How men test women to determine your value

[Justanothercog]

And unfortunately for men, testing her boundaries is the fastest way to lose the interest of a good woman.

[Queenbeeamor]

That is so toxic. The minute a man tests my boundaries, I’m out of there.

[lovelocked]

My self esteem was trash when I got together with my husband. He accepted me anyways and over time I grew as a person. 25 years married, together 28.

[Sloan]

The minute a man tests my boundaries, He’s already gone too far and I’m out the door

[kimberlymcneal]

some men test it, just to break you of being of high value.

[korab.]

If he's toxic, he'll push the boundary and get mad when you keep it or ask for more if you give in. That's not who you want, they only get worse.

[relaxbebe]

He plays games like that, he lost her too. That far can go. Women are not to play games and man should respect woman no matter what. I may let you slide but you won’t see me again.

[aishwaryasoni]

When any man tries pushing my boundaries, i try staying away from them. 🙏

[Hilary]

Ladies!!! If another woman thinks that she has a chance with your man it is because he allowed her to think that. RUN

[tacanyawashington]

Narc alert because why are you playing. She’s not playing when she really sees potential to even give you that “high value” energy. While you’re playing games she’s trying to be a good person to you. Says a lot about some men to ask for and test the vulnerability of a women with no intentions of being sincere.

[kathleen]

I'm just trying to figure out why the YT algorithm has been recommending all these dating videos

[mj-rgkp]

The fact that the guy even thinks he could try it with me early on is enough for me to be turned off bc I would know he has no respect and thinks of me as a conquest so that’s when I walk away, no joke.

[joditawhai]

Girls we need to just be true to ourselves...we must follow in the lord for he is our guide, our direction & hearts.

[cutzymccall]

To be honest, I usually fall in love fast and have never been wrong because I have a natural s—t detector that can spot a good man (for me) immediately and it has always worked. Twenty-five years of soul mate marriage topped off fun years of dating or living with other, good guys. No bs - never been cheated on. I was taught to be self confident but warm and friendly by my parents. So men reveal themselves to me and then I can see who they really are. I didn’t stick around for a second longer than it took to spot the bad ones. People have “tells”‘that show up fairly quickly. Get out asap when you notice them.

[Jane]

I guess I don’t understand why some men think that this is a good thing? If you push too much and get too annoying then we just write you off. And we’re done, that’s our boundaries and you found out the hard way because you know you have no way to come back from that

[sunettecarroll]

My now husband tried to come over to my place the 1st night I met him. I said no but I took him to be a player. I had nothing better to do at that point so I decided to play a game with him to see how many times I can invite him over to my house just for a catch up or dinner without him getting bored and moving on. Let's just say he chased me for 3 months and I did not budge. After the 3rd month I knew for sure he was here to hang out with me and gave in. So yeah, you are allowed to test a man too ladies. If he wants you (The person, not the body) then he will come back for more even tho you don't give him anything in that department. We are married now and still talk about that chase. He said he would have never come back if I just gave in that 1st night

[joyphillips]

Women allow up to a certain point till they had enough and then leave you. You can't reverse her mind after that. Even if it's just a test for him. The more he tests her... the more she realizes what an a-hole he is.... Be careful if you want to play this game with a girl you really like.

[willyandfruit]

some men test a woman's boundaries because they want to find a high value woman with low boundaries aka a high value woman who does not think she is high value so that he can exploit her or "get a good deal"

[shellbellplayz]

Being a born again Christian is amazing. In an equally yoked relationship you don’t have to worry about any of this nonsense.
God’s way is the best 🙌 ♥️

[Maria-]

Oh yes they do test, and I crack them with my esteem!