12 Signs She’s Playing You - How To Spot If She's Using You

How can you tell if a girl is using you? What if a woman's playing you and you're unable to spot it? Today we're taking a look at 12 signs she's playing you.

These are some of the telltale signs someone doesn't really want a proper relationship with you, they could just be playing you or they may be using you for their own gain.

Do you know of any other signs a woman is player a man? Or perhaps you know of some other telltale signs a girl is using you? Comment below and let us know, we try our best to respond to every comment.

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[mopar]

Actions speak louder than words ... Go by what somebody does, not by what they say.

[rajneelprasad]

This is actually true. Better to act fast than to cry later

[noelafflick]

You can only be used if you lack internal confidence. Observe and go forth do your own thing but know your worth then wait to see what the next move is. However don't be fooled by any deception except standards or walk.

[mitchellmiller]

There are multiple ways that girls use guys but this video has given me tips I haven't heard of yet, thank you very much for the advice. I've been used by too many girls that only liked the fact that I was a nice guy but they didn't really have much enthusiasm for me

[SHINOBHS]

When she likes you she is all in. When she is confused or using you, you get a lot of mixed signals. Sometimes she gives you attention and some times she makes fun of you 😉
In reality if you have confidence and experience, you walk as soon as you see these signs. There is a chance though she checks and dates other guys too and settle with you in the end 😜 just don't give too much while she does that, so you can walk anytime.

[GlobeofBeauty]

For the most part it's pretty obvious when a girl is using you (from my experience, everything mention in video is spot on). It's just a matter of taking your blinders off and accepting it that's challenging

[craig]

Also get these signs with family members also they always want me when they need or want something.

[hathleteever]

I agree with everything in the video 100%! I've gone through this my whole life. I do not want to be bitter because of this, but going forward these experiences have brought me more awareness and made me wiser. Thank you for this video and I will watch more!

[bobross]

This is a good video and had almost all of them happen over my life. The not saying you are dating thing is the key. If you have been dating more than a month (especially if you are indeed being physically affectionate) and when she runs into people with you that she knows and she calls you a "friend", that is the most consistent red flag I have seen she is not really into you. The taking pictures together also is a big one with good looking women I dated. If she does not want her social media circle to know she is out with you but you are somewhere cool and she is taking pictures of everything but you and she will not even tag you, she is either seeing other men, wants to be seen as single or worse is embarrassed to be out with you or do not want the questions as to why you two are out.

But the one that shows she is flat out using you is the only texts or calls when wants a favor or she needs something. Yes, some girls might text you a question or want a bit of advice to break the ice (women are usually not as direct as men), but if you known her a long time and she only texts wanting something and only then flirts or hints at getting together (or might even hang out...once as a kind of "payment" for your help) but then disappears or dodges getting with you until she needs something again..that is the worst. You are being played and she sees you as a chump who has no value other than you helping her. Even if you stand up for yourself and call her out, in these situations she actually then just drops you and you never hear from her again. (Which is great! even though it might hurt at first) Do not be a chump.

[njrsh]

Thank You for the great advice!🤭❤
I know a lot of people who are gonna be single after this🙂😕

[FedUpCanuck]

My neighbor was exactly this. Very huggable great smile BUT.... Soon found out everytime she knocked on my door she had conviently run out of something. I became her supmarket that she could come to and not pay for food. This lasted 3 weeks untill I gave her a complete list of things she borrowed but never returned

[chrismcevoy]

I’m going through this same situation Anna. I really liked this video.

[vocabularymillionaire]

And one last thing, if she never invited you to her birthday party 🤣🤣🤣

[zy]

this video teaches a lot . I think the girl iam trying to chase is playing with me ! accord to almost all items

[manofsteelgoodmanll]

My ex girl friend had done that to me already when I warned her to cause bullshit drama against me and my family.I did take care of her though but unfortunately what I did was never enough to satisfy her.So I gave up cause I was tired of her games I was tired of repeating myself and mostly tired of her lies so I was so done with her ass.

[juanm.figueroa]

Sounds like someone I know! Laura Gomez, from Cienfuegos Cuba. 🇨🇺

[neftaliriverajr]

Hearing this says to me that make it more valid "incels" are right on how they viewed SOME Women who (especially) do this to men!👍🏁

[Hey_its_Koda]

A friend told me a girl likes me but when i confront her she say we are friends and wont tell me she already has a bf. She flirts with me but ignores me when i text her? I think shes just playing games.

[johnmora]

My ex was doing all these things and i know she was cheating and i saw signs all the time and would bring them up with her but she lie and say it nothing. Im just having fun for now. She still hits me up but she apparently values them more than me. I will never play second fiddle. Im gonna have to start be ruthless with her and her friends like she has been with me, it will be hard but guess it a doggy dog world, i love her but she not coming at me right way at all

[zaaayyyy]

I promise if this 1 plays games with me im done with this shit forever