How to Get Her Back

[elad]

Get her back?? Why? If a woman wants to leave me, I'll show her the door!

[TheRealJonster]

If a woman EVER leaves you, and you put 100% into that relationship, and your gut feeling tells you she didn't reciprocate like you imagined -- don't ever think about getting back together. IT IS DONE!!

[gymbroski]

If she doesn’t want me at my lowest and dumps me, then she won’t get me at my highest

[haroldconner]

Good points on self care…
However, my experience has been if she leaves for another man, let her go
You do NOT want her to return.

[VRIceblast]

If she left, the relationship is over. She's not the one your looking for.

People rarely change their mind, so if she decided to leave, she doesn't like you enough for the kind of relationship you should want to be in.

Doesn't matter how much you supposedly love her, if she doesn't love you back the same, then she isn't the one for you.

Life is too short to be with someone that doesn't really love you.

If she didn't appreciate you before, she's not suddenly going to do it now. The power dynamic has changed in that relationship, and she'll have you around her finger. That's not the kind of relationship you should want to be in.

[andykitt]

I think the point was that if (when) you get dumped, the proper response is self-improvement. You get the dual benefit of being able to find someone better AND making the ex jealous.

[shaunschulte]

The advice she’s giving isn’t really about “getting her back” it’s about valuing yourself and reaping all the benefits that come with being competent and confident.

[NoirrioN]

this is actually a valid video.
end point is STILL the same as every other "get her back" video you've watched though. Wanna hear it? Here it goes:
1) forget she exists, totally and completely. this will take time. fake it til you make it. she isn't worth the mental energy, bro—really. She isn't. I PROMISE.
2) work on you. just you. all day. all the time.
3) rinse and repeat points 1 & 2.

ps—tip that helped me when I didn't want to self-improve? Ask yourself (*assuming you have *actual* "high-standards") — ask yourself: "Would YOU date you?'

And if you hesitated to say YES, well then—there's your answer.
And if you DIDN'T hesitate to say 'yes:' Then there's your answer, too—you're delusional. Do the work, brothers.

'Do the hard shit, even when it's harder, and especially when it's hardest.' -Buncha Alpha Dudes, Prolly

[tylermelendez-duke]

Honestly a girl shattering your heart can be the best thing for you. You start going to the gym, improving your self and getting more confidence to get back at her or get her back together but very quickly you just become invested in your self and forget about them

[jdek]

Don’t ever go back. Ever. Especially if she left you.

[stevendepauw]

It all comes down to why, dont crawl back to a disloyal or nasty girl, when you can stand tall and find a new girl. Stay strong my guys

[gtxviper]

Get her back??? If she's out the door then she doesn't exist.

[robertholtz]

I was hoping the answer was "You don't." You shouldn't want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you.

It is tough dealing with that deep feeling of rejection, but that is life. If she comes back in better condition than when she left you, that is a miracle. Most of the time someone who does come back is in much worse condition.

As she said, improve yourself. Do it for you and the next girl will appreciate it.

[kirkjames]

Great advice. I've been married for 36 years to the girl of my dreams. I still try to put my best foot firewordn you are so spot-on!!!

[ariapalomo]

Protect this woman at all costs every lady should learn from her💯

[ericcarson]

If she initiated the break up you're out. Another guy is almost always waiting, (orbiters).
Move on, learn from it, don't look back. It's more important she likes you more than you liking her.

[adrianfarias]

Giving your ex a second chance is like reading a book twice you already know how it's gonna end.

[zacharyriggs]

Welcome to this weeks episode of “taking dating advice from single women.”

[russhall]

Best and most realistic advice she's ever shared!

[randysetterberg]

All valid points. My favorite (would be) #5: Leave her the BLEEP alone and move forward.