Why men test you in relationships? Part 2

Why men test women in relationships? The word “test” may not mean what you think it means, but even if it does, it is a part of life and it’s best to know how to handle it than to ignore it.

[jessicajohnson]

Be blessed. Tony I’ve been celibate for 4 years. And every time I meet someone and that conversation comes up, they look at me like I’m a dang fool, or I’m stuck on stupid and parked on dumb. Most guys comment; I’m not buying a car without test driving it. With that being said I just excuse myself because it’s no use going any further. We’re on two different levels. I play to win and for keeps. I’m ready for some kingdom living. So they can go ahead and snatch up that 20% that they want so very badly. To realize that they now have buyers remorse and they’re stuck with it. To blessed to be stressed!

[toriyt]

When Tony’s notification hits, I find a seat and listen.

[EvangelineRudolph]

The Lord even tells us to test the spirit to see if it's of God. Testing is not manipulation or abusive but to find out.

[monica-womenininsurance]

So true. You will pass a test when you have morals, standards and you know who you are. Self value. We should test each other. It will prevent us from wasting each other's time. Thank you ❤

[marilynking]

Tony look like he tired of us 😂😂😂😂😂😂 sorry Tony we are just women who are complicated

[hopefully]

I wish I had you as a friend when I was 18. I'm 50 years old and I can tell anyone here Tony is being honest, his advice is solid! Value yourselves ❤

[Maggs]

As a woman, the best thing you can do is know & appreciate that men think differently from women. Pass those tests by beating him at his game.

[savedbysabtravel_]

They don’t wanna hear the truth. I’m listening 👂

[beingreezy]

I’m here as a sponge soaking up this knowledge. Be blessed everyone ❤️

[malosjaduncan]

“You have to be prepared for what your going to face in the world, instead of waiting on the WORLD to become PERFECT for you!” 💯🙏🏾💜 🌎

[Moonpiebye]

The sleep with you test is always first be ready to say NO THANK YOU😂👍 watch the switch up ...you will see if it was about you or just your body... 💥🛣️✔️ keep it moving don't be desperate get your brain Right ladies😎

[girlwakeuppodcast]

We listening T.G don't let them run up your Blood Pressure BE BLESSED

[TaquilaColeman]

Tony, this was a great breakdown into why he test you. Some may have to watch this video more than once to get "understanding" behind it but to sum it up...if you are healed and whole you will naturally pass the test. You won't even see it coming but will naturally respond according to your standard.

[cche]

5 years later and still watching my Mr. Tony
* Be Blessed *

[KrystleLaughter]

Dang Tony, you look like we stressing you out! 😂 Be Blessed!❤

[NurseNotRatched]

Y’all quit testing Tony’s patience 🤦🏽‍♀️😆
Let this professional in his field do his job & take notes. That’s our problem right nah! 😭

[cynthiawright]

Be Blessed...I’m definitely healing one day at a time!!! So Greatly blessed to be free from a soul tie. I’ve been celibate for 6 months in which is not a long time. However, I’m working deeply within myself mind, body, and soul. NO MORE settling. When I look back over my life, I’m like “did I REALLY” date this man!? Did I really put up with that? I’m on my way to better. Bruised But Not Broken! Stay blessed and thank you for you honesty.

[gabriellebennett]

Many times these "TESTS" are men trying to see what they can get away with... This is why women think its childish

[ebonebarnes]

**How He Will Test You**
1. Try to sleep with you

**Why He Tests You**
1. Because he does not want to choose the wrong woman.
2. To see if you are wife ready.

[leesita]

This makes much sense! NOW I UNDERSTAND THE TESTS COMPLETELY! He has pretty much said everything Tony has said. The fear of trusting because of previous relationships. The fear of something being to good to be true. Understandable if you don’t know what a good thing looks like. The part about being the best man he can be. Never realized how complicated men can be. Always thought they came to the table already “assembled.” Didn’t realize they still need our help. Thank you Tony for the GREAT INSIGHT!