What are Attachment Styles? | Secure and Insecure Attachment

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Video by Dr. Dawn Elise Snipes on integrative behavioral health approaches including counseling techniques and skills for improving mental health and reducing mental illness.

TIMESTAMPS
00:00 Intro and What is attachment
02:32 Functions of secure attachment
05:02 Anxious insecure attachment styles
07:35 Anxious ambivalent attachment
09:35 Avoidant Attachment Dismissive Attachment
16:00 Consequences of insecure attachment
18:35 Creating secure attachment

[DocSnipes]

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[giulianacr]

It makes me sad to discover all the dysfunction I grew up in. The abuse and neglect shaped me to be fearful of being rejected and feel insecure about my relationships with people. I feel overly conscious of people's opinions of me and fear that they have a negative perception of my appearance and behavior. I also have social anxiety and feel shaky and tense when interacting with others.

[BecomeConsciousNow]

I definitely had an insecure attachment with my caregiver, thus resulting in severe anxiety and a fear of being close to other people. "Terrified" is exactly how I would describe how I feel about close relationships.

[giulianacr]

14:31 exactly my case. I don't have a good relationship with my mom and now as a mom I have insecure attachment with my children, not that they'll leave me because they're young, but I worry too much about their well being, and I'm slowly discovering it's unhealthy to shelter them so much.

[smirkinatu]

Interesting, I never knew of such things. Thank you for recording and posting this valuable educational video.

[giulianacr]

Thank you so much for all the work you do and the way you explain it. I'm slowly discovering the areas in which I need work on. Having all this information helps me to write notes about me to take back to my treatment before my appointment. Ty Doc 🙏

[JaydeJardine-tzmy]

Thankyou so so much for your videos. They are helping me understand myself so much more and be responsible for the way I act in relationships ❤

[endeleocounsellingtherapy]

Succinct presentation!!! loved it, how about doing more of this kind, for all presentations? your consistency is admirable.

[Mari.]

Great information! Very well explained! Thank you 🙏🏻

[rhythms]

Thanks Doc!!! It’s awesome. Very helpful, now I have much better ideas what it’s actually about 🙏🙏💛

[whitneymusole]

Thanks doc, very helpful tools, couldn't thank you enough 🙏😊

[mariammahmoud]

Thank you for your great effort in spreading knowledge about these topics 🙏🙏✨✨you are helping lots of people

[dragonstaye]

What about ptsd fight, flight or freeze in 'style?''

[charlesblair]

i prefer the word connection. i dont know why psychology loves that word. attachment is always a weakness. but being open and connected is in a interdependent relationship is good.

[GriffinWulf]

Doc Snipes I have my psychiatrist appointment next month, I've been watching your videos and feel like I have hunch what categories I may fall into, but I'm afraid if I go in with a condition in mind that I will come off as shopping for a diagnosis or even drug seeking because one is treated with stimulants.. could you make a video on the topic?

[maintain.faith.]

This is an interesting topic. The Bible says GOD created Man & Woman as two halves of a whole. In life we go through many different learning experiences to equip us for the future. Your intellect is very appealing.

[kurt]

when are you going to do that presentation on RAD?

[ThaHopelessRomantic]

I don’t seem to fall into any of these. Im a lover looking for someone who wants to b loved. Seems like everyone else wants to b loved but wan’t allow themselves. What attachment style am i?

[yanadre]

Do narcissists usually have an anxious/preoccupied attachment style?