CONFESSIONS Of A FORMER HABITUAL CHEATER | Laterras R. Whitfield

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[DearFutureWifey]

***DISCLAIMER: In this interview, I transparently shared my mindset as a broken man in a marriage that began in 2008. That's 16 years ago! The questions were geared towards the infidelity in my marriage in hopes to educate viewers of the importance of healing before "l do." DON'T MISS THE MESSAGE. I've been divorced going on 7 years now. So you are hearing about the toxic decisions of my past versus my reformed mindset. The major difference between this interview and what many of you are used to hearing from me on the Dear Future Wifey podcast is this interview was centered around the past and DFW showcases the healed present mindset and my future goals. My current mindset is committed to abstinence and killing the Goliath of infidelity.

[thegrace-basedstudent]

My prayer is to marry a man who wants to marry me because he LOVES me, not because I'm a constant, calm, moral, anointed, Christian woman.

[TheLalab]

Ladies please stay single until a man is really worthy of you.. being single really isn’t so bad

[linadolue]

While you were cheating she was in prayers begging for peace for your decision and peace within her self ! That’s why there was no fight from her during the divorce. She already healed from u ❤️.

[TraverroHarden]

He basically just shared how a dude under the guise of a religion or belief system with bad character and discipline preys on women who they see as "pure" or a "good woman". It's a lot of dudes like him out here. As women, we must believe what we see and hear. These dudes are lukewarm, on the fence, self-centered, predators.

[knowyourkismat]

I pray not one more woman on this planet marries a man like this and has a marriage like that. Ever again. Amen

[braidslikebrandy]

I feel like a lot of men have their real preferred partners but marry other women who are "wife material" because it looks good on paper, causing them to cheat with the real preference. People should just like who they like and spare others the pain and dysfunction.

[SELFCAREMODEL]

CAN WE JUST APPRECIATE THE BEAUTY & PROFESSIONALISM OF BREENY

[nakeshabwala]

Man, this was deeply disturbing. My heart breaks for his ex wife. So much was emotionally stolen from her. Prayerfully, she finds healing.

[stilljocelyn_]

I’m 8 mins into the interview and what I’ve already concluded is a woman can be all the things a man “wants” and you will still get cheated on.

Sooo she’s supposed to fight for a marriage where he cheated the whole time?? I’m so glad his ex wife moved on with her life.

[bebreeze]

I’m happy he was open to tell his story, but this was a mess. I pray everyday that I love myself enough to never allow a person like this in my presence.

[ijuliebee]

We need to stop dating/marrying potential. If you’re with someone who doesn’t feed your soul. Why marry?

[ummjunayd]

Is this man actually serious? after being a serial cheater for years he's moaning about his wife not fighting to keep him. Why could he not fight for his marriage by being faithful/trying to change? The entitlement is shocking.

[NurseLisaD]

The cheating had nothing to do with the wife. It had to do with the fact that he had the habit already of sleeping with multiple women. I bet the wife wanted sex, but he minimized it. Some times people make up stuff in their mind to make what they did seem like it was not as bad. He cheated in the first year. He could of sat the wife down and told her his exact feelings. He wanted a good woman without being a good man. He still doesn’t not seem like his mindset is full changed either based on how he talks. It just seems as such because he is not married.

[Eden-dmlf]

I told this married man to put in the same effort he's putting into pursuing me into his wife, and he'll be amazed at what happens. Let me tell you, they got back on track, and shortly after, his wife gave birth to another son. Ladies, send married men away, send them back to their wives.Donot be the reason for a broken home. Our heavenly Father sees all things and knows all things. 🙏 ❤️

[yana]

He didn't want to marry the other woman cause she was just like him and the one he married he felt was weaker. He said he knew her moves before she made them and she wasn't much to manage, cool, and not high maintenance. She was just the perfect victim. He really wanted the other woman but he knew she was like him. She helped him cheat and would probably cheat on him, she knows the game and he knows it

[renettaburley]

Proud of his Ex wife for choosing her self🙌🏾 Queens don’t chase! He said it was peaceful Divorcing her & nothing would’ve change it. That was her Closure🙏🏾Good for her!!

[kshealieceartistry]

My thoughts on this interview: I don't mind hearing his experience from a time in his life before he knew better. However, the way he delivered it seemed to lack genuine thoughtfulness, not only to his wife at the time but also to the overall situation that he is introducing your audience to for the first time. I feel like his answers/storytelling was rushed and sloppy and made him come off arrogant and not genuinely remorseful. IDK maybe he thought he was communicating his story effectively but to me, it seemed like he was trying to be funny and likable which caused him to come off in the opposite way. I'm sure he isn't the same man that he was back then but his answers don't show the audience that he is a man who truly understands the weight of his actions and words.

[MyAkachi]

It's really sad how we've conditioned women to take rubbish.

How many times would you hear that a man was fasting for this serial cheater wife to change? Never!

He just leaves. If he loves her, he'll demand/plead for change … then leave if it's not changing.

Women are out here spending almost a decade, sometimes even more, with serial cheaters - praying that they change. Do you really think he'd afford you that same patience?

Sis, respect yourself enough to walk away from rubbish.

[lyanne]

This man is not what we women need to entertain at all...the manipulation is reeking