How Men Test Women

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[painexotic]

As a guy, people over-complicate relationships. Forget all this test bullcrap (whether you're a man or woman) and date people who have their lives together in the way you want and be upfront about what you want. Because we all have different goals at different times in our lives, change accordingly. If you are just looking to hookup, make it known. If you are looking for a longterm, romantic companion, make it known. If you are just looking for a sugar daddy (lol) or man to financially support you, make it known. Honesty is essential. And people wonder why people have relationship probs. You all go into relationships with someone who isn't on the same page as you because you were never upfront with that person so of course you all will see eachother in different lights. Another thing: people change and nothing is certain. Recognize this fact and you'll life yourself from emotional turmoil. Even if you all are on the same page at one point in life (or think so), you or your spouse may change their mind so recognize that this can always happen. The average relationship lasts 3 years. Live for the moment, not the future.

[MuseSunflower]

Stuff like this use to trigger me but now I realize its really just human nature to test people and see what their character is. Sometimes you don't even know you are doing it

I guess a test for women would be how he handles dating. If he asks to go 50/50 or can't he lead, plan and initiate that's a turnoff to me

Some guys definitely test your boundaries. If you say no they can get stubborn and try to change your mind. What they don't realize is how uncomfortable that is for a woman. We don't want to feel like our "No" isn't being taken serious and like you are treating it like a game to conquer..

[cynthiajohnson]

Jackson Browne wrote a song called "You Love The Thunder". "You love the thunder and you love the rain. What you see revealed within the anger is worth the pain. Before the lightening fades and you surrender, you've got a second to look at the dark side of a man." I'd like to have a good idea of what a man's dark side looks like before I get too involved. I don't want to trigger that but I do want to wait and get to know a guy and see him in different frustrating situations to see how he handles them. I think there is something about seeing how men handle anger before you get sucked into a relationship.

[Suz]

Thank you Monique for this video! Men seem to test us for everything. These are good to know.

[sweetpotatoepieeee]

Back bone...too true sis ❤ I like how you said "I was not available for that"

[authenticparenting]

It seems that being honest with yourself and knowing your own requirements/limitations is your greatest attribute. Hold yourself accountable. "A virtuous woman, who can find one?"

[ruthwells]

All so true. I know a man who seems to like my TOTAL HONESTY with him. Even if no romance develops women need to realize respect is EVERYTHING in a mans’ world. A puppet/doormat gets walked over and USED!!!!

[evelyndiggs]

Thanks, very helpful. It clarifies why men ask and make seemingly random requests.

[vanessachambers]

Thank you Monique for this message much needed to hear this😊

[bandwagon]

If man is serious with his aim on relationship the last thing he starts to speak in early stage is sex. It's like reinforcements in warfare - sex is that "strategic reserves".

[btfields]

I dont have time for games & tests and always being on guard. I just wanna date someone, im not asking for marriage ASAP! Jeez

[awesome-brs]

Love that comment about the vision has not been set so don't plant that seed within me6. That's golden!! 💖

[SimplyMee..]

I guess I have such a great awareness of self I've never had issues like this from men.

[Panamaschild]

Thanks sista. I needed this word from another woman like yourself.

[christinalopez]

Thank you for this very sound advice, Yes, women it is OK to have a backbone and stand up for your integrity..❤

[denisecoleman]

Hello thank you for sharing this was great

[ataleofjoy]

Monique, on a date and the man asks to split the bill, what high value response would you suggest to say if he’s testing us?

[nobubelenaledi]

Hi Monique
So I’ve heard women say, “my husband told me he was going to marry me on our first date or first week!” You also shared this as well in a couple of your videos.
Here’s my question; does every man mean it and how can I tell when he doesn’t?

[mslikenootha]

I’ve had that book why men love bitches oh my for yeeeearss idk I have mixed feelings about some of it. It sounds like to me some of what you said is more like men maturity level than a test, when I go on dates I always ask to pay half or the tip and usually they pay it all even when I’m in a relationship I offer the same or to pay it all, not all the time but most of the time I’ll offer

[majesticqueenj]

Great Great topic! I have a question I’m a little unclear but I feel I may struggle in this area being an empath. The last question you mentioned in regards to the man is asking if you would love his son Or not. I’m kind a lost I didn’t really get it or understand your response to that question. Thanks again!