Why some narcissists wont leave you alone or let you go | The Narcissists' Code Ep 709

why some narcissists wont leave you alone or let you go

Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything.

The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The victims and survivors get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.

Thank you so much

[vivalasammy]

Every time we get together I’m broke and ugly. Every time I leave I’m sexy and thriving 😂

[kantik]

They want you miserable when you are with them and they want you miserable without them. Because they are insecure and jealous of you, of your light and strenght. All we Can Do is have discernement and Never EVER tie our life to them. Once you smell one or few signs, please run for your life. This IS not a joke. They'll ruin your life.

[dgexpressllc]

If you left the narcissist, you are ALREADY doing better.😂

[healingwithpatience]

'In a relationship with a narcissist you do not get a partner, you get a competitor'

Whew... That part! 🙌🏽

[goddesstemptresstango]

So you don’t want to see them with someone else, but you don’t want to treat them right in order for them to stay with you. Yeah that’s crazy.

[karentownes]

I left my narcissist. The best thing I have done in my life.😊

[noonereally]

They’re never really done with anyone, they would keep all of their supply they collected over the years forever if they could, it only ends when you end it for good.

[Boymom]

I need a tshirt that says “Blah blah blah boop boop boop beep beep beep.” It’s so funny! 😂

[I.AM..]

This is so true! He literally tells me, "you're mine, you're not going anywhere." He also says he is obsessed with me but treats me like SHIT

[jodilynn]

This is so accurate. When you destroy their narrative they panic. It’s glorious to take away that control. Zero contact is best.

[lanasolomon]

When the narcissist can’t physically block your blessings they will do Witchcraft to attack you spiritually. They are pure evil!

[estrellagomesWAVY]

“If you are with a Narcissist you don’t get a partner you get Competition” Exactly!!! It’s All A Game! What A Tortured Life!

[kantik]

My father was a cold covert narcissist that almost broke spiritually, emotionally my mother.
With my sister, we prayed my mother would get away finding a job but instead she found another man.

My father didn't gave her divorce. He punished her for the break UP. It took her 15 years to divorce. My father Always told us my mother left him because he wasn't rich enough.
Today, After 3 abusive relationships, I understand who he was and what he did to my mother.
It takes many failed relationships for us to see our parents for the Monsters their were and still are.

[joannelewis]

I never understood that either. If you don't like me leave

[JessicaKelly-byfj]

They don't want to see you do good even if you are with them

[karmahleone]

A narc is not here to help you or make you feel better..they are here to make yoo life a livvvinnnn

[empathiccalm]

The longer you stay the worse it will get in general as far as them being obsessed that’s why any signs early I walk away. ❤

[rashaerichey]

They love you with their words not their actions. Narcissist are selfish and they won't take accountability for their actions.

[Bibleinformationandhelp]

It sounds like most/all narcissists have very bad mental problems. Makes absolutely no sense for them to want to ruin your new relationship if they have someone else. They need to be locked up or something. Go through forced therapy while they are incarcerated. Sounds like strong pscychological problems.

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[amberperkins]

My narcissist told me he doesnt know how to not talk to someone. Made me realize he keeps them around so he can always have access to the supply!