What to Do If/When SHE'S DISTANT ALL OF A SUDDEN

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In this video, I discuss what happens when you've been seeing a girl for some time, and what to do when she's distant all of a sudden. It can be very frustrating when she backs off out of nowhere, and you're just left confused. That's why it's important that if/when she pulls away, you properly handle it after watching this video. If she became distant, there's usually 3 main reasons why she distanced herself from you. At times, she's acting distant to test you, but at others, she's distant due to something that you've done to cause her to be distant. Whether she just seems distant or is actually distant, is something you need to be able to pick up on and learn, if you really want to fix this problem.

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A woman is much more equipped to be emotional than men. So when it comes to love, the balance is to let her love you more... How does this happen? You back off, and she will come to you like the chah chah chah dance. Always give a woman space never chase them, and don't wait for them to set your mood. You go on and if she contacts you, she do if not, chill and she will not have any powers over your emotions as she shouldn't.

halfunkbass
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I have seen many relationship advisors on YouTube. I like the fact that you make it clear and straight to the point. You didn't have to list anything on a board nor sell any major product. Good job.

johnnyg
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You're always better off to do your own thing while she does whatever she does.

johnparton
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Patience is huge, bro. Most guys get needy or naggy or just quit once they sense the shorty is going cold. Key is to back off but if a week or two passes, it’s fine to Reach back out

Frederick
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If she's distant, she is a narcissist or borderline personality disorder, so don't do anything to try and keep her. Run

timweedon
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I agree with almost everything you said, with the exception of one thing. Don’t bring up to the woman that you haven’t heard from her in a while. She already knows that. Act as if it didn’t bother you and carry on your conversation.

robrobinson
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I’m definitely in the exact situation you described in the first scenario with a girl right now. I 100% agree with your analysis. Going to back off and wait for her to come back.

HankTheTank
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Be a king live your best life and girls will eventually want a piece of that

royalegamer
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Never, never show any need of her in your life. Be you, be strong, do your life she can come along but you as a man stay on course.

danielsea
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Best advice I've received for my specific situation. Thank you, and I mean that.

BallyBoy
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Yt recommended this and I needed to hear this. In the end all assumptions wrecking my brain atm cant be proven with 100% certainty. Already backing off rn.

KeeganRusz
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There is no better dating or relationship advice anywhere on Youtube! This dude knows his shit!! More videos please!

BigtimeJuicer
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That's was amazing video you are truly one of the best if not best relationship coach out there. Clear and consice with good examples

devinharris
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what he say is pure gold keep it up mate

TheElyes
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Broke up with her mentally! Thats it
If she is back, she is yours forever.
If she didn’t then she was never yours.
Thats so simple and easy.

wassemsas
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Women testing men is even sub-conscious. If she backs away, back away too. If she backs away for 1-3 days I wouldn't personally worry too much. Feelings are not static, and women are hormonal beings. There will be days where her attraction is high, and days her attraction is low. 9 times out of 10, she came back after I just did something else, proved that I got something going for me and that I won't be rattled by her shit-tests. The thing is, don't assume the worst right of the bat.

theguynextdoor
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if she is not interested in you, she will not come back after you did no contact rule. Just move on...

austinyang
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As a girl who is distant to him now, it was cuz he was making posts about "missing her" which i assume is his ex since I was always texting and initiating conversations, he wouldn't have a reason to miss me.
He also leaves me on delivered or seen for hours to days at a time. This continued on for a month and I confronted him on his behaviour and asked if I should just leave. He said sorry and still did not change his ways, only grew more distant.
I noticed he never puts in effort.
So i distanced myself and ghosted him.
Now he is texting "wyd" every few days. Even the way he reaches out to me is effortless. Just a "wyd" all the time.
Now this is another reason why a woman would be distant. She's just done with your bs.
Now I'm not saying this is the case, but it was for me, so it could be for you too. So please check if you were being ignorant before.
Because I am not testing him now. I'm literally done.

nightcoreyuno
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I’ll be real….this might be like what, 3 years old. But it just told me to do exactly in my situation and with maturity. Solid

warriora
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I should call this channel "SAVELIVEScoaching" thanks for all of your advice

danielcarrasco