Stop Chasing

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shot & edited by Eric Lombart

produced by Amber Grace

grip - Melissa Gasca, John Lee

sound - John Lee

gfx by Bethany Radloff

[anibethjewel]

Why does she always post the videos I need at the current moments in my life

[nightsaresosstarry]

"Everyone inevitably disappoints you in some way or another"
😬😭😭😭🤧

[friendlyornot]

um ok i don't feel called out at all, nope, not at all, not in the slightest

[LadyGabriellaphant]

I absolutely agree, it’s hard when you’re with someone who also runs hot and cold. So sometimes they’re responsive and you feel like you’re getting somewhere, then there’s a prolonged distance and you disconnect... only to reconnect, disconnect and the cycle continues. I don’t have time for those kind of relationships anymore because it absolutely makes my anxious attachment flair up because it’s so inconsistent! I don’t expect to be a priority, but I also don’t want to be treated as a convenience. If you have to keep pushing, chasing or pressuring— it’s not a good sign. Someone who is actively interested will be self motivated— it’s just hard to walk away when we’re infatuated with that person you

[AniWey]

Stop chasing and let your person come to you instead. When you start by focusing on yourself by giving yourself love . You become magnetic to your person. Remember you are WORTHY of love ❤🙌

[cuttlefishii]

Also worth noting that even if you're not expecting them to contact you 24/7 or having that deep connection right off the bat.... make sure to still respect YOURSELF. If they're not responding at all or showing absolutely no connection with you, that's NOT ACCEPTABLE, don't put yourself through that pain either.

[joshtheintrovert]

Social-media-stalking team member would be an awesome job.

[eoincampbell]

Anna really does off-the-wall, l cutaway, mini-skits like no one else. They manage to start ridiculous and then take that ridiculous concept to its extreme while not being overdrawn.

[Dan-Black]

*2:49**: THIS.*

That's why I eventually figured out that crushes are a waste of time and energy. Since I don't let myself get disillusioned by them anymore, they never get built up in my head anymore, so I really don't have -- or suffer from -- crushes anymore. I highly recommend it.

[godbearxd]

I don't expect people to respond to me immediately but if I'm always the one reaching out and rarely if ever getting a text back I take that as a sign that you're not interested and move on. My rule of thumb when it comes to romantic interests is if I've reached out to you 3 separate times over the course of a week and haven't heard back from you I just move on.

[deetorres]

2019 Anna: "Why being needy is good"
2020 Anna: "Stop chasing"

[bitsnthings]

“Everyone eventually disappoints you anyway”

QUEEN

[louisgianfrancesco]

Thank you for making people aware of attachment styles! Everyone needs to learn about them, more so those who plan to have children.

[lolitzshelly]

“Everyone inevitably disappoints you in one way or another” felt that one in my soul

[adversHandle]

Lolz did anyone else hear Anna-lytics when she was talking about square space

[selohcin]

"Thank you to Squarespace for sponsoring today's nihilism" LOL

[geojoshi]

“Everyone inevitably disappoints you one way or the other”
People don’t built up this perfect picture about the person you like. It’s truly unfair to the person.

[beaniiebrian]

I just reacted to my crush's Instagram story and a minute later this pops up LMFAO

[babetravelling]

Relationships and intimacy are built throughout time -Anna

[Convoluted-and-Exiled]

@2:30 "Some of the best Advice I've heard, is to: "Think of your love interest like an Acquaintance." I don't expect someone I just met to be texting me 24/7...
I don't expect them to drop everything in their life, and make me an immediate priority.
Relationships and Intimacy are built up over time. Getting to know someone, can..Take.. YEARS. Yes.. A "Crush" is very exciting...

But just remember...
Everyone inevitably disappoints you in one way or another"

Thank you for giving me such an accurate quote. I will remember this next time someone questions me and tries to rush me... :/ Which by the way? ...Is always a red flag; I've learned in my experiences...
Why the impatience...? Right? I've learned to question things right the hell back. If someone can't respect needing depth.. They're already incompatible right there.