Why Getting Back with a Narcissist is a Terrible Idea!

[cdnbcn]

Trauma bonding can be tough to break in a narcissistic relationship

[flowerpower]

Once you decide to leave, don't go back, you left them for good reasons, t.y. Richard, always love your Content, 🤗💖

[azkhvy]

The only revenge is simply to be happy without them.

[Itzanunnya]

The individual that betrays your trust, craps on your cannot and will not heal the damage. RUN!!!

[yellowdayz]

He is right. I married one... Was a a neglected child.. Mom was mean to me... Now I am free. Never in a million years will I put up with a narc again

[brendaplunkett]

Revenge is making them boring and unintresting and maybe average at best. Once they are knocked off the pedestal, they really are seen as they are, boring, unintresting and average at best.

[kittysparkleeyes]

I almost feel like every time i start feeling guilty about ghosting my narcissist abusive bf, one these videos just appears on my feed to remind me why I did the ghosting.. my life had become utterly miserable.

[Xenophanes]

When I told her I could never trust her again after she betrayed me by cheating on me and living a double life behind my back, her response was "I'm only human" and "You should look at the grace the women in our group showed our friends, " implying that some of the guys in our friend group cheated on their gfs and they took them back.

So the problem isn't that she cheated on me and betrayed me. The problem is that I won't sweep what she did to me under the rug.

[lexiwest]

I have 24 years invested and four children. We are in the midst of a delightful divorce. 😅 I’ve been a stay at home wife and homeschooling mom, all these years. He’s hiding $, has a created a different identity to hide it, & turned all kinds of people on me, including my father. (I married someone like my dad-yay 🙄) I wouldn’t take him back! No way. Once you see them for what they are, do NOT diminish your self worth bc of their games! Run!

[guidance]

No !!! Never go back to exes esp narc exes ! One must be stupid to relive the same hell with exes again.

[SpiralMoss]

Run to the hills and embrace the love and not the drug....

[Laeylasearchthelight]

This Time Your "Nooo!!!" gave me such a good Laugh, thank You! I'm back to No Contact, i made some Steps backwards and it honestly me up so bad, i lost Days and Hours again just to get something fixxed with a crazy Person....and btw we're at the Point he starts calling me Narc....that made me went Off....that's why: Damn, Noooo!!! 😂😅

[lynneleverton]

No....run for the hills and don't look back!!!!

[evewhite]

It's the intent.. that was what took me so long to really get my head around.. I made so many excuses for the behaviors but in the end recognizing the intent made me able to escape.

[Psychicblonde]

I know men feel so deeply. My best passed. Sending so much love ❤️

[lreevesnyc]

It’s hard to get your head around THE TRUTH of who they really are. But each time I returned after a discard he got worse. Finally FINALLY I GOT IT. Now FOREVER FREE.

[David-cjoc]

It’s frightening and it’s real !
Run for your life!

[tabbylove]

Holding them accountable, genuine remorse, apology, no.they won't giv you.not at all

[ND-orso]

I like to see you laugh Richard, not to say you mean wrong at all. Your serious about all of this. We still have to smile once in a while.

[bravesoul]

I would Have told the narc to eff off but im already no contact for a while so i ll just do it in my head