7 Ways To Stop Thinking About Your Ex

Let's get over your ex together, here are the 7 ways we are going to do it. I know that your breakup was hard, that you thought they were the one but that is why the last point (number 7) will hit so hard with you.

I promise that with time and these steps, you will be living a better and happier life for yourself.

[naveenshiranga]

Been with my ex for 8 years almost close to 9…just allow yourself to heal with time. Just take your time, don’t rush things. Just treat yourself as same as if you are sick. You don’t try to force to be normal when you are sick. You just wait till you feel better. Time heals and let your emotions go and be with the pain. it’ll make sense one day.

[lovefoodandbeingfood]

it fucking sucks, because you had imagined everything together. and suddenly its gone. i don’t know what to think or how im gonna through it. i thought i was doing well but recently it’s been so difficult to handle this

[SamuelLee-kcrh]

Great video, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me, i still love her and most times i cant stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, i love her so much, i don't know why i am bring this here for, i cant stop thinking about her

[balkee]

My gf of over a decade broke it off for good recently. Already got a new guy and said its taking a turn for the serious. Im 43. Life feels weird af now.

[WeRemember]

I’ve been single going on 3 years, I’m past old relationships but self exploration is so important. Learn your boundaries, change the toxic traits you may feel you have and embrace who you are. You should be your strongest relationship, so no matter how many no’s come your way, when you finally get a yes, you don’t push all that trauma onto someone else. ❤ Your doing great and your an amazing person, I know it’s hard right now but I promise you the reward is worth the pain ❤

[Marcel-isxo]

It’s been 5 months after my break up, the woman I loved wasn’t in love with me anyone. I’m going through hell and hope to get over it soon. I really like the idea of ‘create your own closure’ cause I think that’s what I need to finally move on. Thank you for this video.

[akshatananthu]

I left a relationship because I felt like I didn't have my peace in it. 4 months later, however, it doesn't feel like I'm getting the peace I wanted by leaving the relationship. I can't stop thinking about what I lost when I left the relationship because it doesn't feel like I had even gained anything by leaving it. Every day, I live with doubt and regret even though I know that I made the right decision to leave. I'm terribly lost and confused. You say time will heal this wound Joey, but each day feels worse than the last. I hope things will turn around soon enough.

[eddy.trujillo]

8. Focus on the potential. Meet new people and friends you wouldn't have met, take in valuable experiences you couldn't have had, and create unique memories and connections that only a breakup could've given you access to. Though it's painful, these things help you assign the breakup a positive value; you'll see it more for all it gave you rather than just for what was lost.

[adepressedmanunitedfan]

When I thought I'm not alone anymore, and now I'm here because she left me

[palapalak.]

I don't cry anymore... the pain is easier now.
I do nails, hair, massages. I stay very, very busy!

[countmorgrimm]

May fiancé ended our relationship just over a year ago. I still burst into tears thinking about her all the time. I love her so much. I'm starting therapy tomorrow

[bradygorman]

Honestly one thing that's always helped me short term was some simple material upgrades. Relationship ended and you cancelled a big expensive date? Take that money and get better bedsheets for yourself, some better-fitting shirts, a plant or wall picture you've been eyeing for a while. Guys are more object-oriented than women so making little changes around your house and apartment can help, or plan a trip, give yourself something to look forward to while you have to put a lot of mental energy into planning something. All these other steps are great too, this is just one other thing that's helped me.

[aryaanggara]

Thank you brother, I almost killed myself. thanks to your video I started to rethink about life and try to have a happy family. (sorry my english not good)

[amjdso]

I just needed someone to talk to me that friendly, as the nights get lonlier

[eden-xpjd]

i did the right thing, keeping her as a friend is always been a bad idea, idk whats her intention but in order to make myself healed, i have to let her go fully

[El_Armandini]

My gf just broke up with me 2 ago after a really short but amazing 1 year and 2 months, I know it was really short but it was just incredible. The thing is we wanted different things and I was really fine with doing things she liked like living in many countries in the future but I also wanted to have a house together in one place have a family and get old together. But she thought I wanted to do it only for her which kind of was but I wanted it because it made me happy being with her. When she was breaking up with me I asked her that if we love each other we can go through this together… but she said sometime love is not enough, it just broke me. I respect her decision but still… it hurts a lot and I know this is all going to be better but still it hurts really bad.

[jjxdn_]

I broke up with her because she lied to me, she was very narcissistic and manipulative. I feel stupid for even missing her. I try to remind myself of how I felt during the majority of our relationship and I was always unhappy. I was doubtful of us even getting married, although she was all for it. The term “find somebody that loves you more than you love them” isn’t always the move. They will place you on this pedestal that you know you don’t deserve. She will suffocate you with love and you start to realize that it’s more of an obsession than love. It almost makes me feel like I was never really loved. It was an infatuation, you don’t lie to the people you love. You don’t sneak things behind their back and try to gaslight them when they figure it out. People are crazy, never try to fix someone that it is broken. They will cling onto you and drain you for all that you have. You will lose yourself and ultimately your soul. Your sanity will be questioned, anyone reading this. Look out for people with BPD or NPD, they are master manipulators of the mind and will lie just to keep you around. I may be wrong but this is the problem I’ve ran into twice, just keep your guard up💯

[ayushi]

there's no thought popping UP, it's just literally there the whole time, playing like some kinda bg music

[racingdriveras]

6 Months have passed, she has a new boyfriend within a month, Dumped me through text.
Im okay tho, just craving love and validation.
Joined a basketball team which was good for me.
But still got so much questions.
Almost have no friends, just looking for them but scared to go out and meet new people, and dont know how.
Time will heal,
Also 'just date' no one wants to go on a date, im not meeting people that want to. and dating apps don't work for me.
But i will be okay.
Just give it time💝💝

[nicholasduncan]

“You don’t want every date to lead to something, then it won’t be special” damn that hit hard because I’ve always thought that a date that went well would lead to something good. I really needed to hear that man!!!! Thank you