3 Qualities Men Over 40 Look For in a Woman

Once you get to your forties and beyond, you've probably gone through a divorce or some really painful heartbreak. Now you have a little bit more of a clear head that you can bring to your love life. You are more established, you know what you want, and, for us men, our testosterone levels tend to dissipate a little bit which means we are looking beyond a quick fling. So, naturally, this means that older guys tend to be interested in different things in a woman than younger guys. In this video, I will reveal the three qualities that men over 40 are looking for in a woman.

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[duckypam]

I am attracted to a man who shows interest, wants to do fun things and makes me feel safe, but also gives me independence at the same time

[FerKitten]

Thank you! :) So it's
1 intelligent
2 caring & nurturing
3 youthful attitude

[anggrekbulan]

So lucky to have met a guy at my age ( we're both 40) who knows what he wants in a relationship and makes an effort to make it work. No games, no frustration, no pull and push, no mixed signals. He loves and makes it very clear. We understand and trust each other. We talked about sex after a month of dating, he was very respectful before that. We're engaged now and there's no day that he doesn't make me feel loved and appreciated. Never been this happy in a relationship.

[erionskitchen]

I just turned 40 this year and I feel like I am completely a different person. There has never been a bigger desire to create a family than now, I wish to find a woman that has the same desire.

[sweetsimpleslowlife]

Being a 50 years young woman, I’m finding out that I’m very attractive to both older and younger men. Older men want me because, well …I’m young! And younger men want me because, well… they like older women 😉 It’s a win win age👌❤️

[LaOriental]

When a woman truly steps into her feminine energy and exudes a confident, I am so radiant attitude she will attract a lot of high quality men.
It's true ladies.

[SarahStair]

I'm 37. I look for playfulness, emotional maturity, open mindedness, intelligence, and most importantly a guy who loves and respects himself and me. Laziness and stubborness at this age is really a huge turn off.

[brendah]

I’m most attracted to stability. Then, confidence

[pinkypie]

There are still guys over 40 who are players and don't care who they hurt which is still sad. I have to listen to my intuition more and more as I am tired of getting hurt and played. My fault for putting up with it.

[eeveeu]

1 intelligent
2 caring & nurturing
3 youthful attitude (i would replace: Fun and positive attitude)

[tattybasson]

Emotional intelligence and spiritual growth.

[jubelcabahug]

1. emotional stability.
2. Honesty
3. Faithfulness

[camuyana]

Intelligent, leader, caring, trustworthy and loving.

[cornellsanders]

After everything that I have gone through in my life and I'm now 57, I realized that I don't have much patience for the BS. I have decided that I'm not dealing with anyone mother, sister, or crack head brother. I'm not dealing with her girl friends who are sneaky behind her back trying to sleep with me and she believes her girlfriend. I'm not changing to please her because I did that and I lost who I was. It has taken me 25 years to find myself again and I am happy. Being by myself is better than being with someone and be miserable. If a woman can't accept my love and that I am going to treat her good then she can go on about her business. I don't love no one that much and not love myself. I tell people all the time. I love me some Cornell.

[alisonjones]

You made me realise that my husband hasn’t appreciated me over the past 20 years. Thank you so very much for letting me know that I am worthwhile.

[marjoriedavies]

What im looking for in a man is their playfulness, kindness, loving and fun to be with. Definitely someone humorous.

[learnlanguageswithshabnams]

I have been watching you for three years and nowadays I am dating a guy at his 40. He is the only person who appreciates my intelligence the way it is. Appreciates my kindness, and sex is secondary, which makes me feel safe, also he keeps saying: ''you know how to'' in many cases. Oh boy this is the first time I am in a real relationship dating what I have always wanted. I am 35 by the way. He is divorced and have two daughters whom I have no problem with being their life coach. Men under 40 are useless

[magdakidybinska]

hey. I'm 45. The three qualities I am looking for are : groundedness, ability to connect on different levels, spaciousness :)
thank you!
<3

[jacquelinewalker]

Emotionally intelligent, financially stable, kind, adventurous, curious.

[spacexbrawler]

I'm in my 20s but I just thought this would be interesting 😂