How Narcissist Sees YOU

Narcissist's POV (point of view) is the outcome of his internal dynamics, especially the compulsive need to devalue and discard you.
Here is how he sees you:
You have changed
You blame-shift
I am the victim
You guilt-trip
You are not self-aware
You are self-destructive and you want to drag me with you
You are disloyal
You are looking for alternatives
You are out to get me
You are after my money
You lie, deceive, and cheat
You entrapped me
You never mean what you say
You gaslight me
You hate me while I love you self-sacrificially
You humiliate me and shame me, you are malicious

[maramouertatani]

I think it's high time we admit that these people do not know and will never know happiness...

[flyawaybutterflyhealingchannel]

He drove me literally crazy....I had completely lost myself

[MrsTruthTeller]

The narcissist I dated constantly posted on social media about people not being accountable for their words and actions and how people are emotionally immature in relationships. It was so weird because he was always posting about behaviors that he himself does. He used to accuse me of trying to “manipulating” him when I was being nice to him. He also once said, “You’re just trying to have sex with me to make me fall in love with you and manipulate me.” He accused me of treating him poorly but when I asked him how, he could never tell me how. He suddenly acted as if he hated me and everything I did was annoying. The nicer I was to him, the more angry he got. I realize now that it was because he wanted to devalue me and me being nice made it difficult and made him uncomfortable and question himself. I never dealt with anyone this mentally messed up in my life.

[anyways]

Hilariously true! When the narcissist feels guilty, he thinks he's being manipulated 🤣🤣🤣 hopeless!

[cynthiabauer]

Yes! This is so bizarre! They project all the harm they cause you onto you!

[bryanandrew]

They are physically and mentally and emotionally draining they can make Yr life a living hell

[Prettysimpleme]

You need to listen to these videos every once in a while to remind yourself that there is nothing you can do to change this.

[appletreeblues]

The narcissist is incurable. So sad that horrible parenting can do this to another human being.

[virginiamaeweather]

💯 I went from being his lover to his mother then to his enemy #1! Harder I tried to help “us” harder he went behind my back trying to ruin my reputation and cause conflict with our co workers 🤦🏻‍♀️ now I know what narcissist is (1st encounter… I am 47yr old) I’m not even mad at him because there is no real “him” I’m just glad it’s over 🎉 I survived!!!!

[kourtenayt]

they are not posessed by demons - they are demons! lmao you are amazing Sam ! thank you for all your work!

[KarenHicks]

The narcissist i know followed this exact pattern.

He tells me I don't know who I am and he knows me better than I know myself. That I need help and am broken.

It's devastating to have someone you love think this way about you.

[susanwilcox]

This is exactly right!! He pushes you to betray him and then blames you for it and plays the victim. He would triangulate me every day with other women and deny it, and then claim I was controlling him.

[mariabrennan]

Just when the fog lifts you really see it it’s sad

[yehudah]

This is a very important video for anyone who needs some answers after being in an abusive relationship by a narcissist.

[howlingeagle]

its scary how common narcissism is.. truly frightening. after you learn about how narcissists operate, they honestly just become boring because they all do the exact same thing. this video describes my ex to a t. cant say how many times i’ve heard other people say that…
Lord help them, and us to heal…

[craig]

I used to fear my narcissistic father. Now that I am a grown man, and former Marine, I realize what a coward he really has always been. He was very tough and macho with my mother and I when I was young. He would not dare to rage in front of me now.

[beatpeace]

This is so accurate. They speak like you were specifically sent into their life to destroy them 😂

[karenellisbrown]

I'm running as far as possible in the opposite direction.. Discarded in the worst possible way with no warning after 30 years of marriage.. He sees himself as a victim even though he has been the cheater

[RS-wwjo]

Nothing worse than being abused by a narcissistic husband
Thank you Sam for all you do

[E-plunksna]

9:56 "he thinks you love him, because you want something from him"... Oh my god... Now I see... That's what it was when he always always couldn't understand my love, always unsatisfied, always distrustful, always humiliating me... because he just can't imagine love without some agenda, profit...