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Getting back with an ex who you share kids with is a topic that is dear to Coach Adrian's heart. As a father, he knows that having children is not always easy but it is always very rewarding. We think we can help you with getting back with an ex who you share kids with by doing some of the things you are already doing, but by doing them in a more deliberate way.

Shift your focus from your ex to your child. You both love and want what's best for your child. If your ex doesn't want this, you should reconsider if this is the person you want to be fighting for.

Stop obsessing over getting back with an ex who you share kids with, and start obsessing over being the best parent you can be for your child. You can channel the love you have for your ex and use that to indirectly give your ex love. If you are the best parent you can be, your ex is going to feel that love through your child. You will thus be more appealing and not come off as a desperate ex seeking to win validation or approval.

It's all about, first, being the best parent you can be, and second, being emotionally independent, which includes not putting your ex on a pedestal and not fighting, trying to convince your ex that you are worthy of their love. If they your ex doesn't want to listen, give your ex space.

The key is to be the best parent you can be, but also, to simultaneously be an attractive and single individual. Stop seeking your ex's approval and live for yourself.

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[DirtRoadRemedy]

This advice is 100% perfect! I first watched this video a year ago in utter heart break. Tonight is my first date with my wife after 1 year separation, 2 kids under 5, separation agreement and lawyers and all the BS. We stayed civil, took our time to heal, and tonight she gives me another chance!

[trentejames]

Thanks my man ! NEEDED this video alot !! Cheers to 2024 being soo much better for all of US

[kylledaniel]

this video helped me a lot. somehow my grief for my kids was relieved. thank you.

[ncchia]

I recently married a man who was married for 17 years and they have 2 kids. They were divorced for 2 years before we started dating.
As time goes on, I feel like I'm in the way of them getting back together. They built so much together. I'm nobody compared to what they've accomplished. But he screwed up.
But this feels terrible... They live in a different state but now they see a better version of him. The man who is now present with them and humbled due to learning from his mistakes. The feelings for each other are positive now. He visits them almost every month but I stay behind. He maintains daily contact with his kids but not the ex wife.
At times I wish he would rip off the bandaid and go back. I literally feel like I'm taking something that doesn't belong to me.

[jamie-r]

This is the toughest thing for sure. Lots of people don't even try to make families work anymore - split parents are becoming the norm which is what I never wanted for my daughter & here we are. My ex and I never got married but it worked (Neither one of us wanted to get married). We were together for 12 years, have kids, and she wanted to split with me. Im a good dude who takes care of my kids, work hard, never cheated, and always tried to give my ex a good life - I wanted us all to have a good life as a normal family. My daughter is only 11 and is by far having the hardest time. She knows I'm trying my best to try to bring our family together but my ex just isn't sure what she wants anymore. She's also going through menopause & her emotions are just all over the place. I still have hope that within months or even a year from now we can try to rebuild & start a whole new relationship that can be even better. In the mean time, Im back to the gym & looking the best I have in probably 10 years. Ive even been asked to go out on a few dates but have declined so far as it wouldn't be fair for the girl & I don't want to hurt anyone right now

[lmcintyre]

You hit right on the money now i am hungry for more tools and lessons

[JayPatekk]

God bless you ! You have given me hope . Me and my bm have 2 kids together one is 2 and the other is 1.. we’ve known eachother for 5 years in total .. so when we first met we both were head over heels for one another .. and there came a point where I had nowhere to live so she let me move in with her and her roommates .. this is all happend in 2 months time then BOOM she’s pregnant.. at this point I felt suffocated and my mind went through shock .. a dark place of lusting with other women while still living with my bm.. we separated for good for a year .. & now she’s allowing me to live in the same house and even the same bed it’s been 6 months under same roof together but we’re not together she said she doesn’t want to jump into a relationship what do I need to do anyone ????

[LeslieAnnOfficial]

Thank you for this video! I think I am one of those different situations I have given distance for a while now after we were close a few months back, I am not needy, I always focus on my children, there is no drama between us, I am living my life how I want and know if he wants to reconcile he will have to put the work in! I just don’t understand how overnight from reconciling to hating me and treating me badly when nothing happened. If we don’t reconcile I wish we could co parent better as in do things for our kids together with out us being a couple but he won’t.

