Should I Tell My Ex How I Feel?

Should you tell your ex how you feel to get them back?

In this video coach Lee answers the question on if you should tell your ex how you feel and if this will make them want to come back to you.

In the movies we have all seen that climatic moment when one person gets another to come back to him or her by telling them how he/she "really" feels about them.

Often times it's the cliché line, "I think I love you," or simply, "I love you." But does it really work? Should you tell your ex how you feel?

Coach Lee explains that it actually doesn't work at all like the movies and TV portray.

In fact, telling your ex how you feel will almost always push them even further away and make it more difficult to get them back.

That is because since your boyfriend or girlfriend is breaking up with you, we already know that they don't feel that same level of love and attraction for you - no matter what they say.

So you merely reveal to them that there is an imbalance of feelings with you feeling more for them than they feel for you.

This will lead to even more of an attraction loss. Your ex will simply be reassured that you are much more invested in them than they are in you.

That will cause your ex to want to pull further away from you.

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[fireeye]

control your emotions by NOT sharing your emotions or how you feel.

[chrisbryant]

Coach Lee you are like beacon of light in my darkest days. I lost all hope on ex but I watch your videos for staying calm.

[azazel]

No guys never tell your ex how you feel or your answer will be ''i dont care''

[richardalfonso]

My ex called back. coach lee is the man.

[Fitlover]

So honest, so clear, so indepth explanation... HE IS THE SAVIOUR FOR ALL THE HEARTBROKEN PEOPLE HERE.... you give us hope to live again.... Love and respect for you....

[mrjjthor]

I've tried the movie techniques many times and failed miserably. What I've learned is that reality is not the same as the movies. Lesson learned.

[seekingfreedom]

My ex just came back to me yesterday 😁😁, after 7 weeks and 6 days, or 55 days of no contact, I thought it was a lost cause, I even commented that in other videos

[gabbymontoya]

Almost 3 months . Yey can’t stand being treated with mixed signals and judgmental . I will never put myself in a position of weakness ever !! Your videos help me so much. You are like a best friend with great advice.. Be strong ...

[cherrybacon]

I have on many occasions weakened and wanted to tell my Ex how much it hurts, how much I miss them and ask why they did this to me, at the same time knowing I look and sound unnatracrively desperate. Coach Lee has answered that specific question for me. Thank you, i'l continue to be strong. Cherry 🍒.

[underclasshr]

Yeah, I told me ex that I still loved her a year after the breakup and 131 days after no contact. She just wanted to be friends. I've seen the videos and read the articles on being a friends with an ex and I wasn't going to be second best after all this time I put into me. It was all or nothing and I didn't care how slow I had to move. I just wanted us to try and rebuild, even if it was friends first but she had zero interest in something more and said she had feelings for someone else. So I don't know why she reached out? or sent me photos of her and the kids? or herself tanning? You would think she would be interested in something but I guess not. Oh well, this time I got to reject her and told her I wasn't interested in friends or further contact. I feel good about it actually.

Besides, I've watched so many videos on getting a ex back and as much as I may love them, it seems easier to find a new girl. Everything is about walking on eggshells and it's not worth this much time and games.

[abigail]

PIES -- Physical, Intellectual, Emotional, Spiritual Attraction

[AlenaAleczandra]

I already begged and Told him how i feel when he left me, now is a month and 8 days since then...i didn’t contact him since then...i feel very sad and hurt but i will leave him alone...

[rikkifitnessmama]

This man is sooo smarts I love his explanation. I can’t stop watching his videos! Coach you’re amazing!

[tiayvette]

I express my feelings he doesn’t care all he cares about is his feelings. So 🤷🏽‍♀️I give up . He told me to move on. Coach is right. I need to get myself back

[ayazmalik]

Wow. Simply amazing. So far the best and most honest coach on You-tube. You are brilliant in explaining how to act and react. May God bless U ;)

[geetaautar]

You’re the best coach Lee you not only heal broken hearts but also prepare them for the next relationship so we all can be stronger and knowing what to do in the future keep up the good work 😘

[BensonNyasae]

She just came back after one and half years of not talking requesting for a date the following day. Sadly I am over her and at the moment suffering from another heartbreak caused by another recent ex😄😄. Life is funny. ( Excuse my bad English).

[Truegod]

Coach Lee ain’t flashy or whatever but to me, he’s the only coach that gives the real talk and and more helpful perspective. I watched so many videos of coaches lately while going through my breakup and only coach Lee gets to me. It feels like he’s speaking directly to me and I’m feeling more assured. Keep it up man!

[liljerseygirl]

I broke off with my boyfriend. I was still attracted to him and still cared very much, but he had a drinking problem and would get verbally abusive. I really miss him, but won't live with this

[SelfPerception]

Thanks, Coach Lee. The reality check you have given me is what I needed. You just helped by showing me how my attitude is supposed to be. Here's a sub.