[renefournier]

When i like a guy i get nervous ... I suck at eye contact