10 Things To Never Do With a Man - Every Woman Needs To Know This

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In this video, Sami discusses the 10 things you should never do as a woman for a man or with a man, focusing on actions that can harm his sense of worth and respect.
She emphasizes the importance of not overgiving in a relationship, criticizing a man's mother, or having the relationship talk too soon. It is advised not to financially support a man or involve him in important paperwork before marriage. The video also highlights the risk of entering a parent-child dynamic in a relationship and losing the romantic dynamic. Sami, with years of experience coaching smart and successful women, suggests setting healthy boundaries and avoiding behaviors that can lead to heartbreak or conflict.
Overall, the video aims to educate women on maintaining a healthy and respectful relationship with men while prioritizing their well-being and self-respect.
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[SamiWunder]

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[kjsmith]

Find the right man. None of this is a problem. Wishing everyone true love!

[iamdivinelyabundant]

dont accept a man comparing you to another woman either.

[XYZ-quyq]

All true! Plus please add to part 2 the following: 1. Never make the first ‘obvious’ move. When you realize a man fancies you and you fancy him, too, do SMILE by all means to give him signals as a green light but then WAIT for him to make the first move even though it may take ages as men are terrified of rejection. Don’t make it easy for them, just have a warm, open and inviting mindset. They are men and should be braver than women. They must summon up the courage and take the decision to choose you - you will love the feeling of being chosen without pushing for it or making it happen yourself. Men that are truly interested, are capable of making the first move. If they don’t do it, they’ve not taken a decision yet. Be patient. Their actions or inactions will tell you a lot about the strength of their desire for you. And remember, you don’t want to be with a hot man that is either cowardly or lukewarm about you... 2. Never initiate texts. Let him do it. Otherwise you will come across as impatient, insecure and more into him than he is to you which is a yucky feeling. Men like the thrill of pursuit, and women like to be pursued, so don't reverse that out of impatience as you will l ruin things. If he is truly interested, he will initiate texts. If he is not interested, he will not initiate texts, so don't bother. When he initiated texts, keep things warm, but not too sweet, not overly ‘nice’ and don’t tell him you find him handsome. Keep things light and simple, just slightly flirtatious, mysterious and uncertain until he asks you out to gauge your interest. 3. Never get tempted to speed things up. Adjust to his pace. Let him lead the relation. 4. Never get overexcited in his presence as if you had more to gain from the relationship than him - be appreciative but stay composed. He wants to feel like he’s found a real gem and you need to make him feel like he has to do the work to win you over. 5. Never tell yourself a story in your head he needs your reassurance or words of comfort to ask you out and don’t act on this narrative - reassurance and words of comfort don’t make him ask you out, they spoil things, as they make his oxitocin level go up and testosterone levels go down which causes him to lose his sexual tension and his desire for you. Men need to be kept in uncertainty about your feelings because that’s what gives them incentive and drive to pursue you. They are wired to solve problems and uncertainty poses a problem for them to act on and resolve, if they’re interested enough . ‘Treat them mean - keep them keen’. 6. Never smother them with your over-presence. Let them miss you. Women fall in love in man’s presence but men fall in love in woman’s absence, so give them space and don’t text them you miss them. 7. Never sext or send your nudes at his request or to try to ‘convince’ him or prompt him into action. Respect your privacy and yourself. Thanks Sami for all your valuable lessons. You are truly the best!

[biondna]

Thank you for your work. I'm 70, widowed after the most loving relationship of my life, surviving the aftershocks of my first marriage to a vindictive narcissist (At least I'll never have to go through that again; I can smell love-bombing a mile away), and still open to an affectionate, authentic partnership with a new man. Some of what you teach is habitual for me now, but it's still good to review it and be reminded. A couple years ago right after my beloved's death, I was sorely tested by a very attractive and very restless married man; I just escaped with my heart and self esteem intact. It's scary how even in my age range, loneliness and desire can STILL overrule logic and wisdom. I value your work.

[RedHybiscus]

This is all true 100%. Women have lost their way in relationships. I think that women need to go all the way back to the idea of no intimacy until marriage. This might seem excessive but that is my point. Men are now acting like women in that they want to be cared for by a woman. The reality is that a man is the provider and women nurture. These roles have become confused.

[malisastarot]

Ever allow a man to move into your home. You do not want him to set up residency in your home, you'll have potential eviction issues if you want him to leave.

[XYZ-quyq]

Never give a newly met man your unconditional love... We may have learnt giving unconditional love from our mums who naturally used to give it to us - because we were their children, but! Don't use the pattern on your newly met man, because you are not his mother and he is not your child! Relation between mum and child is obviously of a different kind than the one between a masculine man and a feminine woman, so... never give a newly met man your unconditional love... He needs to earn your love, because men only value things they've worked for, they've invested time, energy and money in! If you give them your unconditional love without them doing anything but just being handsome, they will not value it. Thanks Sami for your inspiration and education!

[XYZ-quyq]

When you meet a masculine man, never try to take things in your hands to move the relation forward. Let the man be in the driver's seat and let yourself be a potential passenger. Let him be a sovereign man that he is. Let him decide if he wants to take you for this ride or not. Masculine men do not like being pressurised into doing something, bossed around or directed - it's emasculating and it ruins feminine and masculine polarity. Behave like a feminine woman, not a bloke, if you want the spark with a masculine man.

[Donaldhelmick]

Great video! Unfortunately, my two-year relationship ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, and I still love him deeply. I can't stop thinking about him. I've done everything I can to get him back, but nothing has worked. I'm frustrated and can't imagine my life with anyone else. Despite my best efforts, I can't get him out of my mind. I really miss him.

[sarahshields]

Thank you🙏 Yes please do a part two. I am single and left an abusive husband. I’m ready for a healthy relationship!🙏❤️

[Ameryarina]

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really loved him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him

[nancykajoka]

Someone commented on your teeth! That was disrespectful and ridiculous @Sami Wunder! You're so beautiful 😍 and look so elegant. You're every example of what you teach.!

[jennyphan]

This video convinced me how irrational intimate relationships are.... glad I've been avoiding this bullsh*t for the last 16 years...

[TheMaltebella]

Great list.
I would adjust never pit him against his mother to
Never pit him against anyone in his family and NEVER bad mouth them or call them names...especially out of their names.
STAY OUT OF HIS FAMILY'S DRAMA.

[marilynwarbis]

If we women relate to ourselves as women first and foremost, and feel happy with ourselves, then we won't make so many of these mistakes when we then relate to a partner.

[rebeccajones]

Your advice is golden. Thank you. Once you accept jerky behaviour it must be stopped immediately. I let a lot go. His mom was so toxic and interfered in our relationship. They had an enmeshed situation. I had to leave. I feel much better now.

[ktbiwk]

Yes Part 2 ! I'm curious on what your opinion is about moving in, letting them move into your apartment, and splitting everything

[merlem]

I would like to have a second part too! These advices are pure gold! Thank you, Sami!💚

[baltapasaka]

I did those mistakes too. Especially the money related ones. It made me feel like i am the mother in relationship not a partner