I Feel so Lonely What to do | No social life | No one to Talk to #dilsetalk

[Ankit_wer]

THANKYOU MUCH DIDI!!

I HAD BEEN FEELING THIS WAY FROM MORE THAN A YEAR AND THIS VERY DAY AS I WAS COMING BACK FROM MY SCHOOL AFTER PREBOARDS (yes I'm a class 12 student...that too from pcm side xD)
I FINALLY DECIDED TO FACE IT ALL AND GET TO THE ROOTS AND THEN I FOUND THAT ALL MY EXCUSES AND FEARS AND PROBLEMS WERE SUPERFICIAL AND I KEPT ASKING MYSELF "KYO NAHI KIYA YE SAB"...AND RECIEVED NO GENUINE ANSWER...AND THEN I WENT TO JOURNALING AND FOR SEEKING HELP IN MY ROUTINE I CAME TO YT AND AFTER WATCHING IT I SAW THIS VERY VIDEO, IT TRULY RESONATED WELL AS IF U ARE TELLING THE ANSWER OF THE SO VERY PROBLEM I WAS FACING AND IT CLICKED IN MY MIND THAT FROM ALL THAT I WAS FEELING THIS VOID WAS THE VERY CORE OF ALL THE PROBLEMS...I WAS LITERALLY DOING ALL 'SECRET NRG SHIFTERS' UNKNOWINGLY...TRYING TO FIND MYSELF... I DID MEDITATION TOOK WALKS TALKED TO MUM GRANDMOTHER DID WORKOUTS JOURNALING AND ALSO THE PEPTALK EVERYDAY IN THE MORNING AFTER I WAKEUP AND IT WAS THIS VERY VIDEO THAT NOT ONLY GAVE ME THE ANSWER BUT TOLD ME THE REAL PROBLEM I WAS FACING IN THE CORE WHICH WAS ACTUALLY KEEPING ME STUCK IN MY OLD LIFE!!!

REALLY THANKYOU SOO MUCH
...I SAW YOUR INITIAL VIDEOS LAST YEAR WHEN YOUR WERE 1 MONTH BEFORE YOUR EXAM AND THAT TOO HELPED ME!!

BTW, I DO NOT COMMENT ON ANYONES ANY VIDEO BUT AFTER THIS ONE I AM REALLY FEELING ENLIGHTENED SO I HAVE A INFORMATION THAT MIGHT ERADICATE YOUR PROBLEM OF FEELING BAD FROM HATE COMMENTS PERMANENTLY:

(only if uh deeply meditate upon it and take time to reflect upon it)



PEOPLE ONLY SEE WHAT THEY ARE
BE IT ANY PLACE

i.e. THEY SEE THEIR FLAWS IN YOUR GOODNESS WHICH THEY THEMSELVES ARE LACKING

...hope it helps!!

Ty once again didi 😃😇

[gaganbanwait]

What really hurt is when you can't share your tough or depressed time with your best friend. When you scroll your contact list and don't find anybody to talk. It really hurts aa lot.

[alessandromilanesta]

"Standing with crowd is easy. It takes courage to stand alone."

[shreyasingh]

My energy shifters:-
1) Gym
2) Mummy Papa ka happy face
3) Talking to myself
4) Visualing the day I achieve my goals

[anupbadge]

"काफी अकेला हू.. पर
अकेला ही काफी हू"! 🖖

This one line is enough for loneliness!

[alessandromilanesta]

I am lone wolf. I did it by myself. I went against the grain, I NEVER HAD NO HELP. I never gave up. I made it through the pain. On top of the hill is where I remain.

[lokeshvenkat]

When we are DEPRESSED we feel everything on planet are happier except us 😂

[Swadheenta]

My energy shifters :-
✓ Journalling( sometimes I just read which I wrote earlier, I am doing it from last 15 years!)
✓ Self talk ( one of the best thing. Tell yourself your story and be proud about it)
✓ Listening to TED TALKS
✓ self help books
✓ Music (light instrumental or old meaningful bollywood songs about life)
✓ Reading/listening to some Bhagwat Geeta or other great scriptures or stories from them(many good available on YouTube too)
✓ Cooking for your close ones
✓ Play with kids(one of the best thereby)
✓ Earthing therapy 🌍

One of my fav quote of all time which actually narrates my learning of life till today is :-
"The now is all there is"
We are all just memories at the end....make sure to make the best one for you.

Thankyou Ma'am. I can say you are a very learned person.

[venkateshvudattu]

I used to call my friend to vent out my sadness.... Then he used to tell his problems which are more depressing than mine 🤣

[Vipin]

Jo insaan bachpan se akela hai usne apne aap ko kitna samjhaya honga 😊☺️🫠

[shivansha.]

Right, jab hum khud ko behtar insaan banane pe focus karne lagte hai to life apne aap behtar hone lagti hai. 🙂

[miteshpatel-fiqb]

Last line " You are worth..."
: Really very touchy. Thank you very much for this one.💙

[vanshikajangra]

1. Mummy
2. In a dark room (introspection)
3. Meditation
4. Self talk on terrace
5. Punjabi music.

Your energy shifters are same as mine..but priorities are different...i prefer
1. Music
2. Talk with mom
3. Walk on terrace or self talk.
4. Alone in room (introspection)
5. Meditate

[mohittekriwal]

Thanks a lot, I watch all your vid since u were 4.2k this is the first comment I am writing on your channel I am 23 and went a lot through my life specially in last 3 years because of financial conditions of family, managing my articleship, family and studies and specially after the demise of my father last year which gave me huge responsibilities on my shoulders while watching this video I realised that I waw never allowed to feel low or weak or never allowed to cry every one around me just said me be positive be strong etc. etc. after watching this I cried my heart out and now I am feeling light thanks to you for making me aware of this ❤️.

[dhanunjay]

More than just studies and subjects
CA Course needs mentors like you Ma'am
to guide the students for dealing with pressure, depression and mental stress & the issues they face during this phase
and also helping us in taking right decisions.
Thanks a lot, Neha Ma'am ❤️🙂
I am able to feel the change.

[PHYSICS-zqeq]

WHEN YOU DESCRIBED THE VOID FEELING I LITERALLY FELT REALLY GAVE GOOSEBUMPS....GOT RANDOMLY YOUR VIDEO FROM YOUTUBE RECOMMENDATIONS, BUT LISTENING TO YOUR OPINION AND THOUGHT AM LITTERALLY SURPRISED.

[memestagram]

this was needed due to online lec, we all are losing the synergy between friends and most of us will lose friends in this age thank you for talking on this topic as ca student most of them can relate

[shikhadaily]

Just needed this right now.You are a blessing 😭

[deepikabali]

When in doubt, speak out, seems like this is your true motto! I love talking to myself hence and always confront all emotions, apologize whenever I feel, or do something wrong!! Thanks for showing the path of acceptance, you're right we all are humans!!!

[potatochip...]

Akela hu pr adhura nhi
Gira hu fasa nhi
Dhere hu ruka nhi
Thoda km h pr khtm nhi
Akela hu adhura nhi
Jang se h khudme
Zakhmi hu mara nhi
Thoda piche hu pr samay se hara nhi
Akela hu adhura nhi
Akela hu adhura nhi

Thank u mam for guiding us I'm trying hard to become the best version of myself tryinn to understand my problems most imp. Tryin to understand myself