[punchdrunkluck]

I fucked up royally... we were fighting all the time...shes and I both are strong willed(hard headed) and I started using drugs again... I've gotten myself back together but I'm no longer living with her and shes has been incredibly standoffish and cold... we have kids together and I'm a good Dad her and I have a lot of history and have been thru hell with one another... I miss her ...she still allows me to watch the kids at her house and we're taking a trip to see my parents this weekend but I'm sleeping on the couch... I need help here

[_.skippx]

I came from a family where men didn’t know how to love their girlfriend/wife. I fell a victim of not knowing how to love. I thought that I was ready because I was so drawn to my ex. We were together for 9 years. We had three almost four kids together. I’ve been without her for a year and it’s killing me. I never planned a life without her and my kids but now I have to live that life. We got together when I was 17. I cheated on her. I broke her heart and I know I did. Smh. Not physically but I gave other woman attention and it pushed her away and then she had people getting in contact with her just to spread lies of me cheating physically so she always had that thought in her mind. Her trust for me disappeared. I’m now 28. She left me last year and I want her back. I’m at the stage of life where thoughts of having a complete family makes me happy. I want the woman who was with me through thick and thin so I can show her that I can give her the same love that she gave me for all of those years. I know that I am ready for her but she wants me to fall out of love with her and now she doesn’t speak to me anymore 😔 I just want to know, do I have a chance to win her heart and her love back? She says that I am a great father but a bad boyfriend. I want to rewrite history between us if she allows someday. It’ll be a new beginning instead of a second a chance.

[gilbertherrera]

Me and my wife are married but separated and we have two boys together, she said she doesn’t wanna be together but I want to keep fighting for my family and my wife to be together

[SanderJanssenBSc]

Amazing video coach Adrian! I'd love to see a video about how to focus on daily tasks? Or maybe a video about the first breakup! Seen the old ones but maybe you could give us some more insights!

[keef]

What should I do if I was a great parent, but a distant partner? You spoke of shifting strategy in this video. How should I shift my strategy?

[smae]

Yup be the best you can be for you kids
I 💯% agree

[cmiss]

I love your video and advice Coach Adrian 🙏🏻 pls do more video on separated parents with kid ...he’s not attracted to me anymore and been cheated on me ... but I still want him back 🙏🏻🙏🏻

[alesalas]

I can't really go out right now because my daughter is still 5 months old, and I have no one who can look after her.
Plus right now I haven't been able to get a job for the same reason.
But as soon as my daughter is a little older I'll leave her in a day care so I can work .
I know that once I start working again I won't be home all the time thinking and re thinking negative thoughts.
Ill be busy more.
But idk if it's even worth getting back with my baby's father since he cheated with so many women while I was pregnant and while I had postpartum depression .
So many other things happened too like domestic violence, so I don't even know why I want to catch his attention again, I'm kinda happy at my own now without him I just get lonely.
I guess what my goal is, is to make him regret everything he did to me, and make him regret loosing me and his family.

[heidygreenbird]

Hello, I'd really like to know how to regain trust is my ex left because he felt neglected and unloved and we have a child together!
We've been trough difficult times of stress (financial, work, studies) and I know we somewhat grew apart because I focused more on my child.
So, how to go into no contact/radio silence? wouldn't that be counterproductive making him feel more neglected?? But then trying to "fix" my error by being caring and loving after he decided to leave, wouldn't make me look like I'm begging or something like that?
He said he have deep feelings for me but he couldn't keep living in that situation. It's selfish and he was also responsible, but I'm able to understand his point and my part of the responsibility.
What to do when the person leave because he/she felt unloved, because you stop showing it to them.

[cmmasiyecavinsibongo]

If ex baby mama except your request to go out and eat bein two the person who was refusing to out

[troyharper]

I miss my child's mother but she is in a relationship but I got what I wanted & that is my son because she always wanted me to visit him & not get him but I had to distance my self to think about why she did this it was because she loved me but now I have my son & not her she is with someone else I say don't care but I think of her everyday what do I do I still love her.

[allenjackson]

My ex and I were high school sweethearts and were married right out of highschool. We have 3 children together. We divorced after 5 years, but were still on and off for several years. We broke up 3 months ago and she began a relationship 2 months after we broke up. She said we will never be together again and she's the happiest she's been in a long time. Should I let go? Or is there hope?