FIRST DATE MISTAKES ELEGANT WOMEN AVOID | Don't make these mistakes on your first date

Dating Mistakes Elegant Women Avoid!

Ladies, do you ever wonder why you didn't get the call back that you anticipated? Are you wondering why you weren't invited for a second date? Are you simply tired of being ghosted and are on the brink of giving up on finding love altogether? Well, ladies, I am here to assure you that it does not all have to be bleak!

It is important that we focus on the things we CAN control. We can't control how our date will react or behave but we can polish ourselves and put our best foot forward to ensure that we are the best versions of ourselves and increase our chances of being asked out again.

Here, I speak about 7 dating mistakes that you MUST avoid if you want to increase your chances of dating success. If you have been making these mistakes, it is likely that it is costing you the chance of nurturing a promising relationship. Ensure you leverage your self-improvement journey to maximise your chances of dating success by avoiding these first date faux- pas.

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[WomanOfElegance]

Ladies, I hope you enjoy this video! Certain mistakes could cost you a budding romance. I skipped point no. 4 because it was a little controversial. Which other mistakes do you think should be avoided?

[Bnesi]

If a man asks me “What are you looking for in a partner?” I never tell him. Can’t be out here giving the cheat code to your heart because unserious men love to pretend in order to get what they want from us women. Proverbs 4:23 says above all else, guard your heart because everything you do flows from it. I just say something vague like “ A man who’s not afraid to be himself “ … that way I get to see the real him and decide for myself whether or not I want to move forward.

[kotusso]

Sadly, reading these comments it seems that there are so many ladies with so little confidence. Never ever let a man treat you with anything other than respect. Walk out. Do not apologise. Do not make excuses. Leave for the sake of your future self. You are worth more.

[Trinitytruth]

It is not wise to tell a potential mate what you are looking for in a man in great detail as some men are highly likely to pretend to be what you want to get into your panties. It is best to be general and name things that are both common to men and women like honesty, loyalty, integrity, respect and fun.

[eshjane]

He asked me about how many men I slept with. I replied “only my husband”. 😉

[alcudiababe]

I actually got dumped because I wanted a serious relationship and the guy just wanted fun!! This happened after I said I wouldn't have sex with someone if the sex wasn't meaningful for him but I suppose it helped me find a meaningful relationship that bit quicker he just wanted someone who was easier to fool around with. Although it initially hurt, I actually respect the guy because he didn't ghost me or keep me hanging he actually had the decency to call me up and call our relationship quits. I actually respect the two guys who actually did phone me to say this - I was more angrier receiving a text it's just a cowards way out and not a honourable man but at least I got my answer from that guy to move on.

[rennigaderedd]

These are great tips, especially about not talking about past relationships. This is why I don't talk about mine, because whenever I hear a gentleman talk negatively about his ex partner, it makes me wonder if that's how he would talk about me if we got serious, and then parted ways? If I'm asked about my ex husband, or past relationships, I just respond with " It didn't work out." If they keep pushing for me to go into more detail, I tell them again " It didn't work out. " and I think about if I want to go out with this person again, because they didn't respect my boundaries.

[Chahlie]

Oh my heavens. I was at a dinner event last night. Was seated next to a lovely lady. Her 'date' was seated across the table, an 'older' man, quite arrogant, and he told me right off the bat that they are 'only friends' and met online. Then asked if I was single (heck no!). The man had longer fingernails than mine, and dirty (and I'm a gardener). Exchanged numbers with the lady (she is newish to this country and trying to make friends) and vowed to never date online.
Point is, make sure the man is worth making an effort for first, but in my new friend's case I think she made a few new female friends and contacts, so all is not lost :)

[alcudiababe]

If someone asked me what are you looking for I'd smile, smile with my eyes as well as my mouth and ask them - what are you looking for? That way you can avoid people pretending to be someone who they are not and then they get that you're someone who'll turn things back around to make them think. You'll probably get some resistance and the whole "No you go first, " but if this is a first date and a little bit of teasing is fine but if they really want to know say you'll tell them if you get to hear something first and you control what you tell them. You don't need to tell them your life history but you could say I value someone who is honest, some one who knows himself and what he wants and isn't afraid to speak his mind. He might agree with all those points but then overtime you must watch and see if his actions line with his words because you're not going to get a true picture on a first date. You have to give them the benefit of the doubt at first when they are telling you who they are and you can make a better decision whilst dating them but speaking from experience do not cancel spin class or something like that to spend time with him. There's attraction in what is distant so they value your time when you are with them. I'm saying don't be so overly accommodating. It's okay to be busy plus it adds to your mystery.

[eshjane]

I need to keep following you.
Thank you!

[lydialal.l.f]

Awesome point, thank you so much :D !

[patiencematipa]

Hi auntie viviene. Thank you so very much for your lessons. Am new to your lessons but I believe from today I've become a woman of elegance.

[madelynebibbs-fisher]

Thank you, Thank you, you're amazing Viviann

[blossoulmnetwork]

He who has an ear, let him hear. Love this!!

[julietgeorge]

I love everything about you your words, way of dressing makeup everything

[lydiafaithmanhanga]

Thanks Vivian l love your videos and look forward to them

[buinlemfaith]

I just came across your channel today. and i could not stop watching more videos.Thank you for all these tips.Please i wish to know what to say when he is the one that first
ask about your past relationship

[lioness]

My deal breaker tobacco and alcohol use so many lie about it or promise to stop which is another red flag...Thank you 🌹

[dumsileprincess]

I just started following you dear and I’m falling in love with your character dear thank you so much 🙌🏾😊

[JBTHEJEWELER]

😍😍😍😍😍 I can listen to you talk all day long 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