She's Holding Back From INTIMACY With You! (HERE'S WHY) | Apollonia Ponti

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[whozaskin]

If she withholds intimacy, withhold yourself and find someone else.

[benhartart]

Men we trade our time for intimacy, if she is withholding sex when you are in a relationship
just move onto one that will not withhold it. You are the prize

[arsnv]

When a woman is sleeping with playboys and holding back from intimacy with a guy that u really like is such a turn-off for a man. It shows that a woman herself does not really have standards.

[lancerogers]

If she doesn’t sleep with you or isn’t suggesting it, she doesn’t like you. Actual Facts

[haydenson]

She doesn't want you but your attention until that man shows up and you go from "friend zone" to the bin

[radfoo]

I once felt physically rejected
and emotionally fenced off from a female roommate who I had mild feelings for...
Fast forward to 6 months later
when I found out that not only was she promiscuous
but she also had herpes.

"Sometimes rejection
is God's protection." lol

[leodias]

My girlfriend denied me sex this weekend and after feeling phisically rejected my atraction went from 100% to 5%.
Huge turn off, you feel unrewarded and frustrated to actually chase sex.

[timothywenk]

I used to agree with this. Now I've changed my mind. Now I think "friends first" is baloney. My new policy is, if she shows me that she doesn't like me "like dat, " I IMMEDIATELY bail out.

[hlalelemohale]

Let me wrap it up, anything other than her religious beliefs, if she doesn't give you, she is getting it somewhere.

[jongoldsby]

But why should a man invest the work in a woman that the other guy got instantly?

[suprrce]

I’m married for nearly 20 years and regular intimacy was an issue from the start and is still an issue all these years later. The first couple months seemed normal—sex almost everyday….when our work lives got busy, it would be once during the week but the weekends allowed for more intimate time together. Then once we were truly committed and engaged it dropped to once a month! Then it turned to once every couple months and it lasts less than 10 minutes. I started pushing for more intimacy (not just sex but hugging, cuddling and at least some making out, and I was made to feel as if all I was interested in was sex so I backed off hoping that all she needed was to not feel pressured even though I was very light-hearted about it. Nothing changed and the droughts got worse. After we got married it got even more worse! We’d go six months without sex and at one point we went a whole year without sex and I lost it and walked out on her. For the two months we were apart I had a girlfriend and we had sex as much as twice a day and a minimum of three times a week and I was like a starved animal….! I told my “friend” that I didn’t want to throw years of marriage away and I reluctantly ended the fling after a few weeks. But that fling raised my sexual appetite back to the levels of a 20 year old college kid. I patched things up, went to counselling and the sex became a little more frequent but it was still nowhere near what it was before we got married and definitely not on the level of my fling. Years after our break up I’m now back to being rejected on a daily, weekly and monthly basis and I’ve tried everything. I’m in great shape, I’m kind, I don’t push for it too hard, I’ve even stopped asking her for weeks to see if she would miss it….nothing works. We go months without sex and I’ve tried date nights, random gifts, flowers, extra help around the house….! It’s all BS. I’m now in the process of getting our finances in good shape and then I’m planning a separation and subsequent divorce because I’m beginning to flirt with other women again, I’m getting a lot of interest, I really don’t want to be labelled a cheater and it’s incredibly difficult not to take another woman up on her offer who’s offering. If you have to beg, wait, get counselling, compromise for sex, bend to your partner’s low sex drive, change your desires….dont waste your time with any of that nonsense. Just end it and find someone more sexually compatible instead of trying to make a connection where there isn’t one. Most of the men I know that have cheated or are cheating on their wives is because of the same exact issues, and women use excuses like; he’s doesn’t help, they’re exhausted, I’m not in the mood, it’s my period, that’s all he wants….etc. Other guys that live the exact same lifestyles with more sexually accommodating wives will tell you that they’re intimate at least once a week with the occasional drought….it happens. But they also have those moments when it’s almost a daily occurrence even after years of marriage. And it doesn’t always have to be full on sex, it can be a nice massage, a great make out session or really good embrace and telling each other how much you enjoy being together. It boils down to this; either you want to have a sexual relationship or you don’t! If you know you don’t really like sex then don’t act like you do just to lure someone into a committed relationship—that makes you the liar that cheated them out of sexual fulfillment! You know when you’re sexually starving your partner and you shouldn’t be surprised that they got desperate and found someone to satisfy their urges you completely neglected. It’s incredibly difficult and frustrating to fight off sexual urges multi-daily for weeks, months and in some cases for years! It’s not mentally healthy for the person being starved and if daily, weekly or monthly sex is a turn-off for you but you still want to be married, then you need to talk about separation and divorce because it’s also not gratifying to have bad sex with someone just trying to get it over as quickly as possible. Then you can go on dating sites for asexual people and find someone who doesn’t see sex as a necessary part of a successful relationship and hope he/she doesn’t want it less than you and find out the hard way what your ex went through with you.

[Tvj_films]

All these good reasons, but what about the reason that she just wants to keep you on the side and keep intimacy from you because that way she can connect with someone else.

[elttabykcir]

She's always acting like she wants to do something, gets me all hot and in the mood, and then starts saying no this is wrong, once I'm now in the mood. But now when she acts this way, I know that it's not going to happen, so I'll tell her no because I know it's not going to happen anyway! She'll get mad at me and say that I must be cheating on her!😢 WHY ARE WOMEN SO COMPLICATED? I'll never understand them!

[glace]

BS, probably getting it from someone else 😂

[jhead]

Its one thing for her to hold back because she likes you. THE PROBLEM is when she is sexing another dude whike making you wait. Women need to know this is NOT OkAY.

[kingtut]

It's the double standard for me on one hand they will go bust it open for some "f boy" the same night at a party but the guys she likes has to work for it and then wonders when guys don't take them serious. What it says to men is that you (the good guy) has to pay the high price while f boy gets the goodies with no effort but the good guys are supposed to "value" her. Also some get it from their exes so they don't need it from you right away.

[vancevalencia]

Bullshit, she has a #1 man in her life that she’s in a situation ship. But keeping you in the loop just in case #1 guy fails

[TheGoodTherapist]

If she’s avoiding intimacy and it was never a problem, she’s cheating or caught something. Don’t ask more than once, no explanation, just move on. Still be nice etc but women who are focused on you won’t decline with a good reason and she’ll be honest. And when she wants to decline her. If she accuses you of cheating, there’s your answer. While hormones and life can affect sexual drive, it’s usually because she wants a split or someone else.

[bkstandard]

I was trying to get with a woman for 10 years one time and when she finally agreed to be my girlfriend, i got 4 years of exactly 4 kisses (pecks) and sex once. I know for damn sure guys she dated before me were getting more sexual attention. I even remember her telling stories of her being intimate with women. I decided to just ghost her altogether.

[sidlove]

Ms. Ponti, your husband is blessed to have a lady who cares about the well being of men. I hope you and him have a beautiful Valentine's and have a great week!! Blessings of peace love abundance will follow you and your loved ones.